What ever happened to the Fraj?

[nemo (imported)]

The young man from the UK who came to the states and was castrated. He seems to have disappeared and things didn't sound to good when he left.

[Fen (imported)]

Younger than me even. Went to Kimmel with a group, which I didn't even get. I did it myself, and was very stressed. However, I am quite happy with it and awaiting nullification.

[sag111 (imported)]

From the last i herd of this young man he is doing much better do to some very understanding members on this board.Again we need to thank the people who make this board not only as safe as it is but as kind as it is also.

Thank you Jesus

[Riverwind (imported)]

The Fraj is doing very good at this time. He does have a family that supports him and friends that also understand. There are a couple of members that travel to the UK to see him. Yes, there were two others there when he was castrated, I was one of them. He is a very nice young man.

River

[JesusA (imported)]

I spent three days with TheFraj and his family last summer and talk with him on the telephone regularly (and with his brother and parents occasionally). He's currently doing very well and seems to have come to terms with his mistake. He's one of those for whom castration was absolutely the wrong decision – though he is certain that nothing would have stopped him from doing it at the time.

He's graduated from the university, has a job, and is surrounded by friends and a loving family. (And, has an attractive young woman chasing him!)

He's been talking about a visit to this side of the pond, and I hope that he will spend a few days with me should he do so.

[nemo (imported)]

It is good to hear that he is doing OK. I feared that things went badly.

[JesusA (imported)]

Cybert,

There are certainly others who are younger than you are. I've been in contact with some of them. The key lesson, though, is to be VERY certain of what you want and what the consequences are. As I have written several times, there are some her

e for whom castration was absolutely the

right decision – it has improved their lives – and others for whom the decision has been disasterous. Do your homework. Take a test drive. Don't do it unless absolutely certain. There's no going back.

Jesus

[luvpain (imported)]

I'm glad to hear he is doing good, I still send him Happy Birthday e-mails and such but never get any reply back. I was there when he was done with Riverwind and took care of him the week afterwards. I miss the friendship I made with him.