After much thought and careful consideration, I have decided that it is time to start a thread about any problems that anyone has encountered with surgery performed by any professional. We've all heard horror stories about DIY jobs or cutters, but we're beginning to get some alarming feedback on even the pro's.
This thread is in NO way meant to make allegations at, or to slam Dr. Kimmell OR anyone else doing these surgeries. Right now, there are not a whole lot of real medical professionals out there who take voluntary castration and/or penectomy seriously at all. As weve often said here at EA, we do not endorse using a cutter or having a back-alley castration. We recommend medical professionals, but they are VERY few and far between. No doubt, this is because it would probably do some serious damage to their reputations. In our day and age, even as Society at large has become more liberal and open, its still not perfect.
However, it has been brought to my attention via email, PMs, and IMs lately that several Members who have gone to a pro have had alarming complications. There have been a couple of posts on the Boards here as well, which I think are worth repeating.
I feel it is our duty here on the Archive to bring these to light without naming names or betraying any confidences.
When Dr. Spector began to slip up, there were posts on EA. There was chat on IRC, for those who remember. Posts have begun to show up here, now, again. The fact that I got a few unsolicited emails and PMs also bothers me. Also, a couple of IM chat buddies said the same thing.
When something like, P., I think you need to know about this , come in unexpectedly, I begin to worry. And I DO worry. Not a day goes by that I dont wonder if someone has done something stupid as I would have done, had I not landed in the old Archive chat when I did. I still owe a great debt of gratitude to Talula, Gem, IE, and Portentum wherever he may be.
So, it is my intent to begin this thread for informational purposes only.
Anyone who has had something go wrong with a pro job other than an infection should post that experience here. Infections, I think, are so common as to not warrant posting. I get infections at the drop of a day-old ham sandwich, myself!
The points in question I have been informed of are:
Improper / faulty stitching dissolving sutures where they should not have been used, or vice versa.
Improper / faulty stitching technique / sloppy job / came loose without overexertion.
Drains or lack thereof improper drain (Penrose) technique, or lack thereof.
Loss of information no record of payment, appointment, asking same questions over and over again. Showed up for appointment, only to be told that you didn't have one.
Technique cut cord problems / length left, placement, healing, etc.
And finally:
Bleed-outs this is the big one. Winding up in the local ER down the road to have the job repaired. Not good press at all.
If you have information to share, please do. This is very important to the Community here. As many will tell you, Dr. Spector was a Godsend in his day, but he didnt seem to know when to quit. His slips increased in number, as did the problems. We don't want this happening again.
Again, thank you, and be rational and serious with your posts to this thread. Serious data replies, only please.