As I am thinking about joining you may be next year, I want to know what is your experience with getting naked in public. Like in changing rooms or in sauna or beaches. Or with friends for some reason.
Do you avoid such situations where someone could see your empty scrotum?
Or you just do not care? If you do not care, then what have been reactions of people, like do they look surprised, stare, or even ask questions?
Did you feel uncomfortable being naked and with empty scrotum?
You need to take into consideration that staring is human nature and people are going to stare and may not always comment. take into consideration the place you mention the Beach and the locker room. When a person is at a beach or in a locker room if they are with some like their mate or friends generally may not comment because by being the first to it is admitting they were staring may were about comments the may get themselves about staring in the first place.
So I think you see people stare but you will comments will be less than you think.
Cygnusx1 (imported) wrote: Sat Apr 04, 2020 7:06 am
When a person is at a beach or in a locker room if they are with some like their mate or friends generally may not comment because by being the first to it is admitting they were staring may were about comments the may get themselves about staring in the first place.
So I think you see people stare but you will comments will be less than you think.
You might be right. I had exactly the same fear when I got circumcised at 24. In my country circumcision is extremely rare. And there is a sauna culture. If you know what it means. So my friends probably noticed that one day my glans became completely bare like there was no foreskin at all. When I first went to sauna after circumcision, my heart was beating like mad. Out of fear, but noone commented or even mentioned later anything about the change. I did not even notice staring from them. Though later I have noticed people staring at my bare glans, that obviously is missing something, but by then I was relaxed about my circumcision already. So I guess, that with empty scrotum the problem is inside me, not in other people. Huh. But I think my heart will beat like mad when I first go to sauna with empty scrotum anyway.
There is a long tradition of going sauna in my country. It would be extremely weird if I suddenly stop joining my friends or coworkers. It is impossible to avoid sauna here, as most gatherings or parties contain going to sauna. It would be like, while everybody else is in sauna, only me is sitting alone outside.
More over, sauna is an important place where people socialize and exchange valuable information. Somtimes important decisions are made there and deals are struck.
That is the background. Also going there in shorts is considered weird if not rude if you aren't a foreigner.
What I think right now is that I will creat less questions emerging there with strangely deflated scrotum, than refusing to join others. Certainly some will notice the change who had seen me before, but I think they will not say a word. As it would be rude to comment eachother bodies, more over genitals.
As a man with balls that can retract inside my abdomen during cold conditions, I have been sharing open group showers, saunas, and locker rooms with a sometimes empty scrotum for all of my life. My very large testicles are very obviously missing to anyone who has seen my scrotum with my balls hanging normally, which is far down in my sack.
People do look and sometimes look again, or sometimes they will look longer and closer trying to see if my balls are actually missing in my very hairy scrotum. It has never bothered me at all. Men who know me will ask why my gonads are missing ? I just point out the 2 lumps under my belly button ( navel ) and explain retractable testicles to them. Boys and teens I don t know are the most likely to look closer and very calmly and openly, with no shame or giggling, seriously ask me what happened to my balls as the whole group is showering or dressing ? They just ask me, Why don t you have any balls ? I just point to my retracted balls under my ab skin and briefly explain calmly about retractable balls. Most men I don t know say nothing. They do look closer, and must assume I have small, high hanging balls, or that I must have had an accident or medical condition that required a full castration of both gonads.
Everyone is very calm and cool about it. Never being shocked, negative, teasing, or frightened about my empty scrotum or how my balls can retract so far up in my abdomen. Even boys and teens will always ask normally and as if they are asking me perfectly normal questions like how did you get that scrape or bruise on your elbow ? They also seem to expect a really normal answer for why I have no balls in my scrotum. Even very young boys just ask in normal tones as if there must be some very normal reason why some men simply have no balls in their bags.
II think you will be surprised at how little time people will spend in silently looking longer at your empty scrotum or asking why you have no balls. Pretty similar to european men not used to circumcised penises looking at our circumcised American penises in showers, locker rooms, and saunas.
II openly explain my retractible balls in normal talking volume in the showers, saunas, and locker rooms. Every male nearby listens in calmly and a few bystanders will say, " My balls can t do that or never do that. " Some will say, " I never heard of that before ? " or " Does that hurt ? " I just answer friends or strangers like its no different than them asking what job I have. They always take it very calmly and everyone goes on a few minutes later like its no big deal. Nothing embarassing or humiliating about it at all. When my balls warm up enough to drop back down into my scrotum and hang extra low, no one says anything about it,
I have longer conversations and get more questions in these same naked places about my extreme newborn circumcision than about my missing gonads. But most intact men and boys will just take longer looks at my exposed shaft and glans without making any comments. Men in countries with few circumcised men will usually look longer at my circumcision and only a few will ask about it or make any friendly comments. Uncircumcised boys and teens who do ask will often say its scary or painful to think about circumcision or frenulum cutting, or it grosses them out to look at my dark circumcision cut scar and missing frenulum space on my shaft. But they quickly get used to my penis and move on to other subjects a couple of minutes later. They can t stop sneeking looks at my exposed glans since it looks different from their own penises. But its not embarassing or humiliating or negative in any way. Some boys and teens will shiver and get nervous comparing their full foreskins and frenulums to my bare, cut and scarred penis. I just laugh and say I can t remember any of what happened as a newborn and it does not hurt now. Most get a kick out of being able to discuss and compare penises and balls openly in public like that. Like its just males being unashamed males together. And no one thinks its at all odd or embarassing.
I have gotten sucked by shemale surcharge, which probably has seen hundreds of cocks. I asked after what she like an empty sack. Oh mygod, she squeezed my bags. It’s so hard to spot the balls can be so hidden in some. Can't notice if you don't know.
erikboy (imported) wrote: Sat Apr 04, 2020 5:35 am
Hello all my ballless friends !
As I am thinking about joining you may be next year, I want to know what is your experience with getting naked in public. Like in changing rooms or in sauna or beaches. Or with friends for some reason.
Do you avoid such situations where someone could see your empty scrotum?
Or you just do not care? If you do not care, then what have been reactions of people, like do they look surprised, stare, or even ask questions?
Did you feel uncomfortable being naked and with empty scrotum?
Any other things worth of mentioning?
Many of the comments in this thread confirm my experience as well. Some folks may notice my empty sac - quite noticeable if folks spend enough time looking, but few make any comment. And if they do it seldom extends further than the comment. No one seems to care whether you have testicles or not - all kinds of reasons they may have been excised.
I also agree that there might be greater interest and questioning following a penectomy or nullification. That may be because the penis is so very much tied up in male identity. I recall once being naked in a local Pride parade. One of my fellow marchers was exhibiting a penis that was 'micro.' There were quite a few calls from the spectators for him to just have his penis amputated. My own is likely on the high side of average or above average. No one of the half million spectators said a thing about my genitals. Once in a while someone will ask if they can 'feel' my empty sac. It's never gone further.
I can fuck someone and they don't notice half the time unless I tell them. Then once I tell them everyone wants to poke the turkey gizzard and say "woah", it's a great way to get a lot of hands on your junk
