Regular vs kinky

[Arab Nights (imported)]

We spent a night at Faywood Hot Springs, NM. Something about laying around naked for hours under a starry night enccourages the conversation to go to places it does normally not go to. I made the comment that it was maybe about my mid-30s when I began to find just regular male-on-top sex at times a bit boring. For me I found that talking trashy things and varying activities could make the blood run hot. Wifie said she knew several women in their 40s who just had no interest. I don't know if that was hormones or just bored with wham-bam-thank you ma'am sex.

Anybody have any experiience if sex becomes boring in your 30s - 40s and if kinkiness can keep the flame going for years longer?

[Daniel01 (imported)]

I always had ED but in my 30s I suggested with my partner we set up 4 jars, two for each or use to put notes in. what I want down to myself, what I want to try on my partner. She did the same. Since we both are more worship type we went thru those mares mostly first. It was an eye opener as to what she wanted to try, and made my more guilty free asking for different types of love. Enema, strapon, bondage horse with caning, which turned out the best. She wanted more hand holding and kissing, more breast sucking and oral. It was great until she found out my desire to be Castrated. 15 years later with her help, I was. Now we are j to lots of kissing, oral on her and hand holding…. And strapon play for me…I cum like a female, very emotional and deep in my body. My breasts are much more sensitive and can almost orgasim Thru there play. Hence looking to go on estrogen for some breast growth.

[Losethem (imported)]

I always had ED but in my 30s I suggested with my partner we set up 4 jars, two for each or use to put notes in. what I want down to myself, what I want to try on my partner. She did the same. Since we both are more worship type we went thru those mares mostly first. It was an eye opener as to what she wanted to try, and made my more guilty free asking for different types of love. Enema, strapon, bondage horse with caning, which turned out the best. She wanted more hand holding and kissing, more breast sucking and oral. It was great until she found out my desire to be Castrated. 15 years later with her help, I was. Now we are j to lots of kissing, oral on her and hand holding…. And strapon play for me…I cum like a female, very emotional and deep in my body. My breasts are much more sensitive and can almost orgasim Thru there play. Hence looking to go on estrogen for some breast growth.

Wow, that must have been something when she pulled the "Castration" note you left in the jar!