Irritated by gender inequalities

[Jan_Linde (imported)]

I agree with Begoneboy, society should be more equal. In my experience it seems a lot easier to get MtF surgery than MtE and it also seems more acceptable. My desire is to be nullified smooth by the middle of next year, so far I have succeeded in getting deballed and am now waiting to be rid of the rest. Mostly I have been accepted as a eunuch but get the distinct impression that when I become a nullo getting a favorable response will be less likely. My boyfriend was very in favor of my castration but is now not so keen on my nullification, we will likely separate but remain friends.

[T van Keel (imported)]

That's true, being accepted as MtE is not really easy, even among therapists. Fortunately, I finally managed to get a letter of recommendation for my nullification. That's really great, if things continue to develop positive, it could happen I get the surgery before next summer.

Sorry to hear your boyfriend becomes hestiant in regards of your penectomy. I would be happy about a nullified partner.

[notsomanly (imported)]

I was getting a little worried about my PSA, which had increased each year, reaching 3.54 ng/mL a year ago. That was before suppressing T with Androcur, Estradiol and CaCl2 injections. My PSA has dropped to 1.4 ng/mL which is consistent with only producing a very small bit of semen when I occasionally masturbate. I strongly agree with the need for more preventative PC studies.

cutnbulls2ox has it right that men who choose castration and don't transition MTF are particularly shunned. It seems much easier for society to accept the notion of a female trapped in a male body than it is to accept a guy who just wants to be castrated, for whatever reason. It's pretty much the belief that real men would never want to become eunuchs.

[cutnbulls2ox (imported)]

I was getting a little worried about my PSA, which had increased each year, reaching 3.54 ng/mL a year ago. That was before suppressing T with Androcur, Estradiol and CaCl2 injections. My PSA has dropped to 1.4 ng/mL which is consistent with only producing a very small bit of semen when I occasionally masturbate. I strongly agree with the need for more preventative PC studies.

cutnbulls2ox has it right that men who choose castration and don't transition MTF are particularly shunned. It seems much easier for society to accept the notion of a female trapped in a male body than it is to accept a guy who just wants to be castrated, for whatever reason. It's pretty much the belief that real men would never want to become eunuchs.

Maybe if castration for health reasons gets discussed seriously among men, it will become as accepted as vasectomies are now.

Years ago, no real man would agree to get sterilized. Now tons of men around the world eagerly line up and pay to get themselves sterilized and highly recommend it to their friends, brothers, sons, coworkers, and other males.

Men not wanting to get prostate cancer and die a painful death many years earlier than men can survive should be more than sufficient reason for real men to eagerly line up to get themselves castrated with full approval and support from everyone. Men would eagerly agree to give up their testicles and sexual abilities at optimum ages to enjoy their gonads and testosterone to the fullest, and yet get gelded early enough to prevent prostate cancer.

With prostate cancer rates increasing and shortening so many men s otherwise increasing livespans, tragically and preventably, its time for men at high risk of prostate cancer to ask for research on when to get castrated for the maximum health benefits and the longest sex lives. Then it can start saving mens lives on a large scale. The timing knowledge of when to get castrated to save your life is what stops men now. Knowing when to get gelded is what men need to confidently save their lives by castration.

Just like mass vasectomies are fully accepted now to limit family size by men and women. Even parents openly advocate and encourage their grown sons to limit their number of grandchildren with vasectomies. Real men love to brag and get their vasectomies proudly done with everyone knowing about them. That took years to get socially accepted as a very normal and even smart and expected thing for men to do for themselves and for their wives and families.

Its long overdue for voluntary castration for medical reasons to be openly discussed and encouraged long before a man gets cancer. And for families to openly discuss this and plan this out between all generations of males openly and responsibly as a vital health issue and surgery.

[daifu-orchid (imported)]

Open discussion of a proven health benefit to PC?

Dietary advice for obesity, type II diabetes?

Discussion of the peculiar propensity of good US people shooting droves of each other?

All undoubted lifesavers, and all cost next to nothing, and not covered by medical insurance. Compare with diabetes medications including unnecessarily expensive insulin, bariatric surgery, PSA testing, prostatic radiation and surgery, and emrgency room trauma care and surgery -all handsomely covered.

While healthcare is viewed as a lucrative industry more than an humanitarian obligation to one's fellow, what chance discussion of PC prevention by a one-time simple castration, which can be done by a competent professional more easily than a vasectomy?

Yes, overdue for an open and honest discussion, but what would it take?

[cutnbulls2ox (imported)]

Maybe all these men and younger males in schools doing this November men s sexual health awareness every year about men s testicular cancer, prostate cancer, and men s sexual problems and organs is the start of those conversations between men and younger guys on how to be aware and openly talk about how to cure and prevent male sexual problems.

The big push to have famous athletes go on TV to get testicular exams to show men and boys how to do their own testicular exams seems to be widely accepted by men and boys now as a normal thing to do with their own balls every month.

Castration for testicular cancer and prostate cancer is now being openly discussed by younger males as part of this November men s sexual health. So are voluntary vasectomies. Even 7th and 8th grade boys now see full videos of vasectomies in their health classes, with their female classmates sitting next to them as they get hard dicked watching men voluntarily get sterilized and hear their girlfriends and female classmates enthusiastic comments about these young guys volunteering to get their own vasectomies done in about 10 to 15 years from then. Getting castrated some day after getting a vasectomy years or decades earlier makes it more acceptable to males, like routine circumcisions have been for so long. Us males would be used to having our sex organs cut from birth to old age in different stages.

[Brycenosak (imported)]

I agree, the system is an ambulance at the bottom of the cliff. My health insurance wont pay for eye checks, skin exams etc (we have the highest rate of melonoma in the world) They do pay after something goes wrong. Of course if there is too much prevention, the curers would be out of a job?? We wont get into being held to ransom by the pharmac's

[daifu-orchid (imported)]

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Ok, so it's like the weather: everyone talks about it but nobody does anything!

Just how do we get these things into regular public discourse?

Because until we do, the eunuch will never be accepted, less the nullo...

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[cutnbulls2ox (imported)]

Posting comments about health related castrations and how eunuchs live after that is one big help. For every one post on here, there are lots of males of different ages, and horny underaged guys like me years ago, reading these posts.

Just talking openly and without shame about our ball troubles and seriously discussing everything related to human castration is another help. Lance Armstrong losing one of his famous balls to testicular cancer and then continuing on to win more races sure brought losing balls out into public view and discussions for everyone, especially younger males who never heard of ball cancer before that.

[mattman59 (imported)]

The key is don't worry about what anyone else thinks. Do what is right and comfortable for YOU. Who cares what society thinks? More and more people are becoming antisocial which is great. The tide is definitly turning on this. What was considered taboo just a few decades ago is now no big deal. Personally I will be celebrating my 15th anniversary as a eunuch on Feb 25. Best thing I ever did in my entire life. Dr Murray Kimmel performed the orchiectomy. Too bad he is not still around God rest his soul. He was super. Treated me so great and fully understood and was very empathetic. I know there will be a lot more castration surgeons popping up as time goes on. You just need to find out where they are located. They need to keep a rather low profile because of catching heat from the medical profession. But they're definitely out there. If you really want to be castrated then by all means go for it. Do yourself a huge favor. Best thing you'll ever do. Life is too short to put up with the needless garbage of being uncomfortable with your inner self. Don't let ANYTHING stand in your way.