Seeking wisdom

[cutnbulls2ox (imported)]

Not to sound indifferent, but it’s seriously made it hard to meet up and get off. But I also realize people are losing loved ones, spouses, parents and grandparents mostly. Seems like businesses, especially the bars and restaurants, are getting hit really hard, too. So, keeping perspective and hoping this all ends soon for everyone — and Ranger.

You re not being indifferent at all. This virus is wrecking all kinds of things for people, travel, vactions, weddings, sports events, graduations, funerals, health care, businesses, jobs, an endless list.

I don t ever want to see people afraid to talk and express their own opinions or losses for fear that anyone will tell them that is wrong. You don t have to be dying to experience legitimate frustrations or losses from this virus.

A young man has a reasonable expectation to enjoy sex while he is in his sexual, physical, and attractiveness prime of his life. He wants to enjoy his body at its best and share it with appreciative sex partners as much as he desires. If anything prevents that, he has a right to resent that and say it out loud. Nothing wrong with that at all.

Its like standing amid tornado damage and saying my car is destroyed. Even if other people died in that tornado, there is nothing wrong or callous about telling people your car was destroyed. Not mentioning your destroyed car will not help anyone or make people feel better, or make the dead living again. Its simply stating a fact. No one has to have the biggest loss to justify saying you have a loss to other people. There is nothing virtuous or to be gained by hiding the truth.

Here s some advice to all young men and teens. As long as you wear condoms and practice safe sex, have as much sex as you possibly can. Ask any older men of any age, Did you get enough sex as a teen or young man ? Answer, NO ! Do you have many regrets for the times you did have sex ? Wishing you had not had that sex ? Answer, overwhelmingly NO, very very few times, mainly only if they had impregnated by mistake. And ask fathers later on if they wish their unplanned child had never been born ? And they will tell you how much they love theirs kids. Ask them, Do you regret NOT having sex when you had that chance as a teen or young man ? Answer, Overwhelming YES ! So many times a potential sex partner turns out to be way more fun that you ever expected. Very few times men wish they had said no to sex. Numerous times men wish they had said yes and enjoyed far more sex !

[rogerwpbfl (imported)]

You re not being indifferent at all. This virus is wrecking all kinds of things for people, travel, vactions, weddings, sports events, graduations, funerals, health care, businesses, jobs, an endless list.

I don t ever want to see people afraid to talk and express their own opinions or losses for fear that anyone will tell them that is wrong. You don t have to be dying to experience legitimate frustrations or losses from this virus.

A young man has a reasonable expectation to enjoy sex while he is in his sexual, physical, and attractiveness prime of his life. He wants to enjoy his body at its best and share it with appreciative sex partners as much as he desires. If anything prevents that, he has a right to resent that and say it out loud. Nothing wrong with that at all.

Its like standing amid tornado damage and saying my car is destroyed. Even if other people died in that tornado, there is nothing wrong or callous about telling people your car was destroyed. Not mentioning your destroyed car will not help anyone or make people feel better, or make the dead living again. Its simply stating a fact. No one has to have the biggest loss to justify saying you have a loss to other people. There is nothing virtuous or to be gained by hiding the truth.

Here s some advice to all young men and teens. As long as you wear condoms and practice safe sex, have as much sex as you possibly can. Ask any older men of any age, Did you get enough sex as a teen or young man ? Answer, NO ! Do you have many regrets for the times you did have sex ? Wishing you had not had that sex ? Answer, overwhelmingly NO, very very few times, mainly only if they had impregnated by mistake. And ask fathers later on if they wish their unplanned child had never been born ? And they will tell you how much they love theirs kids. Ask them, Do you regret NOT having sex when you had that chance as a teen or young man ? Answer, Overwhelming YES ! So many times a potential sex partner turns out to be way more fun that you ever expected. Very few times men wish they had said no to sex. Numerous times men wish they had said yes and enjoyed far more sex !

Thanks, but one error in your logic: I can think of a lot of times I wish I didn’t have sex... so there’s that lol

[cutnbulls2ox (imported)]

Hey Roger,

You re just less of an animal than most men lol. Just wait, and in decades from now, when sex is not as easy available for you to access as it is for you now. Then I doubt you will regret any of your past sex.

[mattman59 (imported)]

REAL men are not animals at all. REAL men are not obscessed with sex. The virus is actually a good thing in this area. It is frustrating the alpha testosterone freaks. The worthless pickup artists. Aw poor babies. Can't find anything better to do with themselves. Well now maybe they will come to their senses and be castrated and become NORMAL people. Zero sympathy for sex maniacs. They are exactly what is wrong in the world. Good riddance.

