Are our sexual kinks inherited ?

[erikboy (imported)]

That is an interesting question. Has anyone ever tried to shed the light? At least I don't have any knowledge about that. There certainly is something that can not be learned. And there is something we have learned. It seems like kinks are so deeprooted, it is impossible to unlearn them. Just ingnore, or put aside. Also, at youth, you just discover some stuff in yourself, before you ever can learn anything. With puberty suddenly many kinks are switched on, out of the blue. And with castration, they are switched off. So there must be something that exist in us, before we even know. As surveys indicate, too often castration kink can often be related to growing up in farms and being exposed to castraion. But then again, some people have no knowledge about castration until it is triggered by mere knowledge, that in history some boys and men were castrated. There is no learning process, kink just kicks in.

[Valery_V (imported)]

That is an interesting question. Has anyone ever tried to shed the light? At least I don't have any knowledge about that. There certainly is something that can not be learned. And there is something we have learned. It seems like kinks are so deeprooted, it is impossible to unlearn them. Just ingnore, or put aside. Also, at youth, you just discover some stuff in yourself, before you ever can learn anything. With puberty suddenly many kinks are switched on, out of the blue. And with castration, they are switched off. So there must be something that exist in us, before we even know. As surveys indicate, too often castration kink can often be related to growing up in farms and being exposed to castraion. But then again, some people have no knowledge about castration until it is triggered by mere knowledge, that in history some boys and men were castrated. There is no learning process, kink just kicks in.

It is a difficult question. It, can do the scientist, the historian Jesus.

[Arab Nights (imported)]

Guaranteed genetics. I plan to release an avalanche of data showing the sons of eunuchs are all eunuchs. That''s my logic and I'm sticking to it (hey, it beats a lot of the stuff put out there on social media).

[Valery_V (imported)]

Guaranteed genetics. I plan to release an avalanche of data showing the sons of eunuchs are all eunuchs. That''s my logic and I'm sticking to it (hey, it beats a lot of the stuff put out there on social media).

The sir, you are absolutely right. I read about it here at a forum. The truth eunuchs were engaged in adoption of other people's children, and then castrated them...

[Cseriess (imported)]

Personally I don’t want to know about my parents sex lives just as I’m sure my kids don’t want to know about ours. Unfortunately our kids discovered the drawer in the bedside table and know more than they ever wanted to. Don’t go meddling in your parents bedroom was the lesson they learned from that.

I must have been a strange child. I went through everything in my parents room when they were out regularly. Probably started looking for birthday presents, but I found some very interesting things and literature. My dad was a photographer and there were plenty of photos demonstrating their use. When I had to clean out my parents house my friend helped me. There was still the large sturdy envelope with all their photos in at the back of a wardrobe. He had known my parents since we were at school together,my dad even taught him. He was very curious about me not wanting to share and it became a bit of a joke over the couple of days . Eventually as we finished and getting ready to lock up he asked if I was let him see them. I asked if he really wanted to see my parents and describe one photo. He thought I was joking, but when he realized I wasn't was rather shocked and said no, the image in his mind was bad enough. As we were all very somber at my mother's funeral, I said I had asked for her to be placed in the coffin doing the same as I had describe to him in the picture. He couldn't stop laughing so hard he was crying. People thought they were tears of sorrow and thought it very touching.

[rogerwpbfl (imported)]

Do you think our sexual kinks are genetic and inherited from our fathers and grandfathers ?

From personal experience, I do think men in different generations who share similar genetics, are very likely to share similar sexual kinks. And not only from the obvious shared environmental causes of growing up in similar conditions and being surrounded by the same people in their lives. The age old debate of genetics vs nuturing influencing people ?

How many men on here think they have male relatives who are into the same castration ideas ?

How many men think your environment and your past upbringing is what caused your castration interests ?

How many think an experience triggered their interest in castration and not their genetics or upbringing ?

I'm certain my parents do not share any of my sexual kinks. I've been shaped by my own personal experiences (and mild abuses?). I don't feel like I was ever actually victimized except to say maybe being taken advantage of by slightly older, curious relatives and others. But I also think that level of experimenting is fairly common.

I don't understand where the drive to punish and "detach" my penis comes from. The desire ebbs and flows, from barely thinking about it on days I'm not too horny to being banded, purple, and cold on the days I'm obsessed with it. Snapping pics with my phone from different angles, I imagine it's finally about to come off. But every time I stop and get my shot off I'm glad I didn't follow thru, and then I guilt myself for being such a perv. I know I've bugged the EA community from time to time with my posts when I'm really horny. So, I apologize here for that.

[cutnbulls2ox (imported)]

I'm certain my parents do not share any of my sexual kinks. I've been shaped by my own personal experiences (and mild abuses?). I don't feel like I was ever actually victimized except to say maybe being taken advantage of by slightly older, curious relatives and others. But I also think that level of experimenting is fairly common.

