I too have had a similar experience to Allan above with most of the same consequences. I had the da Vinci machine (surgical robot) which was supposed to minimise damage. Net result was that everything healed up very quickly and I was walking around the day after the surgery and mobile at home in two days albeit with a catheter. Was advised that both nerve bundles remained undisturbed so potency and continence were expected to return quickly. Not the case so far. At 6 months out, potency remains very occasional even using Viagra, Levitra, Cialis I havent yet tried the injections. Intercourse is difficult but not entirely impossible. Continence has just about fully returned but I have to keep up the pelvic floor exercises to stop the occasional dribble. My orgasms when they occurred, fortunately manually induced, resulted in climacturia (ejecting urine instead of semen), usually emptying the bladder quite forcibly. I am told this will disappear but so far no sign and very inhibiting on activities. However the advice is that it typically takes 18 months for things to come back to reasonable function. The accompanying sensation is directly proportion to the fullness of the bladder further complicating any sexual activities. So still working on it. Am nearly 70 so should be getting over it anyway I suppose.
Am I sorry I went the way I did? No but I am not really all that sure. I looked at all the options and really made an informed decision that fitted my particular situation. Radiation didn't appeal since it can result in radiation burn damage to adjoining structuresand is particularly bad if the bowel gets affected. Also there is no real assurance of total cure and once radiated, a prostatectomy cannot be done safely.
There was the option of doing nothing and trying to slow it down so that it didn't get too serious before something else got me. That would have required T suppression with lifestyle consequences of loss of muscle mass, osteoporosis etc.Also if the cancer wins, it is a verrrrry painful way to go.
The real deciding factor that tipped the scales in the end was that mine was an early stage cancer and once the prostate is gone is out the threat of prostate cancer disappears completely forever. I agonised over it all, though, for about three months before I went for the final solution.
Right now I am in good health and reasonably fit so getting along all right with most of my activities. I am using T gels to offset my damaged testicles (extensive banding and piercing plus ravages of time not a consequence of the surgery). I think my strength has picked up a bit so overall am happy with myself and where I am at. Life goes on. Still think about removing the balls though but not as strongly as I once did. Maybe a bit more abuse will shut them down all together and I could then get them surgically removed

D:D I did think about asking the Surgeon to take care of them along with the prostate but chickened out.
Hope this helps any one else who is in this position. Life continues at a little slower pace and is still enjoyable even if some of the peaks are shaved off. One thing I would say to everyone here, if you are over 40, get annual PSA blood tests so that you will know if your prostate is acting up in time to do something about it. If you have family history of prostate cancer start the testing at 25. If you get it early enough you will be reasonably OK and functional. If not, PC is a terrible way to die.
With that I will get off my


and leave you all in peace