Castration Fantasy Thoughts

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Sandy thanks for sharing...

. On one occasion my wife told me it turned her on to think of taking my nuts out but she said she would like to do it but not want to go to jail for it. She would squeeze my nuts hard until I said '''uncle''' telling me that if she castrated me it would hurt much more. She also would squeeze the seminal cords between her index finger and thumb and get my reactions.

You write in past tense, which makes me wonder whether she's still interested in this sort of play. One thing Tim did for me that might make things more exciting for both of you: Give her a notarized document saying that you want her to help you fulfill your fantasies of genital torture and mutilation and therefore absolve her of any responsibility for consequences if you end up with mutilated or missing genitalia. After 20 years of marriage, Tim knows pretty well that I'm not inclined to do any real cutting, but I try to push the limits now and then to keep him guessing. I'm also curious whether you fantasize about being tied up so that you can't stop her from doing whatever she wants and whether she'd be into tying you up. That adds a whole new dimension to playtime for Tim and me. And yes, it IS a turn-on for me to see his eyes get big as I continue beating his testicles (er, excuse me, "nuts") after he's reached his limit or I prepare for another kick.

Sandi

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. I am curious to know if any women single or married ever get sexually excited thinking of castrating a man or watching it done under a safe medical environment.

Well, here's one married woman for your YES column. Actually, though, I want Tim to keep his testicles, as they're so much fun to abuse, and he's so appreciative when I do it, but seeing a man get his penis cut off would be a big turn-on for both of us, which is a bit weird, because I do thoroughly enjoy sex with Tim, and it's especially good after "playtime."

Sandi

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One Fantasy as I remember (and self-edit) High School, College and all its unwanted Humiliations would be to be kept as a roomate/manservsnt (shaved, nude to whatever degree suited them) to a group of Girls. Chemically Castrated so no 'visible' reason a strainght/healthy guy would not be aroused. Not sure if being teased or ignored would be worse and ALWAYS the steady comings/goings of men and women who, were always suprised/shocked/aroused/amused at my situation.

[mlooking2 (imported)]

Castration Fan Club. I would like to have a link to a place like this for my fiance to join. I have been with her for 2 years and never had intercorse with her. And she said I never will. I told her when we first started dating I had castration fantasys and she was very happy to hear that. Since then she likes to hit me in the balls alot while saying I can stop them from working myself. I'm sure if there were a group of women into this kinda chat she would join. She even looked into places to have them really removed. But I have been on Siterone for a year and had servere depression even at a very low dose. If I were really castrated I don't know how I would cope with that depression. The fiance says talking drugs to stop the depression would just be putting me back to the not castrated state. But she does wish I had a off switch to my sex drive. And I do have that castration desire.

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Castration Fan Club. I would like to have a link to a place like this for my fiance to join. I have been with her for 2 years and never had intercorse with her. And she said I never will. I told her when we first started dating I had castration fantasys and she was very happy to hear that. Since then she likes to hit me in the balls alot while saying I can stop them from working myself. I'm sure if there were a group of women into this kinda chat she would join. She even looked into places to have them really removed. But I have been on Siterone for a year and had servere depression even at a very low dose. If I were really castrated I don't know how I would cope with that depression. The fiance says talking drugs to stop the depression would just be putting me back to the not castrated state. But she does wish I had a off switch to my sex drive. And I do have that castration desire.

I don't know about antidepressants restoring sex drive after chemical or physical castration. Sounds unlikely, but others here are better able to answer questions like that. However, I'm interested in your motivation regarding castration. Do you actually want to get rid of your sex drive, or is it just a fantasy? (Your apparent willingness to have her kick your testicles makes me suspect the latter.) And if it's a fantasy, is it about actually being a eunuch or about the one-time event of having your testicles removed? If your girl wants an off switch for your sex drive, have you considered wearing a male chastity device and giving her the key? You've aroused my curiosity.

Sandi

[mlooking2 (imported)]

Sandi ,My girl and I have been together for 2 years and never made love. No intercourse at all. She said after menopause she lost interest in it and now it hurts her to have intercourse. I would like intercourse because without it I don't feel she ever loved me. I feel I love her more than she loves me. I'm being truthful here. We don't live together, I sleep at her place alot and we sleep in the nude. I asked if she is gay and she said no. So yes I would like to be castrated but fear the depression that comes with it. PS - I have been interested in castration since I was 16. As I said above I have tried chemical castration for about a year or more and at a low dose I got very depressed. So I'm thinking if I were really cut I would suffer it again. I know I could take testosterone to stop the depression but why bother being neutered if your going to take testosterone. About wearing a male chastity device why bother when we have never made love. I'm handsome and thin and clean. This is my first non sexual relationship.

