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Life goes on. My supervisor at the Post Office wants me in tomorrow, Friday 13 June 2003. My thanks to all for the e-mails and posting of support. And for those of you who asked about Conway, here is an update.
The thyroid medication is working. It has been well over two weeks since he has vomited food back up. I see no other obvious physical signs as to how the medication is working, so will hope for the best.
I have had to change the method for pilling Conway. Conway is a slow thinker, but eventually he can put two and two together. Once he realized that I was putting medication in a ground up form in the Petromalt or Nutrimalt I placed on his leg, he stopped licking it. He figured out a way to rub it off on the fur of the sleeping pads. So I have gone back to brute force.
Now, although he should know by now that he will be pilled twice a day, he never tries to hide from me. So I pick him up, wrap him in a towel, lay him on my lap, force open the jaws, and pop in the pill. I stroke his throat several times to induce the swallowing reflex. Of course he struggles to get out and gouge my eyes and rip me open with his claws and all that. He cries out loudly to make sure the neighbors know that a cat is being hideously tortured. After the pill is in I put Petromalt or Nutrimalt on his lips, and he starts to lick it and swallow. This is a backup to make sure the pill really goes down.
After I pet him a bit, he calms down, I unwrap the towel, and he gets up and runs away. Five minutes later he will be back, acting as if nothing has happened between us. He still sleeps with me at night on the heated cushion at the foot of the bed. He does not want to be petted and touched, just to be there. He just doesnt want to be fussed over. A Very Dignified Old Gentleman.
I am not sure if he is having problems with Pearly being absent, or just quietly accepting it. However, for his daytime sleeping he now uses the east window sill heated sleeping cup, formerly Pearlys daytime napping place. He hasnt been up in the Loft at all.
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And as always on Thursdays, from 4 PM to 7 PM, I was at the local AA central office as a phone volunteer. I reread THE LOSS OF A PET by Wallace Sife, perhaps the best such book ever written. I also reread passages from CATS FOR DUMMIES. The Eunuch Calm is returning as the grief ebbs away, and I am starting to once again think of a companion for Conway and myself. I certainly have enough cat furniture in this apartment that is now going unused. Something to think about at work tomorrow.
Oh, when I called Attendance Control this morning about taking another day of Emergency Annual Leave, I was informed that I needed to provide documentation. Guess what came in the mail today? I letter from the Emergency Pet Clinic with a card, a photocopy of Rainbow Bridge, with a handwritten note from the vet on it. That should do it.