I'm not a doctor - from what I've read a person who is castrated and does not use HRT will have a prostate that shrinks. Will it stop funcitioning? I don't think so but greatly reduced perhapes.
homptydumpty (imported) wrote: Sat May 19, 2007 10:58 pm
yea! its ok then. not that i really am that excited about it. it feels good, and when i think about it the dream reminds me of sexual pleasure.
its nice to have the feeling of release, its become a feeling i had forgotten was so intense. the only real worry is waking up wet.
mrt, when i think about it, i do remember that when i had not ejaculated for a period of time, the wet dreams would happen, so now that i am not releasing anything my body is doing it for me, while i sleep. do you think that this means my prostate is shutting down? will i soon no longer be able to ejaculate at all?
i like the fact that we all are so different when it comes to our dreams.
Thats right z the testes produce less then 5% of your emissions. So until your prostate dwindles there is 95% still chugging away.
homptydumpty (imported) wrote: Tue May 22, 2007 12:32 pm
the nocturnal emission comes from the prostate. in other other words the ejaculate is still in need of being released, there for triggering my body to cum while asleep.
I believe that only those who never have sex or masturbate have "wet dreams." I have never had one in my entire life.
Doing things while asleep is called sleep walking, and can be dangerous to the individual. Most sleepwalkers never leave the bed, but some get up and start doing things and you should stop them because they could hurt themselves. I was told that those who sleepwalk usually have some mental problems and should seek help.
Dreams are insight into your soul, and a way for you subconscious mind to talk to the conscious mind. Problem is the subconscious mind talks in symbols are riddles. Example: you dream your taking a trip by car probably indicates a direction you should take, or that your path is wide open and your cruising along, etc... it does not necessarily mean your going to take a trip.
I had a four part dream over three nights a few months ago (they are special messages) and in the last two parts my father (now deceased) visited me in me, and we hugged. We both said "I love you." then woke up each time. When i woke up I knew my father had visited me in my dream and I felt like our souls had actually touched....i still do.
this may be a bit off the dream side of the topic.
I was feeling a bit uptight, and sexually frustrated. i had been a bit turned on after the wet dream, yet thought that the emotion would go away. it did not. touching my body feels just as good as ever before, i love my self, and think it only right to show my body a little love. i took it to the next step with the loving and was rubbing and thrusting when my body erupted into a full blown orgasm, everything felt right, yet i failed to have any release, nothing came out, not even a puddle like the emission i had in my sleep a week before.
this really made me feel strange, and has been on my mind. the thought of not ever having a release agin scares me a bit. i am only 8 months post op. is it normal to still feel sexual enough to rub one off? and why would i cum in my sleep, yet not in self stimulation.
oh, and yes i do still have the issue with the engorged aftermath of stimulation on the penis.
mrt (imported) wrote: Wed May 23, 2007 4:19 am
Thats right z the testes produce less then 5% of your emissions. So until your prostate dwindles there is 95% still chugging away.
i like this, yet i wonder then where it is coming from? the body must produce it like saliva! my only concern would be to dry up, i fear that there could be a consequence to that.
homptydumpty (imported) wrote: Mon May 28, 2007 8:41 am
i like this, yet i wonder then where it is coming from? the body must produce it like saliva! my only concern would be to dry up, i fear that there could be a consequence to that.
z
Testosterone is (I think) the fuel for the prostate. So without testosterone the Prostate will shrink and produce less seminal fluid. A dry orgasm may not have anything to do with that. Believe it or not orgasm does not "always" include ejaculation and ejaculation does not always require orgasm.
Many men choose bilateral orchiectomy when they are diagnosed with prostate cancer and this does work
homptydumpty (imported) wrote: Mon May 28, 2007 8:41 am
i like this, yet i wonder then where it is coming from? the body must produce it like saliva! my only concern would be to dry up, i fear that there could be a consequence to that.
z
I don't think there's going to be any horrible problems from drying up, though you might miss having the release. Some men have to have the prostate removed entirely, due to cancer, which shows you can live without a prostate all together. I think the biggest issue for eunuchs is osteoporosis from loss of calcium. So be sure to keep an eye on that.
homptydumpty (imported) wrote: Mon May 28, 2007 8:41 am
i like this, yet i wonder then where it is coming from? the body must produce it like saliva! my only concern would be to dry up, i fear that there could be a consequence to that.
z
Z,
You have to only think back of your childhood, at the time your prostate was very small and 100% "dry". You did not produce any sperm or significant amounts of testosterone either.
The only consequence from a dry prostate may (it may just as well not) be increasing sexual impotence, though overall, it is a good thing for your body in terms of future risk of prostate disorders.
PS: Beside the prostate, the seminal vesicle, wich lies right at the bottom of the urine bladder, produces as much as 50% of the adult male seminal fluid; a tiny amount of fluid is also being produced at the bulbourethral glands, none of wich are removed at the time of castration.
One of them was in my teens and was interesting in two ways. First off the dream wasn't sexual at all. Second, I woke up in the middle of ejaculation. I remember in the dream suddenly feeling that intense pleasure coming on, then feeling the muscle contractions start... Then I woke up and it was really happening! I had a few contractions during sleep and a few after I woke up. And, of course, a wet mess to clean up! This happened during a very busy time in my life (we were moving, painting, fixing up the house (both the old one and the new one), ect and I hadn't masterbated in several days).
The other one was just a year or two ago. I had planned to purposely abstain from any type of sexual activity for an entire month. Probably around day 19 or so I had the wet dream. I have to say, trying to abstain for a month like that was the most difficult thing I had ever done in my whole life, and I'm a guy with a lot of willpower! It wasn't too hard at first. The urges would come and go as usual. But over time the urges kept getting stronger and stronger, and eventually I got so horny it was unreal. I mean I litterally could hardly think of anything besides sex. I was having serious trouble concentrating both at work and at home. I don't think I have ever been that horny even during my teen years.
Anyway, my point is, I think the reason why many of you don't have wet dreams is because of other sexual activity. The only time you'll have a wet dream is if you haven't ejaculated in several days.
This should probably have been put into a seperate thread... But since a few others have mentioned Erotic Dreams, here's my experience with them:
I've had a handful of erotic dreams. Most of the time its just a dream with a sexual theme, and I wake up either just before it gets good (ie: just as I barely start to feel that first bit of orgasmic pleasure) or well before that. That is often very annoying or frustrating.
Sometimes, though, I actually feel pleasure in these dreams. It is very interesting, and nice, when it happens, because there are no muscle contractions with it. Usually the intense pleasure sensation lasts longer than an orgasm would in real life, sometimes several seconds longer.
One time it was really cool because I had a very erotic dream and when the pleasure came it lasted extrodinarily long, and kind of oscillated very very slowly (ie: getting really intense, then ebbing away to less intense, then getting really intense again, then ebbing away, and on and on). I don't know exactly how long it was but it had to be at least a full minute. But when I woke up I had a throbbing headache, and was dizzy, and felt disoriented. I always wonder if somehow I ate something bad/rotten/poisonous or was intentionally drugged by someone that night. I also would give just about anything to experience that kind of pleasure again (although I could certainly do without the headache at the end!!!).
