(For married people...) sharing your fantasy with wife?

[1tc (imported)]

Just read the bull castration experience, that raised the question that i have already discussed with some other folks on chat.

How many of us dare / can share the castration fantasy with their wives?

Second to the castration fantasy, is my fantasy of my wife sharing this with me. However, I am too embaressed and afraid of her reaction if I tell her that I have a fantasy of having my balls removed...

Any other experiences?

[Uncle Flo (imported)]

My wife is not only aware of my wishes she also is accepting of my castration. --FLO--

[Kangan (imported)]

My wife knows all about my castration - she even got to watch.

[DeaconBlues (imported)]

My wife is WAY too priggish and high strung for me to EVER discuss anything important with her. She would start crying and bawling if I even broached the subject.

[Arab Nights (imported)]

Mine knows about it and loves it!

[kaimanawa (imported)]

nope - my lady wont think its "normal" - so better keep it to myself and come here

[markdf (imported)]

Second to the castration fantasy, is my fantasy of my wife sharing this with me. However, I am too embaressed and afraid of her reaction if I tell her that I have a fantasy of having my balls removed...

Any other experiences?

You've just got to ease her into it really gradually. I assume you have sex, from time to time? Get her more into testicle play, squeezing them, maybe doing a few things that obviously hurt you a bit. And when she does that stuff, follow it up by giving her the best goddam fucking she's ever had.

It's Pavlovian, after a while she wont be able to help getting hot at the idea of ball-busting. Give enough time, you can probably turn her into your own little castatrix, and have HER bringing up the idea of doing you.

Good luck, man.

[Arab Nights (imported)]

I agree with Markdf. If I read the response right, you have not brought up the subject because you know the answer. The question naturally follows, "If you have not asked the question, how do you know the answer?" The next question is, "If it is important to you, how can you NOT share it?"

If you are really unsure, Mark gave you really, really good advice. Lead her slowly into it. Give her time to mentally digest each step.

If you and her get on the same plane, you will have the best sex life of any of your friends. I took Mark's path with R. It has been kind of a two steps forward and one back kind of thing. And not all of the one step backs were because of her. But we have gotten to the point where we share a turnon and every day have running jokes about it. After a decade of marriage, it could be worse. I look back on it and kick myself for not comunicating earlier with her.

Good luck.

[T. Willy (imported)]

I keep my castration fantasy to myself and have done so for over 20 years. My wife would not accept this idea. I have hidden my testicle torture from her and do not plan to tell her. When she is away and we can not have sex together I go through a testicle torture routine alone by myself to get aroused and masturbate to relieve the tension of not having her around. I am planning a session for this weekend when she will be away on business. I have banded, crushed, cut open the scrotum 4 times to expose the left testicle and done extreme nipple torture. I have left the right testicle untouched so I can still have sex with my wife, the left one has shrunk to less than one quarter size. I get great pleasure from these sessions but consider myself very normal. Are there any suggestions for a good stimulating self castration fantasy session.

[coinflipper_21 (imported)]

You know that you have a good sexual relationship with a woman when you can share dark fantasies with each other and explore them to your mutual pleasure. Unfortunately, my wife became a therapist. When she went back to graduate school to get her degree and her license our sex live ended. Everything but plain penis in vagina sex became "diagnostic". I've since learned to keep a lot of things to myself, not mention my sexual fantasies.