[cutnbulls2ox (imported)]

REAL men are not animals at all. REAL men are not obscessed with sex. The virus is actually a good thing in this area. It is frustrating the alpha testosterone freaks. The worthless pickup artists. Aw poor babies. Can't find anything better to do with themselves. Well now maybe they will come to their senses and be castrated and become NORMAL people. Zero sympathy for sex maniacs. They are exactly what is wrong in the world. Good riddance.

You desperately need anger management counseling. Such a name calling and mean spirited comment suggests you have major problems that castration has not corrected. If no one can have any ideas, feelings or opinions other than your own, you are the problem.

Did the Alpha male athlete bullies beat you to a pulp every day as a child or what ? Gee, I wonder why they d do that ? I can t imagine why ? Lol And you never recovered from that ?

[rogerwpbfl (imported)]

REAL men are not animals at all. REAL men are not obscessed with sex. The virus is actually a good thing in this area. It is frustrating the alpha testosterone freaks. The worthless pickup artists. Aw poor babies. Can't find anything better to do with themselves. Well now maybe they will come to their senses and be castrated and become NORMAL people. Zero sympathy for sex maniacs. They are exactly what is wrong in the world. Good riddance.

I'm not sure you were talking to me @mattman59. I don't offend easily and I wasn't bothered by your comments. I've learned to deal with both those who hate and those who envy what I possess. I was the one in school who was picked on and made fun of in the halls and especially the showers - for having a "third leg", being called mutant and tripod, and being told I should donate my cock to science to be dissected.

But, I'm seriously touched if you consider my balls to be as potent as the Black Plague. I'm impressed if you think the testosterone they produce is as lethal as the eruption of Mount Vesuvius at Pompeii. And, looking at my soft, thick, heavy cock this morning I'm ashamed to think (according to you) that it's the sole source of every bad thing that's ever happened in the world. I definitely have to handle it with more care, and should maybe act more fem to help people like you feel safe.

Please disregard all of the above if your comments weren't directed at me.

If they were for me, then please take a long draw of my testosterone straight from the source and see if that improves your outlook.

Stay healthy.

[TopManFL (imported)]

I don't offend easily and I wasn't bothered by your comments.

Rog,

You seriously impress me and you do it very often. I don't know what day of school I missed where I was supposed to learn the skill of not letting other people's ignorance bother me but, I must have been absent that day.

Later in life, I learned many social skills. It was not easy to learn those skills and put them into practice. You seem to have those skills and put them into practice.

Thank you, Rog, for giving a responsible and kind answer to what was a pretty mean spirited post. Well done and Bravo.

[rogerwpbfl (imported)]

Rog,

You seriously impress me and you do it very often. I don't know what day of school I missed where I was supposed to learn the skill of not letting other people's ignorance bother me but, I must have been absent that day.

Later in life, I learned many social skills. It was not easy to learn those skills and put them into practice. You seem to have those skills and put them into practice.

Thank you, Rog, for giving a responsible and kind answer to what was a pretty mean spirited post. Well done and Bravo.

Everyone on EA should read @MattMan59’s comment in this thread. Maybe he was meaning his opinion to be taken as a joke. Either way, it doesn’t really phase me. I wish peace to everyone, especially right now.

[Arab Nights (imported)]

Glad you aren't phased. That is a good attitude to have.

Anyone can look at his last post on a separate thread and between the two pretty much judge him.

[cutnbulls2ox (imported)]

I'm not sure you were talking to me @mattman59. I don't offend easily and I wasn't bothered by your comments. I've learned to deal with both those who hate and those who envy what I possess. I was the one in school who was picked on and made fun of in the halls and especially the showers - for having a "third leg", being called mutant and tripod, and being told I should donate my cock to science to be dissected.

But, I'm seriously touched if you consider my balls to be as potent as the Black Plague. I'm impressed if you think the testosterone they produce is as lethal as the eruption of Mount Vesuvius at Pompeii. And, looking at my soft, thick, heavy cock this morning I'm ashamed to think (according to you) that it's the sole source of every bad thing that's ever happened in the world. I definitely have to handle it with more care, and should maybe act more fem to help people like you feel safe.

Please disregard all of the above if your comments weren't directed at me.

If they were for me, then please take a long draw of my testosterone straight from the source and see if that improves your outlook.

Stay healthy.

Hey ! I had great nicknames like those in school too. But I proudly enjoyed and welcomed those and considered them a huge compliment. Teachers and coaches got mad at me when people used those in class or during games. But I got off on those nicknames.

Most guys wished they had your reasons to EARN such admiring and envious nicknames !