Interested Women are Rare but There!

[coinflipper_21 (imported)]

You don't find them often but there are women out there who are interested in castrating men.

Twenty-seven years ago I chanced to step into the elevator of an office building in Beverly Hills. As I pressed the button for my floor I noticed that the two other people in the car were a well-known actress/singer, who had a reputation around town as a "dirty old lady" (who I will not name) and another very attractive, somewhat younger, lady.

As the car started up they looked at me as though I were a piece of meat that they were considering in the butcher's case.

The actress turned to her friend and said, "He looks like he could be fun but only for a few years. You know what men are like. They hit forty and it's like someone flipped a switch. I think that all men should be castrated at forty."

I could feel myself blushing. The elevator doors opened and the two women started to leave. As she walked past the actress ran her hand along my cheek.

"And, I would make sure you enjoyed it if I did it to you."

They were laughing as the doors closed behind them.

When you add that incident to the fact that my Mother had threatened to "cut it off" when I discovered the pleasure of playing with my penis in the bath at about age three, (One of my earliest memories.) it's no wonder that I have had castration fantasies ever since.

Has anyone else run into an interested woman?

[mrt (imported)]

You don't find them often but there are women out there who are interested in castrating men.

Twenty-seven years ago I chanced to step into the elevator of an office building in Beverly Hills. As I pressed the button for my floor I noticed that the two other people in the car were a well-known actress/singer, who had a reputation around town as a "dirty old lady" (who I will not name) and another very attractive, somewhat younger, lady.

As the car started up they looked at me as though I were a piece of meat that they were considering in the butcher's case.

The actress turned to her friend and said, "He looks like he could be fun but only for a few years. You know what men are like. They hit forty and it's like someone flipped a switch. I think that all men should be castrated at forty."

I could feel myself blushing. The elevator doors opened and the two women started to leave. As she walked past the actress ran her hand along my cheek.

"And, I would make sure you enjoyed it if I did it to you."

They were laughing as the doors closed behind them.

When you add that incident to the fact that my Mother had threatened to "cut it off" when I discovered the pleasure of playing with my penis in the bath at about age three, (One of my earliest memories.) it's no wonder that I have had castration fantasies ever since.

Has anyone else run into an interested woman?

Any idea what happens at 40? I'm <gulp> 47... And what would castration do to "solve" that or is that just a way to get rid of their sexual interest?

[Eunuchist (imported)]

Any idea what happens at 40? I'm <gulp> 47... And what would castration do to "solve" that or is that just a way to get rid of their sexual interest?

I think it's called the "Past Forties Syndrome", or something in that vein. I have not read much about it on the internet, but recall reading a few chapters dedicated to the issue in one of those "Men's health" books. As men approach fifty, as the theory goes, they start experiencing a "second puberty"; suddenly, they realize that their lives were incomplete, that they have missed on a lot of things they wanted to do, and all the fun they could have. They start cheating on their wives, fall in love again, buy themselves a cool motorcycle and dress like a teenager. Eventually, they realize that they are getting older and are no longer young, so they try making the best of it. Yep, I know that sounds a bit funny but that's what I've read. I think a good example of that in popular media would be the famous sitcom "Married.. with children", partly about the depressed and aging Al Bundy and his "midlife crisis". My mother used to say: "The real weirdos and maniacs are the guys between 50 and 65. They really don't know what they want anymore". Guess she was talking from experience (she's a journalist and have met a lot of people), although I have no particular opinon on the matter. According to the statistics, on the average men have two suicide peaks in their lives: one and the largest occur at about the age of 21 and is often referred to as the "testosterone peak"; the other one peaks at about 65, and the lowest rates are seen in children and the "30's" group.

However, in theory, castrating such men would bring down their boiling hormonal milieu, making them calmer and more affectionate. According to some "observation" reports (notably, those of SalLimpone and his wife here on EA) eunuchs also form better lovers because they are less concerned about penile stimulation, are able to feel intimate with "their bodies" and are more concerned about their partner's pleasure than ever. Of course, bringing down the sex drive is also expected to decrease the chance of cheating.

[FianceeUvBigGuy (imported)]

Ahem...

Yes, there are women interested (see: Fascinated by...) castration. I happen to be one and have a small circle of girlfriends who share my interest to varying degrees and for varying reasons.

I am also privileged to have a close friend who is a voluntary eunuch. He is a wonderful and entertaining guy. The relationship includes, but is not based on, sexual intimacy (when he visits San Antonio or we visit him in Lubbock. What a Hellhole.) that is absolutely thrilling for both me and my "roomie" (also a girl puppy).

Our eunuch friend/lover, Barry, has some friends in other Texas cities who are either eunuchs or "wanna-be" types. Some of them have visited our home when Barry is in town and if you think it's exciting to see a peepee with no ballsies beneath it, wait'll you see two or three at the same time...Blush! Neither Ash(leigh), my roomie/bisexual lover engage in sex with the other snippees save for occasional "exams" that require lifting the peepee for a better look. Anyway, they have each other, LOL, and they ARE gay.

