Whats it really like?

[WannabeEunuch (imported)]

What is it really like? Being a Eunuch i mean? i have fantasized about it for years and am looking to become one myself. is it all its cracked up 2/b? is it worth the pain and suffering at 1st? does it really stop your sex drive?

[Kelly_2 (imported)]

What is it really like? Being a Eunuch i mean? i have fantasized about it for years and am looking to become one myself. is it all its cracked up 2/b? is it worth the pain and suffering at 1st? does it really stop your sex drive?

Uhm, a lot of questions and everyone's answer will be different.

There is not a lot of pain and suffering from a simple orchiectomy.

It may not stop the sex drive. It should change, though. I had no libido while on anti-androgens prior to castration, but after the surgery and giving up anti-androgens, it sure came back, albeit more of a female libido. Some of my friends don't really have a libido until after castration.

For a man, there is often depression, and this has been in a number of posts recently. Read some of the recent posts by Jesus--they are required reading prior to getting cut.

And do read just about everything in the Archives, too. There is a wealth of information, and a lot more than you will get just on this thread.

I wish you the very best.

Hugs,

Kelly

[WannabeEunuch (imported)]

Thanx heaps Kelly. i defintely will reseach everything. Thanx again

[Andrew (imported)]

What is it really like? Being a Eunuch i mean? i have fantasized about it for years and am looking to become one myself. is it all its cracked up 2/b? is it worth the pain and suffering at 1st? does it really stop your sex drive?

Well, I like being a eunuch, and feel the surgery by Dr. Spector was worth it. But stop your sex drive?

Maybe. You will still have your adrenal glands. Younger eunuchs can remain quite sexually active. But for older eunuchs, the main benefit is being able to CONTROL your sexuality, to have the ability to ignore sex altogether if that is what you want.

At age 59, I now masturbate about once a week. No big deal. Nice. But not a driving force in my life.

[WannabeEunuch (imported)]

sumone suggested that i try chemical castration 1st. 2/c if its really what i want. then, if its all its cracked up 2/b. i can go and get it done for real.

[marca (imported)]

Well, I like being a eunuch, and feel the surgery by Dr. Spector was worth it. But stop your sex drive?

Maybe. You will still have your adrenal glands. Younger eunuchs can remain quite sexually active. But for older eunuchs, the main benefit is being able to CONTROL your sexuality, to have the ability to ignore sex altogether if that is what you want.

At age 59, I now masturbate about once a week. No big deal. Nice. But not a driving force in my life.

when you masturbate is there stille fluid comming out? after 4 weeks , i still have fluid

[Andrew (imported)]

when you masturbate is there still fluid comming out? after 4 weeks , i still have fluid

After 2-1/2 years, I have no fluid, which is mainly from the prostate anyhow. It takes time for the prostate to shut down.

[deepcore72 (imported)]

After nearly 3 months I still produce some dropplets, which are almost transparent... It's liquid from the prostate

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