Some Hetro Men Speak about what they want as a Castration, and how they feel about it

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Some Hetro Men Speak about what they want as a Castration, and how they feel about it.!

a Lady asks; It would be good to hear the intact men in this group comment on when and under what conditions they would be comfortable with being surgically castrated.———— >

Man 1

This is a very difficult question, but a very important and pertinent question for those of us

seeking our own eunuch as most of the applicants to serve as a lady’s eunuch that we have seen are uncut males. There are a large number of surgically castrated eunuchs but most of them are either gay or older cancer patients that are already in relationships.

Also, it would be helpful to hear men’s comments on how a woman can determine if a male is sincere in his intent to be castrated I used to think I wanted to be castrated under any

circumstances, and I looked at it as some sort of sexual fulfillment. I wanted it to be in a "scene."

I've taken a long time to look at why it is I want to be castrated, though, and over time, my desires have mellowed. What it comes down to is, I want to occupy the unsaid middle in gender differences: I want to consider myself still male (let us face it, removing our genitalia does not change our genetics; we may not be intact, but we are no less male than the day we were born) but less part of the male dominant hierarchy. I'm unhappy with maleness, both symbolically and practically, and castration is a way of defying the traditional power structure while still keeping my sense of self. It's also a way of escaping traditional gender roles and responses.

When I realized this, I realized that various "scenes" I had fantasized about wouldn't be appropriate. What would be appropriate is waiting for the right woman--a woman who wants me as an equal, who wants a lover, a friend, a companion, a teddy bear, but all without

penetrative sex. For me, removing my ability to penetrate does not equal sexlessness; it means that

the sex I will have will be in a shared, affectionate role, not a dominant role. For that reason, I would

want my castration to be a shared experience, like a rite of passage or a ceremony of transition, attended

by the woman I love and treated as a celebration. That may not happen, it may be too ideal, it may just be a fantasy, but I hope that someday a woman who wants a caring man of equal stature but who does not want the power distribution inherent in a male/female relationship will find me.

I do not want my castration to be a hasty or lonely experience; it can only happen once, so I want to give it to a woman who wants it and deserves it. Some day I hope to meet her.

Man 2

For those sincere males, ones not living in a fantasy world, the common feeling seems to be that we want to make a special commitment to one woman and to be with and relate to her in a way other than the traditional male/female vanilla relationship, and we do see the erect penis and intercourse as being a part of the male dominant ideal, which is not what we seek.

We also each see this as a "once only" event and a lifetime commitment and yearn for a woman who will also see this is the same way from the other side of the relationship. Accepting our castration as our leaving behind all of our manly ways to commit ourselves to HER special pleasure and happiness.