Bi or Gay with Straight Sex Attraction.

[Rollo1989 (imported)]

I've always thought of myself as Bisexual but my sexual attraction has been about 75% to 80% Gay and 25% to 20% Straight. So am I really Bi or am I simply Gay with an ability to enjoy women?

[WheelyFixed]

I've always thought of myself as Bisexual but my sexual attraction has been about 75% to 80% Gay and 25% to 20% Straight. So am I really Bi or am I simply Gay with an ability to enjoy women?

Not sure if anyone else besides you can really figure that out.... You are what you are, the "Bi / Gay / Straight" thing is just labels - and you are you, not some package that needs to be shelved appropriately....

To me unless you are after a romantic relationship with someone, it isn't really necessary to advertise about what 'tilts your kilt', and if you are after a relationship, it seems like your description is pretty reasonable.... Regardless of your potential partner's type, it seems appropriate to be open about yours so as to not surprise them when / if you also lean the other way....

Or at least how it looks to me as a straight former guy....

WheelyFixed