I don't understand where the drive to punish and "detach" my penis comes from. The desire ebbs and flows, from barely thinking about it on days I'm not too horny to being banded, purple, and cold on the days I'm obsessed with it. Snapping pics with my phone from different angles, I imagine it's finally about to come off. But every time I stop and get my shot off I'm glad I didn't follow thru, and then I guilt myself for being such a perv. I know I've bugged the EA community from time to time with my posts when I'm really horny. So, I apologize here for that.

No apology necessary Roger. You use us as a safe and harmless outlet for your cravings all you want. Your photos and humor in your posts more than make up for you mistakenly thinking you take any advantage of us horny men on here. And we enjoy that tug of war in your body between your 2 heads fighting over Ranger.

I think most men with strong and unusual sexual kinks do wonder how their intense interests and turning on to those developed. I think it spans a wide range of human influences from very genetically predisposed to react to a kink, to the opposite extreme of experience and environment only in other people. With most people falling somewhere in the mixture between. Most of us are likely some varying combination that lies between purely genetic pre programming and purely outside influences and experiences.

My theory is with Ranger being so exceptional in his large size and with him ( you ) being so very publically visible in glorious detail in your speedos at every swim practice and at crowded swim meets, you got lots of different feedback from both sexes on your great penis. Not only from the males in the locker rooms and showers, but also from lots of females in the swim meet audiences. Far more public feedback on your growing boy penis and puberty growth than most males ever get. I m betting that your experiences probably did influence you a lot more than they would have for a man or boy with an average or small sized dick in the same circumstances.

Maybe if your mom had been openly praising your exceptional manhood and virility on public display to everyone at your swim meets, instead of being embarassed that her son was the only porn star caliber horse dick on the team, maybe you d feel differently ? Just a hayseed cowboy s amateur guess on that idea.

[rogerwpbfl (imported)]

No apology necessary Roger. You use us as a safe and harmless outlet for your cravings all you want. Your photos and humor in your posts more than make up for you mistakenly thinking you take any advantage of us horny men on here. And we enjoy that tug of war in your body between your 2 heads fighting over Ranger.

I think most men with strong and unusual sexual kinks do wonder how their intense interests and turning on to those developed. I think it spans a wide range of human influences from very genetically predisposed to react to a kink, to the opposite extreme of experience and environment only in other people. With most people falling somewhere in the mixture between. Most of us are likely some varying combination that lies between purely genetic pre programming and purely outside influences and experiences.

My theory is with Ranger being so exceptional in his large size and with him ( you ) being so very publically visible in glorious detail in your speedos at every swim practice and at crowded swim meets, you got lots of different feedback from both sexes on your great penis. Not only from the males in the locker rooms and showers, but also from lots of females in the swim meet audiences. Far more public feedback on your growing boy penis and puberty growth than most males ever get. I m betting that your experiences probably did influence you a lot more than they would have for a man or boy with an average or small sized dick in the same circumstances.

Maybe if your mom had been openly praising your exceptional manhood and virility on public display to everyone at your swim meets, instead of being embarassed that her son was the only porn star caliber horse dick on the team, maybe you d feel differently ? Just a hayseed cowboy s amateur guess on that idea.

My Mom always said it was vulgar for it to be so visible. I only got on the swim team with Dad's help. I wanted to play a sport but football was out of the question, and I was truly a competitive swimmer. Mom said we were trying to show off, but she gave in.

Here's a memory you may appreciate. I remember when we were clothes shopping, I remember it was for start of seventh grade. She didn't like the way the first pair of pants fit around my front. She tried only that one time to adjust it and she never tried ever again. I actually think she had to catch herself when she realized it wasn't going to budge. After that she just told me I needed to tuck myself down better. I still remember it like it just happened.

[HumanFly (imported)]

Circumcision certainly does seem to run in families. I always wonder if its the mothers or fathers or the Drs. who really decide which infants get circumcised and which get to enjoy their intact foreskins ?

It's mandatory in some religions (such as Judaism and Islam) and became popular in the US at some point as doctors came to regard it as more hygienic, though it never caught on in Europe. (It was the custom in the British royal family up to Prince Charles, but Diana blocked the circumcision of Wills & Harry.) Unless a child is a ward of the state, the doctor can only advise parents on a matter like circumcision, not make the decision.

[DeaconBlues (imported)]

At one time, I leaned to circumcision for males mostly because I had heard it was easier to keep clean and that is might reduce the probability of a man getting some STD's, then I watched "The Red Pill" and actually saw a circumcision performed, and ever since I have said NO WAY would I ever want that to happen to any baby boy. If an adult man decides he want to be circumcised then fine, he can do to his own body what he wants, but there is NO WAY IN HELL I would ever want that done to any baby boy. As for cleanliness and STD's, we live in the 21st century and clean washing water is relatively available most places, there is no reason for anyone to inflict this on a baby boy, if you don't agree with me, please WATCH the part of "The Red Pill" and I am pretty sure that you will then agree with me.