DaveB (imported) wrote: Thu Sep 06, 2007 1:38 am
Yes 50mg.should be enough,I did drop down to 50 on monday and I feel really good right now.Tha worse thing about chemical castration or like real castration its allot of body change and wow what a change.The wife on saturday wanted to have sex so we did try.I was amazed that I did get an erection not real hard but it was enough to penatrate her but after about a couple of min. I lost it ,Just couldnt get aroused enough and didnt really care,but we tryed.She was kind of upset becouse she was horny and she told me she really didnt think it was going to be that hard on her,I didnt no what to say besides im sorry.So I think we still can work this out some how but im not sure how to make her happy now with sex,any ideas?
You've reached that zone where sex seems pointless. And that this seems perfectly normal. I've been there. If your situation follows mine she is going to start by blaming herself. She will think "His lack of interest is my fault because I'm not sexy enough or I'm too fat etc, etc, etc." Remember she is conditioned to have you "respond" and now suddenly your not. Why will be a big question but she might not accept the real answer if you tell her your taking these drugs. But I think its important to try so she doesn't get upset with herself.
She will probably find your lack of interest (No matter that it is chemically created) to be a personal insult.
The bad (very) thing is that she will stop being angry with herself and turn that emotion to you. *Again if this follows what happened to me. You can just make mental plans to go through the motions (Sister's suggestions are good) or stop your chemical castration plan. I don't remember why you started but maybe ponder why your doing this now that your not "wired" sexually. Perhapes your rational choice when your hormones were still raging is not the right one now?