Nutsbegone (imported) wrote: Sun Apr 25, 2021 1:01 am I told her during a casual conversation that I was going to rid myself of my scrotum I hated the site of it. It had become excessively large and uncomfortable. I am nongender, she has been aware that my sexuality differs from what's considered normal for 17 years of our 33 year marriage, we supports each other in all of our decisions. Soon I'll start my estrogen HRT which I am looking forward too, I desire a low dose therapy that will allow subtle changes over a long period of time. Thank you for your interest Cseriess I hope I have been able to help some
Hey @Nutsbegone,
You and your wife are very lucky to have each other. When you told her your truth, it was a gift to her. You, unlike many husbands, explained you inner feelings and told her what your plans were. That is not the norm. Many men simply go along and as the marriage progresses, they stop communicating. That is not what you did. You spoke the truth and, of course, it was something she had already figure out about you. Well, at least she'd figured it out more or less as she wasn't shocked nor surprised.
I literally smiled when I read this post as it made me realize that there are people such as yourself and your wife who love each other so much that they can accept the other person for who they are.
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