My boyfriend was recently castrated

[Losethem (imported)]

I'm going to go back and unpack this thread for everyone, because I'm seeing inconsistencies in the narrative provided by the OP. I'll refer to where I'm reading things by the response number indicated in the blue area at the top of each response, on the right side.

#1 - Stella Stone informs all of us her boyfriend has recently been castrated. She gives no specific reason for it, but goes into the psychology her boyfriend is experiencing, etc. but most concerns seem to be around him being able to perform sexually.

#2 - I say if it was testicular cancer he should be offered testosterone replacement.

#5 - Jesus says she has been given sound advice and goes into some detail.

#8 - Stella Stone replies to my Post #2 and says that yes, it was testicular cancer. Gives no indication in this post if the boyfriend has been offered testosterone or not. Seeks advice on finding younger eunuchs/castrated males as there would be a better connection.

#10 - Kristoff offers that seeking a testicular cancer survivors group would likely be more advantageous to helping her boyfriend than a prostate cancer support group.

#11 - I answer the list of questions she had for me in Post #8, and once again suggest testosterone replacement may be a solution, and that he should pursue such through his care team.

#13 - (this is where the story is starting to fall apart IMO) Stella comes back and says her boyfriend, "...

has had severe negative reaction to testosterone just as he did to chemical castration. Several have been tried...

" which is the first indication he has been given any sort of testosterone replacement. Also, I see absolutely NO REASON a person who has testicular cancer would have been given chemical castration. The routine path for a guy with testicular cancer is removal of the testicle involved, or both if it's in both testicles. The story is inconsistent here due to this disconnect between chemical castration and orchiectomy for this particular cancer.

#14 - JessicaH says it's unusual that he has not be

en prescribed HRT at this point.

#15 - AccordingIP says, "Notwithstanding the previous learned replies, this

original post just doesn't seem to stack up. Or it just me?" The first one to call out the inconsistencies in the story directly, back on Nov 17th (it's now Nov 23rd).

#19 - Deaconblues says that testosterone wouldn't be prescribed due to it having a growth effect on some cancers (correct), however this is testicular cancer, the problem should have been removed when the testicles were, UNLESS the cancer had metastasized to another part of the body. This was unclear.

Stella has not been seen in this thread since Nov 15th, just before AccordingIP made his statement in #15. At this point while I'm not calling this an outright lie by Stella, it's not looking good, because the thread, as I noted in #16 had devolved to multiple members here giving advice, but there always being some reason that advice could not possibly work in the case identified. To me it has the hallmarks of a fabrication when the OP devolves into a, "Yes, yes, but..." routine with the very people who have knowledge of these things.

[StellaStone (imported)]

I haven’t posted here in a few days as we have been very busy.

First of all I want to thank everyone for the info and sincere suggestions and attempts to help. It seems there have been some discussions about my post and some misunderstandings, doubts about his doctors, and concerns. I apologize for that and had no intention of causing such distress. I do believe that such concerns about my post are due to sincere attempts to help and my feeble attempt to present info (which apparently was defective).

My BF’s castration is a very complicated issue and impossible to list all details here in a reasonable amount of time. Such lack of details leads to possible misunderstanding and faulty assumptions.

Some of the complications for example: he has had some cancer treatments, tests, and other meds. His docs say is in addition to cancer he has immunodisorder or deficiency which causes severe negative reactions that I have witnessed and other issues. We did attend doctor recommend group therapy sessions with professional shrinks but mostly older married eunuchs with prostate cancer. Due to COVID and illness, etc. he lost his job, income, and consequently his medical coverage. Being young he has no major savings. He has no local relatives to help. He lost his other GFs. We have taken him in and gotten him back on medical coverage. We are a group of professional women (lawyer, professor, business owner, physical therapist, etc.) that share a very large house so we have room for him and mostly on remote work and able to be on constant suicide watch (he is also receiving medical care for depression). With his new medical coverage he has a new primary care physician, urologist, oncologist, endocrinologist, shrink, etc. It’s all very complicated and I can’t go into all the details.

I cannot possibly give all the medical background as I am not a medical professional and have no prior experience with castrated boys. In any case I am not responsible for his doctor selection, medical diagnostics, prescriptions, or the meds he is to take. I am not medically trained and have no experience in this complicated issue so will not be involved in his doctor selection or medication selection.

The reason for the lack of details I have provided about his medical condition is that I have never been in search of physical medical advice here. It has been offered here and I thank you for that. Due to lack of comprehensive background info, physical examination, test results, etc. it is impossible to make a reasonable prescription remotely. I do thank you for the opinions offered.

My only interest in posting here was to exchange info about the psychological and sexual relationships between women and companions that are very young heterosexuals castrated against their wishes. That is where we are now, he is now castrated, regardless of whether or not his medical care was appropriate or not, we must move forward as best we can.

It does seem to appear that there is no interest in that here and no young hetro eunuchs even though this site is about eunuchs and castration.

Fortunately we have found another local group therapy support group which is more aligned with his situation and conducted by professional shrinks experienced in his situation.

I do want to thank everyone for the sincere suggestions and info. I hope I have not offended anyone and apologize for my clumsy attempts.

[Losethem (imported)]

As it appears he's found support elsewhere, and we're back to, "Yes, yes, but..." after a week of the OP's absence, I'd say this thread has run it's course.

I wish those involved well and hope for the best outcome.