Vaginoplasty Only

[sparkey49 (imported)]

Xdreamer that would be fantastic!

[Chrissym (imported)]

It is pretty fantastic sparkey49 and yes Xdreamer i did have to convince a psychologist to give me approval but i didnt take any estrogen and ultimately just went to Thailand and had SRS. I considered taking estrogen post op but my boyfriend is gay not bi, so here I am.

[bimale4fun23 (imported)]

The key is finding the right psychologist to give you approval, without that your totally fucked. Once you have the approval, it is much easier to have the surgery in Thailand then in the states. All i had to do was put a dress on and get approval from Thai Psychologist to get my surgery. It is a surgery you can't take lightly and you must be ready for the consequences that come along with it.

Chrissym, You stated that your boyfriend is gay and not bi, you would think he would be attracted to penises and not vagina's. How where you both able to work through your issues to not damage the relationship. The sex may be great, your needs are being met with PIV, but how about his needs?

[Chrissym (imported)]

Hi bimale4fun23

You are spot on with finding the right psychologist and i did pretty exactly the same as you. How have you found it??

To be honest my boyfriend is actually my housemate. With the exception of a vagina i have no other feminine characteristics since i had the surgery without having taken estrogen and i am now on regular testosterone shots. He walked in on me about 6 months after my surgery and discovered my new anatomy. While I was never gay prior, after talking about it and due to his interest in me prior my surgery we agreed to trial sex and a relationship. For obvious reasons he is the dominant partner which he likes and while my vagina isnt that attractive to him, my obvious masculinity seems to be enough for him at the moment. Will it last long term I dont know, but i suspect if i do decide to start down the road of feminisation then that will definately end it.

[bimale4fun23 (imported)]

I found it realy interesting. It definitely is better than the junk i had before. Nobody really knows what is between our legs unless we tell them or show it to them, they just assume we have a penis. The only issue is finding a place to pee, waiting for a stall, dirty toilets that we need to clean, or no toilet paper.

It's weird how relationships can happen. You both where good friends and housemates and just that. It had to be a big shock for both of you when he accidentally walked in on you and discovered your new anatomy. Since your boyfriend is a dominant person which he likes and you don't mind being the passive person. He is definitely attracted to your masculine features and the sex is good for both of you, the relationship may last. If he ever decides he needs penis or you feminize, that will most likely end it. Don't put yourself in a position where one of you will get hurt.

[Chrissym (imported)]

It definately is interesting. All my life i hated the junk between my legs i was born with. I used to tape it back with duct tape or even glue if i was feeling adventurous. Not having one has been surreal in a lot if ways even though as you say no one else knows. I did find i became a lot more passive as a result strangely enough. Maybe its primal instinct to be submissive to the man with the bigger dick im not sure. I was also as far as i was aware hetrosexual and perhaps I still am to some extent as I feel i have taken on a female role as I have become a lot more passive and submissive with my housemate since we have been having regular sex and a relationship. The only reason i have remained fully masculine is for him i think and i even wear a prosthetic penis sometimes just make him happy. Long term i do think we both want more but its fun while it lasts.

I feel your pain on peeing. It was an exciting novelty to begin with but definately wears thin after a while doesnt it!

[bimale4fun23 (imported)]

I agree with you 100%. I taped mine too, stuck it between my legs and even tried to pull it off when i was a kid. I don't mind a penis:dong: as long as it is not attached to me.

I think it is very natural to take on the passive role in a relationship. A penis can be very dominating and having a vagina can be passive. We are the ones being penetrated, so we naturally assume the passive role. It is being

submissive to the man with the bigger dick,

so we assume the female role. Maybe taking a more aggressive role would help out. do you ever try to initiate sex or do you just wait for him to decide the time.

Your definitely doing your part by remaining fully masculine and putting on a prosthetic penis to make him happy, but what is he doing to maake you happy. You need to tell him what you like too.

Peeing was an exciting novelty at first, but it wears really thin after awhile. We can't just piss in a bottle or behind a tree anymore. We either have to hold it or find a safe place to pee.

[Chrissym (imported)]

Haha the things we do to feel normal. Its funny while i hated mine, I also didn't really think much of penises in general until recently. Being on the recieving end of one does give a different perspecitive though.

To be honest i am happy being submissive. While it probably isnt the best attitude in day to day life, sexually i am more than happy in that role. While he isnt hugely attracted to my vagina, our normal routine goes with me giving oral while i wear the prosthetic and then he does me from behind to finish off. Not a lot of orgasms from my part but it does feel nice and I like knowing ive got him off.

Long term who knows. Have you taken estrogen?

[bimale4fun23 (imported)]

We do the things to feel normal. I like it flat down there and it looks good on me The only penis i ever seen much was my own, now we just don't see one as often. I agree that b

eing on the recieving end of one does give a different perspec

tive.

While you are happy being submissive, you should take a more active role in day to day life. Try to find ways for him to be more attracted to your vagina, it won't bite him. Try different things and different positions. He makes you wear the prosthetic to simulate you have a penis while you give him oral. He then takes you from behind to simulate as you two where having anal sex. He is getting his nuts off, but what about you? To me it sounds very one sided and you should be getting more pleasure out of the relationship.

I have not taken any estrogen yet, just testosterone, but maybe someday in the future i would love to try estrogen.

[Nidaho Rachel (imported)]

Bimale4fun23 and Crissym reading about both of your experiences has been very insightful! The fact that you both side stepped the gate keepers and got what you have been looking for most of your life is fantastic! It gives others hope that it can happen!

I'm sure that some reality sets in after the surgery and you go back to trying the live you life . Trying to keep this stealth I'm sure is a worrie too.

It's great to see others living the way I have wished to become!