Treat me like a lady

[jemagirl (imported)]

Hello All,

I had an interesting experience last night that I want to share with you and hopefully get some feedback as well. I went out last night "en drab". That is opposite of en fem for those who don't know. It was strange because every one there treated me like a real lady even though I was not dressed as one. I don't know most of them and don't think they know I am trans gender as i have never been there en fem. One guy read me poems he had written and another kept kissing my hand but he need a bath. The only thing I can think of is either the word is out which saves me the trouble, or I am sending out my girl vibe. Has any one else had a similar experience?

Life is mysterious,

Jema

[sag111 (imported)]

Jema i have always seen you as a lady and in person i seen that to so i think it is hard to hide the real woman thats inside

[jemagirl (imported)]

Jema i have always seen you as a lady and in person i seen that to so i think it is hard to hide the real woman thats inside

Thank you.

Jema

[jemagirl (imported)]

It happened again two more times on different nights. It's like I am a stealth woman or something. I haven't had this sort of thing happen since when I was a teen. I was often read as a girl. At the time it was not welcome because I was trying so hard to be a man. Its good to discover ones self again, especially when you finally can love who you really are Has any one else had this experience? Just curious as to your theories on what is happening. Is it that I look more fem now, or do you thing I am zapping the boys with some kind of TG pheromones. Then again maybe I am just noticing it, or just being my self.

Hugs

Jema

[JesusA (imported)]

I suspect that it is that you are finally becoming comfortable with who you really are. That person, the real JemaGirl is what others are reacting to. You are discovering that you can be yourself in public; there is no longer any reason to hide your identity.

Congratulations.

[Manimal (imported)]

I wish you could be more specific.

This is all so mysterious.

[Leona Lee (imported)]

Hey Girl,I'm going with the scent of a women.Now that your on estrogen,you scent changes so these fella's may not even realise themself what is actually happening.I will say that since I've been on estrogen,actually

everybody seems to be drawn to me in a special way,not knowing for sure,

just sort of happening.I'm older and married so I'm loving all the attension.It all seems very innocent.Your so sweet.

Anyway,enjoy.Love ya,Leona Lee

[Christina (imported)]

Hi Jema,

I know where you are comming from, this happens to me all the time now. For me it really didn't start showing up until I was finally at peace with myself after starting transition. From then on, having a better understanding (and feeling better) about yourself inside, starts to show outside. Other people pick up on these things. Maybe it's some form mental signal or perhaps as Leona says it may be a chemical signal. Whatever it is, it does get you noticed.

Now it happens on a regular basis. One of the first times it happened to me was at work. You see, we all must wear these drab uniforms (probably designed by some corperate creep) that makes everyone look the same. Very dull. In my job I get to meet a lot of people. I was delighted when people started seeing the real me through the drab clothing. Of course now the physical changes make it much easier to be seen as who I am. But even without that, there is something that happens inside us to make all the trouble of going through trasition worthwhile.

[Leona Lee (imported)]

It happened again two more times on different nights. It's like I am a stealth woman or something. I haven't had this sort of thing happen since when I was a teen. I was often read as a girl. At the time it was not welcome because I was trying so hard to be a man. Its good to discover ones self again, especially when you finally can love who you really are Has any one else had this experience? Just curious as to your theories on what is happening. Is it that I look more fem now, or do you thing I am zapping the boys with some kind of TG pheromones. Then again maybe I am just noticing it, or just being my self.

Hugs

Jema

Hi Jemagirl! Now that we have met in person,I can say that you are a sweet ,wonderful person.Very magnetic,no wonder you have all these folk's wanting to be around you.I don't know that I've ever met anybody quite like you.Your such a nice person.It's you kid ,nothing else.Hhhuuuggss,Leona

Oh Sag,Your pretty swell too,we had a nice time.More Hugs,Leona

[sag111 (imported)]

Well i dont look as pretty as eather of you and i guess thats ok and yes Jema is a very special person how could one not like Jema.Leona you look just like your mother and she was so pretty i just love both you and Jema.

I have made so many changes in my own life so maybe i notice more things about others now and especialy my transgender ladies but thats just me but i do hope everyone is accepted as who they are thats my hope for this world.