So far as our little circle of ladies goes, we are VERY discreet!

We meet for lunch, brunch, Happy Hour, etc, as well as raiding the malls with credit cards in hand...pretty much the usual girlie stuff except for discussing you-know-what and sharing ideas and what few images of castrated guys we can find.

One of the girls has had some luck finding internet pics of what are called "Shemales" who have lost their widdle balls but still have the dickie. I guess those are a turn-on so long as I can ignore the rest of the person...kinda freaks me.

Well, that's it for now. Up early to go take a deposition in Corpus Christi, then stay for a while and get sand between my cute little pedicured toes and maybe toast my titties on a secluded stretch of beach.

Love to all!

Yolanda/Yoli

Did I shave my legs for this?

[mrt (imported)]

I think it's called the "Past Forties Syndrome", or something in that vein. I have not read much about it on the internet, but recall reading a few chapters dedicated to the issue in one of those "Men's health" books. As men approach fifty, as the theory goes, they start experiencing a "second puberty"; suddenly, they realize that their lives were incomplete, that they have missed on a lot of things they wanted to do, and all the fun they could have. They start cheating on their wives, fall in love again, buy themselves a cool motorcycle and dress like a teenager. Eventually, they realize that they are getting older and are no longer young, so they try making the best of it. Yep, I know that sounds a bit funny but that's what I've read. I think a good example of that in popular media would be the famous sitcom "Married.. with children", partly about the depressed and aging Al Bundy and his "midlife crisis". My mother used to say: "The real weirdos and maniacs are the guys between 50 and 65. They really don't know what they want anymore". Guess she was talking from experience (she's a journalist and have met a lot of people), although I have no particular opinon on the matter. According to the statistics, on the average men have two suicide peaks in their lives: one and the largest occur at about the age of 21 and is often referred to as the "testosterone peak"; the other one peaks at about 65, and the lowest rates are seen in children and the "30's" group.

However, in theory, castrating such men would bring down their boiling hormonal milieu, making them calmer and more affectionate. According to some "observation" reports (notably, those of SalLimpone and his wife here on EA) eunuchs also form better lovers because they are less concerned about penile stimulation, are able to feel intimate with "their bodies" and are more concerned about their partner's pleasure than ever. Of course, bringing down the sex drive is also expected to decrease the chance of cheating.

I had hypogonadism instead of a midlife crisis so I guess I'm missing that. Since I started on HRT I do have a feeling of Puberty part Duex. Girlfriends I don't need. Not that I don't (REALLY) like to look now. I guess I sowed by wild oats early. Perhapes my hormones did a last time peak light a light bulb going off. In any event my actions then were not so smart or good. Puberty part Duex is focused on Mrs T

[coinflipper_21 (imported)]

I had hypogonadism instead of a midlife crisis so I guess I'm missing that. Since I started on HRT I do have a feeling of Puberty part Duex. Girlfriends I don't need. Not that I don't (REALLY) like to look now. I guess I sowed by wild oats early. Perhapes my hormones did a last time peak light a light bulb going off. In any event my actions then were not so smart or good. Puberty part Duex is focused on Mrs T

I

I had that prolactin producing tumor turning off my testicles for 12 years. It was no erections, no drive (sexual or otherwise), massive weight gain, and severe depression. Life had a palpable thickness to it, like walking around under water all the time. My penis lost an inch and a half in the length and one-half inch in width.

After I was diagnosed and treated, my testicles were too beaten down to resume production, so my doctor put me on Androgel. After the initial painful erections (For the first few weeks erections were like tearing adheasions.) I was back to functioning, although at reduced size. Unfortunately for me, my wife is one of those women (all too common) who could not wait till menopause so she could "retire". Now I have the libido of a twenty-year-old, which is, how shall I put it, distracting. I am afraid to stop the HRT because of the weight gain and ostioporosis.

It's kind of strange to have castration fantasies when I know that all I have to do be a enunuch is stop using the Androgel.

[mrt (imported)]

I had that prolactin producing tumor turning off my testicles for 12 years. It was no erections, no drive (sexual or otherwise), massive weight gain, and severe depression. Life had a palpable thickness to it, like walking around under water all the time. My penis lost an inch and a half in the length and one-half inch in width.

After I was diagnosed and treated, my testicles were too beaten down to resume production, so my doctor put me on Androgel. After the initial painful erections (For the first few weeks erections were like tearing adheasions.) I was back to functioning, although at reduced size. Unfortunately for me, my wife is one of those women (all too common) who could not wait till menopause so she could "retire". Now I have the libido of a twenty-year-old, which is, how shall I put it, distracting. I am afraid to stop the HRT because of the weight gain and ostioporosis.

