Does your partner prefer you castrated

[cutnbulls2ox (imported)]

I'm in my 60s and talk with a childhood friend often. In discussions about sex we both feel our sex drives are high compared to others our age and how often we've heard women and men complain of their partner's sex drive - being higher or lower. She said that recently she dated two men and after a few dates each of them thought it appropriate to mention that because of prostate cancer treatments that sex isn't possible nor do they really have an interest. She admitted that it was actually a relief to know that their interest was simply someone to have fun with. She said it was easier to relax around them - admitting that the absence of sexual tension could be the explanation. If the relationship was to continue she'd either look for a friend just for sex or just take care of it herself. I had mentioned that quite a few of my friends are eunuchs for the same reason. No complaints from them about sex and their wives seem quite happy. I had mentioned to her that I talked to my doctor about a medication to ease my sex drive (wife's interest has declined). Next time I see her I'll have to ask about her thoughts on voluntary castration and if she would be more willing to date a guy who was chemically or surgically castrated.

That s great that the men you know are so open, honest, and unembarassed about being eunuchs. As more men live longer lives, more men will finish life as eunuchs than in past generations. It will start to be older men s puberty in reverse and get more common.

A few eunuchs don t mind showering and locker rooms and proudly display their steered sacks or no sacks to all of the younger males to get them accustomed to seeing geldings and accepting castration as a normal stage in male lifespans. That s great for all males. The younger males appreciate having balls more and get conditioned for when its their time to get castrated. And most importantly, the castrated men of all ages can feel more comfortable naked in front of other males.

Its great that women do appreciate eunuchs as good, non sexual friends and enjoy their companionship.

[Wellesley (imported)]

Short answer is yes.

Wife had a radcial hysterectomy including removal of the cervix and a lot of the vaginal vault. So intercourse was off the table.

[mattman59 (imported)]

Hey cutnbulls2ox, Are you sure that having a set of balls hanging between the legs is what makes a man? Or that somehow not having them hanging makes him less of a man? Think on it a while.

Great point Begoneboy! Just like T does not determine what a 'man' is. Eunuchs can be just as manly as 'regular' men depending on how they identify themselves. So sick and tired of the macho masculine neanderthal cro-magnon knuckle-dragging mentality that is so backward in this day and age. Thank goodness that is all gradually going by the wayside. Good riddance to that!

[mattman59 (imported)]

REAL men should do what is right for them and not worry about what their partners think. If their partners are understanding, loving, and sympathetic then they will accept it and be supportive. If not then to hell with them. Plenty of fish in the sea.

[GordonGG (imported)]

REAL men should do what is right for them and not worry about what their partners think. If their partners are understanding, loving, and sympathetic then they will accept it and be supportive. If not then to hell with them. Plenty of fish in the sea.

I disagree with you 100%. First off, there is no such thing as "REAL" men. Men come in all different styles, makes and models. (Sorry for the car analogy.)

Your comment is one way to look at it if you're not married or in a long term relationship. I've been married 46 years and we raised 5 children. There is no way I would have done it without her consent. But doing it helped her out as well as myself.

[Begoneboy (imported)]

REAL men should do what is right for them and not worry about what their partners think. If their partners are understanding, loving, and sympathetic then they will accept it and be supportive. If not then to hell with them. Plenty of fish in the sea.

Just a thought for you. To my way of thinking a REAL man sticks by his partner through thick and thin no matter what. A REAL man does everything in his power to keep a relationship together. A vast majority of marriage failures happen because the woman loses sight of what a real relationship is and sticking by her man through thick and thin is totally lost on her or often just wants more materialistic things out of life or just jumps on any bandwagon that happens to come along. I've watched more relationships be dumped by the woman no matter how hard the REAL man worked to make it last.[/B] There are many qualities that go into making a real man and quitting is not one of them.

Just an opinion and not putting down other opinions.

[Arab Nights (imported)]

My first reaction was good for you, but on second thought there really are some women who have shown admirable stamina also. I have known some, so I don't think it is a male only thing. It is a mark of a quality person. And it should be highlighted.

[Begoneboy (imported)]

My first reaction was good for you, but on second thought there really are some women who have shown admirable stamina also. I have known some, so I don't think it is a male only thing. It is a mark of a quality person. And it should be highlighted.

Absolutely! It is a mark of a quality person. And when two quality people get together everything can be worked out in life.

[mattman59 (imported)]

Just a thought for you. To my way of thinking a REAL man sticks by his partner through thick and thin no matter what. A REAL man does everything in his power to keep a relationship together. A vast majority of marriage failures happen because the woman loses sight of what a real relationship is and sticking by her man through thick and thin is totally lost on her or often just wants more materialistic things out of life or just jumps on any bandwagon that happens to come along. I've watched more relationships be dumped by the woman no matter how hard the REAL man worked to make it last.[/B] There are many qualities that go into making a real man and quitting is not one of them.

Just an opinion and not putting down other opinions.

I agree with doing everything possible to keep the relationship going if it is worth the effort and not a waste of time. The types of women you mentioned are good for nothing, completely worthless, and should be thrown in the nearest dumpster. No wonder the MGTOW movement is thriving. God love em. Men do just fine on their own. That is a complete and total myth that men and women need each other when in reality they don't.

[mattman59 (imported)]

I disagree with you 100%. First off, there is no such thing as "REAL" men. Men come in all different styles, makes and models. (Sorry for the car analogy.)

Your comment is one way to look at it if you're not married or in a long term relationship. I've been married 46 years and we raised 5 children. There is no way I would have done it without her consent. But doing it helped her out as well as myself.

I'm glad you have had a good marriage. Can't knock that. Yeah I've been single my whole life and plan on keeping it that way. Most marriages and relationships nowadays are a joke. My whole point was that men need to do what is right for them without anyone else telling them otherwise, and yeah being married would complicate matters if the spouse disagrees.