Is Homosexuality like a switch we turn on for light?

[tugon (imported)]

And btw, do Catholic people have sex for entertainment purposes? (I mean, besides Catholic Priests. They're obviously not trying to procreate) And if they do, is it a sin? Is it a sin for two people to make each other feel good? Or do Catholics only have sex to procreate. I ask because I know Catholics that only have one or two children. And I wonder if they've only had sex twice. Or did they quit having sex after their second child. That's a long life ahead of them to not have sex anymore.

If I had been born a woman instead of a man this Catholic eunuch would have about 20 children. So yes some of us like to be entertained.

[A-1 (imported)]

People try to polarize this gay - straight thing too much.

You are either one or the other, they think.

Well, this may come as a shock, but nobody is completely one or the other. We just choose a lifestyle or become accustomed to a lifestyle and we live it and our dysfunctional society will not let us move freely from one lifestyle to the next. We come to prefer it. Behavior is hard to change. We all have it within us to change to whatever we want to become.

Transexuals may be an exception.

Oh, sure, we have preferences. But that is only if we decide that we never want to try anything new.

With that said, I may be Gay. I have never tried it. I may be a transexual or cross-dresser, I have never tried it. (I'd make a DAMN UGLY woman, in my estimation, though ) I have never felt the need to change. My sister never dressed up as a girl for a joke or for Halloween, either. I have had friends whose sisters did, though. One of them in 6th grade dressed up as a girl for Halloween and we all wondered who the new, good-looking girl in class was. We never even noticed that he was not there and that this girl was him by elimination. As far as I kow it was a one time thing for him. HE never said otherwise and I never asked him about it.

How many Gays may be Straight, but have never tried it? Who knows?

The dysfunctional society and my commitments and vows have restricted me to heterosexuality. I am happy with how I am. I wish the same for all.

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[tugon (imported)]

Seriously being homosexual was such an integral part of me that I never thought about being any other way. I have always felt it was the way I was meant to be much the way I thought it must be for heterosexuals. I knew I was meant to be attracted to and love men. Women are nice but there is no attraction sexually. My only choice was to be true to myself or to hide. Well lucky for me my classmates figured me out before I did so I was drug out of the closet and once out liked the view.

Growing up Catholic there was a bit of guilt. I always heard all the terrible things that would be said to me and the amount of hate and violence I would endure. While in high school I began to wonder if maybe everyone was right. My thinking was can this many people be wrong. It was then I looked within myself and realized that I was a good and loving person. I figured out that my hopes and dreams about a loving relationship were the same. After that realization I began to see it as others' problems. I was not ashamed or felt bad about being gay.

[kristoff]

As for me: women, men, small furry creatures, the occasional inanimate object, it's all the same to me. To quote the famous band DR. HOOK : "Sometimes I dream of girls to bring me everlasting joy, sometimes I dream of animals, sometimes I dream of boys!" Does that qualify as pan sexual? More truthfully; I've never differentiated, except situationally, between males or females as potential sex partners. (let the flaming begin!) --FLO--

As one of my graduate profs was fond of saying, "A warm, dark, moist hole, is a warm, dark, moist hole.... A stiff prick knows not the difference." It is only what is between our ears that knows.

[numnuts (imported)]

Not to go off subject, even though I am. But isn't there a drink called a 'Stiff Prick'?

I've never had one, (the drink) and I was wondering if anyone here has had one (the drink) and if they know what's in a stiff prick (the drink).

It's the drink I'm talking about here. I can't emphasize that enough.

[kristoff]

Not to go off subject, even though I am. But isn't there a drink called a 'Stiff Prick'?

I've never had one, (the drink) and I was wondering if anyone here has had one (the drink) and if they know what's in a stiff prick (the drink).

It's the drink I'm talking about here. I can't emphasize that enough.

Never heard of it (the drink). On the other hand I am rather fond of "Duck Farts" (a drink), but I can never remember what's in them the next morning....

[A-1 (imported)]

Latest genetic research indicated that there is a genetic pre-disposition for Gayness, but that there also seems to be an environmental "trigger"

I will post more when I have the time...

Gotta go see momma...



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[numnuts (imported)]

I don't believe in genetic pre-dispositions. That's ridiculous. All humans are born exactly alike, and then they choose what to look like and what to become. Black people are born white, then choose to become black. Some are born short, then decide to become tall. And on and on. Nothng is random. Life is a series of choices, and people choose their traits. Even the ones with mental illness. Mental illness is a choice. Just like one's favorite food or favorite color. Parent's choose to love their children (they don't have to). Couples choose to love their partners. Just as heterosexuals can easily choose to love a partner of the same gender, homosexuals can easily choose to love a partner of the opposite gender.

Okay, sarcasm off.

The heart wants what the heart wants. You can not legislate love or attraction. It is indefinable, and so should it remain. Perhaps the stereo-typical 'gay' is after sex with same gendered humans. But that's never been my goal. I don't claissify myself as gay, as I don't feel I fit the profile. It's not about sex to me. Alls I know is every person I've ever fallen in love with, just happend to have a penis. Maybe I'm just not so superficial. I can't say, and I don't care to know. I bring no harm to anyone with my feelings or desires. I've been a non-heterosexual since I was a little boy. They can study it inside out, upside down, and forward and backward for all I care. They're not going to tell me anything I don't already know. In fact, I could tell them a few things. (who are 'They' anyway?) They only reason I can see for studying it, is so they can change it or eliminate it. And to me, there's nothing wrong with it as it is. There's nothing that needs changing, except for the predjudice, bias, and intolerance that persists by governmental approval.

From the town of Bedrock,

Mrs. Wilma Flintstone.

[numnuts (imported)]

You know, if homosexuality is a choice, then all heterosexuals have to be at least bi-sexual. Otherwise, they would have had no need to make a choice, would they?

If homosexuals aren't born homosexual, then there's no way heterosexuals can be born heterosexuals. The concept has to exist in tandem with both orientations, otherwise it's a broken theory.

So again, if homosexuality is a choice, so then must be heterosexuality. Which again still, would mean that all heterosexuals were at least bi-sexual at some point, and then they simply made their 'choice'.

How's them bananas?

[Riverwind (imported)]

My older brother was gay, I had a chance to ask him once if he was always gay or what? He said he never was anything but gay. He died 20 years ago, I love you Bro where ever you are.

River