It's kind of strange to have castration fantasies when I know that all I have to do be a enunuch is stop using the Androgel.

Hummm. Well this is just a 2 cents worth of opinions. When I got on HRT I felt pretty odd for a while. The energy, mood etc was great. The sudden shift in sex drive was "difficult" at first. Taking a relationship that is pretty close to non sexual and make it a regular part of the diet takes some serious work. Be sure you communicate with your wife. She is probably "comfortable" in being non sexual. Menopause may effect her the same as when you were having hormonal problems. I know female HRT is suddenly controversial but I think its pretty simple. Don't put women who have been without hormones suddenly on massive doses. *Heart attacks. Don't use hormones meant for horses on women. *Use only Human Hormones. Don't blindly give Estrogen. *Test and combine it with progesterone and testosterone but only if needed. Some women have too much estrogen! Then keep retesting *As they are doing you and I. If you do that she will fell great and it will be very helpful for her sex drive.

Now, the question I've been asking. For men with non-functioning testicles. Are we still men? Eunuchs? Or what? If we take HRT (Androgel) does that change anything?

[kristoff]

Now, the question I've been asking. For men with non-functioning testicles. Are we still men? Eunuchs? Or what? If we take HRT (Androgel) does that change anything?

As far as I am concerned, if your testicles are missing or are totally or mostly non-functional, you are a eunuch. Period. Whether you are a "man" is entirely dependent upon your own mind-set on the subject.

I am a eunuch - undoubtedly. No nuts, no testoserone. AND I am a MAN. That is how I act, feel, and think. That is how I identify.

[mrt (imported)]

As far as I am concerned, if your testicles are missing or are totally or mostly non-functional, you are a eunuch. Period. Whether you are a "man" is entirely dependent upon your own mind-set on the subject.

I am a eunuch - undoubtedly. No nuts, no testoserone. AND I am a MAN. That is how I act, feel, and think. That is how I identify.

The question came up because of a comment about using Androgel. The point being "Androgel (Any External Testosterone) makes the Testes shut down sperm and testosterone production. Take it long enough and they atrophy in size until you have a set of rasins. So, I was asked "if I take Androgel am I castrating myself?" I said No. But then I thought about it some more and said Maybe. Now, I just not sure. Say you take this until your testes shrink down to zilch or you decide they are gone already and just have them removed. Does it matter? Are you a eunuch? The surgery was "castration" but is it still castration or are you still a Eunuch if you take Testosterone? I guess I'm wondering what the cut off is as defined by those who know? Its not a big deal I guess - I'm just curious.

As to the Man comment. Ok, is a Eunuch a "third sex" or even a non sexual person? If we take someone who has an orchiectomy and takes estrogen/progresterone and has SRS surgery. Don't we have a woman? Frankly I think so. If we take a person castrate them but keep them on Testosterone don't we still have a man? If we do the orchiectomy and don't give them testosterone don't we have some one "different" from either? So, is it the hormones? The Testicles? Or ?

I know there are some posts saying that hormones without balls does not equal the same experience. I would like to know what (Other then the physical sensation and sperm) the difference is. I guess its impossible to tell for sure what the diffference is between a person born female and one who has transitioned that way. But I'm still curious what is the difference and why.

I know... I have too many questions!

[kristoff]

The question came up because of a comment about using Androgel. The point being "Androgel (Any External Testosterone) makes the Testes shut down sperm and testosterone production. Take it long enough and they atrophy in size until you have a set of rasins. So, I was asked "if I take Androgel am I castrating myself?" I said No. But then I thought about it some more and said Maybe. Now, I just not sure. Say you take this until your testes shrink down to zilch or you decide they are gone already and just have them removed. Does it matter? Are you a eunuch? The surgery was "castration" but is it still castration or are you still a Eunuch if you take Testosterone? I guess I'm wondering what the cut off is as defined by those who know? Its not a big deal I guess - I'm just curious.

As to the Man comment. Ok, is a Eunuch a "third sex" or even a non sexual person? If we take someone who has an orchiectomy and takes estrogen/progresterone and has SRS surgery. Don't we have a woman? Frankly I think so. If we take a person castrate them but keep them on Testosterone don't we still have a man? If we do the orchiectomy and don't give them testosterone don't we have some one "different" from either? So, is it the hormones? The Testicles? Or ?

I know there are some posts saying that hormones without balls does not equal the same experience. I would like to know what (Other then the physical sensation and sperm) the difference is. I guess its impossible to tell for sure what the diffference is between a person born female and one who has transitioned that way. But I'm still curious what is the difference and why.

I know... I have too many questions!

Excellent observations and questions. I would very much like to see this very topic dissected by the entire forum membership at great length. It could and should be lively, thought provoking, and a great discussion.