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Sandi ,My girl and I have been together for 2 years and never made love. No intercourse at all. She said after menopause she lost interest in it and now it hurts her to have intercourse. .... I have been interested in castration since I was 16.

I didn't realize she was beyond menopause. After menopause, a woman's vagina doesn't have the lubrication it did before, and intercourse can hurt. You might suggest to her that you could use artificial lubrication such as Vaseline. Even if she has no libido, if she has affection for you, she might be willing to give that a try. If not, you may just have to resign yourself to the fact that it's going to be a sexless relationship, whether you're castrated or not. Since you've had such a negative experience with chemical castration, I suspect you'd have the same issues with physical castration, so you probably need to be asking yourself whether you love her enough to go ahead with a sexless relationship, being content with masturbation as a release (uncastrated) or dependent on antidepressants (castrated). (I'm assuming that the reason you've considered castration is, at least in part, because you do need a sexual release now and then.)

You noted in your previous post that she enjoys abusing your testicles. Is that in fun, or does she do it in anger? And how do you feel about having her do it? You noted that in that context she has said you could stop your testicles from working yourself. I imagine that sufficient testicle abuse might render them nonfunctional, but my hubby has endured my abusing his for 20 years, and his libido is definitely intact, so unless she plans to abuse them with a sledge hammer, I doubt the practicality of that route. If she does abuse your testicles in fun, however, she might be willing to do other things that would satisfy your need for sexual intimacy, e.g., masturbating you or giving you oral sex. Better to ask now rather than wait for marriage and be surprised. (You did refer to her as your fiancee, so I'm assuming you're planning marriage.)

The bottom line, I suppose, is that if you find she's interested in a purely Platonic relationship and isn't willing to meet you halfway, you need to ask yourself whether that's what you want before you marry her. Otherwise, the marriage is likely to be difficult for both of you. Best wishes, and please do keep us posted on developments.

Sandi

[mlooking2 (imported)]

lubrication is not needed. She gets very wet on her own,Her age is 61, I'm 56. I asked her to see a doctor about the pain. I noticed while licking her she is very loose down there.But when I go to put it in she locks up tight. I think she has some kinda mental thing going on. I call it involuntary mussel contraction. She loves to hurt my balls. She says she can stop them from working from hurting them in a joking way. Its been 2 years she is not going to talk to a doctor about this. Its been going on for all her life. She won't say if she ever enjoyed her sex life. Or is her husband left over this problem. But I'm guessing all her relationships ended over this. Masturbating don't even work for me any more. She wont do oral on me. She don't really like my parts. I asked what she thought of men's parts and she told me there ugly. That's why I asked if she is gay. Marriage is not there at all. We just introduce each other as fiance rather than boyfriend and girlfriend because that sounds childish at our age. There is alot to the story I'm not talking about here. But I think a club for women into castration is a great idea. I now my girl would love me to be neutered but fears the after affects. I would love it to. She said I just didn't stay on the chemical castration drug long enough for the depression to fade away. I don't know if it would fade away after time. Maybe someone here could answer that for me. What kills me is I think she is so pretty and I do love her. Just find this all very hard on me.

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....Its been going on for all her life. ....

But I'm guessing all her relationships ended over this. Masturbating don't even work for me any more. She wont do oral on me. She don't really like my parts. .... What kills me is I think she is so pretty and I do love her. Just find this all very hard on me.

Well, it sounds as if she's offering you a package deal--take it or leave it, but no substitutions on the menu. Not an enviable situation for you. Wish you the best whichever way you choose to go.

Sandi

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Women who want to maintain a healthy libido after menopause are now supplementing with testosterone. Some women who are using testosterone replacement are enjoying the return of great desire and great sex. So women who go through menopause should not give up but seek treatment especially if they have a partner who still wants to engage in sex and experience sexual fulfillment.

http://www.nejm.org/doi/full/10.1056/NEJMoa0707302

http://www.womentowomen.com/sexualityan ... ibido.aspx

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