mike (imported) wrote: Sat Jan 10, 2004 6:25 pm
Let us not fall into the trap of assuming that if something is not biological, it is not "real".
Ahem...
What the bloody blue fuck is that supposed to mean?
(>P>Fires up Winamp and selects "Tomorrow Wendy" by Concrete Blonde.<<)
When it comes right down to it, everything concerning "US" is biological, by definition. Did someone hang up the "Philosophy Board" while I was in the toilet?!:-\
mike (imported) wrote: Sat Jan 10, 2004 6:25 pm
Western culture is obsessed with reinforcing gender roles and behaviors, of defining and policing what is appropriate male and female behavior.
Well, I do have to give you that one, to a certain extent. Would that we lived in a society that dressed babies in gray clothing and gave them gender-neutral toys, or a variety, to play with. God help the child who sits Barbie on a remote control tank and screams, "Die, you neo-fascist fashion bitches from Idaho!"
While this phenomenon IS certainly a problem (gender roles, not the Barbie/tank thing), it's certainly a lot better than it was, say 30 years ago, when I insisted upon dressing my little sister's Barbie up like Wonder Woman because my Superman action figure was lonely for company.
mike (imported) wrote: Sat Jan 10, 2004 6:25 pm
Thus we would be amiss not to consider the possibility that post-op depression can be caused or amplified by concerns over one's ability to conform to gender expectations.
Huh?
Back the truck up and hope the Dodge's clutch don't fall out when you do it!
While it's a POSSIBILITY, so is Marylin Monroe descending from the Heavens with a shout and proclaiming Harry Potter the new Messiah. Or perhaps Ian McKellan showing up on my doorstep and saying he's lonely. Possible, but not probable.
Frodo, take off the Ring!
Sorry, just felt like saying that.
Now, let's stop and think for a moment here.
We know that most, but NOT all, castration/penectomy/eunuchism-at-large obsessions/fantasies/fixations/dreams/nightmares are usually forged in the fires of Mt. Doom...I mean, childhood - probably circa age 11-12 for most. Close enough.
By this time, said our '*soon-to-be-not-a-boy-no-more' has had ample time to consider the ramifications of (and probably reject, as well) what Society deems that he should be and how he should behave and appear. No one jumps right in and suddenly says, "WOW, I have to cut my balls off, that'll show 'em!"
Trust me, by this time, the foundations of a good ol' black depression are already well laid and poured in concrete 3.3' (1 meter) deep. By this time, after the genderifically-astonishing deed (read 'genital modifications'), what Society would/will think of him has already taken a flying fuck in the mind of our "stbnabnm*".
In other words, what the World at large is going to think of him doesn't matter one damn bit in HIS eyes. If it did, he'd not be there to begin with. He'd be at a nice, smokey bar swilling 3:2 beer with his buddies and hollering epithets at scantily clad women, secure in his actions and thoughts.
(Which I do confess to have done in the dim past.)
mike (imported) wrote: Sat Jan 10, 2004 6:25 pm
I don't believe-- for example-- that homosexuals are biologically prone to depression (or even that "homosexuality" is a status defined by biology).
And just WHY is this ALWAYS the example that one has to cite?!
Excuse me...but this really makes my closet doors flap in the breeze, gets me knickers in a twist, and my teeth set on edge. I won't go into an extended rant on the discussion of sexual preference being biologically determined. This is just the kind of narrow-minded, right-wing, ultra-conservative Christian redneck bullshit that is preached mindlessly by those who would believe that God talks to THEM and no one else.
I call this schizophrenia, by the way.
Oh, and if the homosexuals are not
mike (imported) wrote: Sat Jan 10, 2004 6:25 pm
biologically prone to depression,
who is? Is depression caused by something biological? If you call complex chains of chemical reactions in the human brain biological, then I'd say 'yes'. Now imagine that sexual preference and arousal are also being caused by similar reactions in a human brain.
Trust me, fella, you don't just wake up one day and fuck the first man you get your hands on out of curiosity. It's not like "Oh, I'm gay today! Look out, here I come!"
Just think of it...right now, in a hospital nursery somewhere, is a little newborn baby boy and he's GAY! In fact, there's thousands of them out there. But wait, he could be in there thinking, "Oh, I think I'll chose a lifestyle where everyone hates me, wants to kill me, but settles for making fun of me and beating me up most of the time."
mike (imported) wrote: Sat Jan 10, 2004 6:25 pm
Nevertheless I am not surprised that folks who conclude they are homosexuals undergo depression, and that is a REAL depression, even if it is not biological.
Now that we've concluded that you do believe in homosexuals, and that they do get depressed, where do we go with it? Are we sure by now that it's biological? What about all of this brain chemistry research that's led us to today's miracles of Prozac, Wellbutrin, etc., etc., and so forth? Biology interacting with chemistry?
And are you SURPRISED, is ANYONE surprised in the LEAST bit by the fact that those who face being gay get depressed?!
When you run into mindless bullshit like this every few seconds, it tends to get to you. Trust me, folks, I know.
So now, we are faced with biological depression, which only affects heterosexuals, and Society-induced depression that is a whole different animal?!
And what's the point, you wonder?
People get depressed.
It happens.
Science has proven that it's caused by misfires that are chemical errors in the human brain. It's biological. It can be fixed.
Fixed.
There's another lovely word, and precisely the reason that we're all HERE at EA.
Castration throws a wrench in the machine that is the balance of the brain. It is not only a shock to the body, but to the Mind as well. No matter how much thought has gone into it, it's STILL a shock. It requires adaptation to the changes. One change, as we have all learned the hard way, is in the chemical reactions of the brain being thrown off...which we call DEPRESSION.
Pure biology.
To hell with what Society thinks. It's like the saying, "No one knows I'm a eunuch." Well, they might not know, and if they don't, then how do THAT make us depressed over it? Should we tell them, and then get more depressed?
I'd go on, but I won't.
This is a total fucking waste.

