becoming a eunuch

[Uncle Flo (imported)]

I am VERY relieved that you have been able to mend your relationship with your parents. Good news, indeed! --FLO--

[philip1 (imported)]

Bubba and I have left the EA chat for good there will be no return ever

[sag111 (imported)]

Phill i herd what happend and i am sorry this happened and i dont blame you for being upset.Their are people all over this world just looking for trouble and yes we have a few here to .I guess i would like to give you the same advice i gave you the other day and thats to let things cool off and take some time to think of everything.We love you my friend and beleave me this upsets me to

[philip1 (imported)]

there will be NO return to the chat.

[philip1 (imported)]

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pent this afternoon with my parents we talked openly about my castration probably freaked out some of the diners at the restaurant we were at but it sure feels good to be able to talk with them openly about it instead of hedging and lieing about it.

[JesusA (imported)]

Phil,

I'm glad to hear that you are finally able to talk with your parents openly about who you really are and have always been. I'm sure that they must have known for years, but have been in denial. It's just too far outside general American concepts of "proper" human nature - though far more common than even you probably think. That they can come this far so quickly is remarkable and demonstrates the amount of love and understanding that you share. You are very fortunate.

I also have a wonderful mental image of the faces at surrounding tables in the restaurant. I took Riverwind and Sag111 to a restaurant just down the hill from my house when they were here. Even though they always dropped their volume down to nearly inaudible whenever critical words came up, I didn't. It was fun to watch.

We need for more people to feel comfortable and be open about castration and eunuchs. The larger society needs to be aware of and far more sympathetic to the issues discussed on the Archive. We especially need intelligent and articulate people, such as yourself, who will begin to increase awareness.

I am impressed by your thoughtfulness and intelligence. Thank you for all of your contributions.

Jesus

[DrewR (imported)]

Yesterday I read an article in which a gay pastor searched "eunuch" in an online King James bible and came up with 30 stories. Wow. Never mind religion, and I know you're asexual, not gay. Just it's evidence that the instinct to be castrated goes way back. What you're doing is a fine and natural thing. If you could go thorugh with it and talk about it openly, then I can come out to my friends about my feelings for eunuchs.

See, you're important to people you never even met.

[philip1 (imported)]

I had a really bad hot flash the other day just suddenly I turned beat red and started sweating but the funny thing is I really haven't had one since at least that I noticed. I have noticed that I cry more easily and thats alot better than getting angry and wanting to kill someone. I also have foutnd that my sense of right and wrong has gone more Black and White and less grey. My life since castration has been rough emotionaly but the end results are all positives and that tells me (without a shadow of doubt) I made the right choice.

[Robby (imported)]

I had a really bad hot flash the other day just suddenly I turned beat red and started sweating but the funny thing is I really haven't had one since at least that I noticed.

I have noticed that I cry more easily and thats alot better than getting angry and wanting to kill someone.

I also have found that my sense of right and wrong has gone more Black and White and less grey.

My life since castration has been rough emotionaly but the end results are all positives and that tells me (without a shadow of doubt) I made the right choice.

Philip,

You are experiencing change of life. Your life will not be the same. Castration is amazing and you get a front row seat. Change takes approximately 1 year from start to finish. Keep close to Bubba as you will need him more than ever.

Take care Philip,

[philip1 (imported)]

BOY was I wrong about the hot flashes being over. Last night I spent the entire night going from 130+f to -5f feelings needless to say i never got to sleep so now i know better than say oh ts over cause it certainly was not however this is nothing that Bubba and I can not get through as we have been through rougher times by far