Does your partner prefer you castrated

[GordonGG (imported)]

My wife is happy with my castration. My sex drive was out of control at times, and it has caused a lot of problems in our 46 year marriage. Now that my libido is at around 1-5% of what it used to be, we are both happier.

[cutnbulls2ox (imported)]

Hey cutnbulls2ox, Are you sure that having a set of balls hanging between the legs is what makes a man? Or that somehow not having them hanging makes him less of a man? Think on it a while.

Hey Begoneboy, I m just pointing out the attractions that some people, including what the men both intact and gelded, get off on. Its not a judgement. Its just a statement that this is an attraction for some people. They enjoy their ideas of geldings being unmanned and less than a man. Not as an insult to all eunuchs. Its a humiliation turn on sexually for them. Like masters and subs choose to enjoy.

[DonnyMac (imported)]

My wife is happy with my castration. My sex drive was out of control at times, and it has caused a lot of problems in our 46 year marriage. Now that my libido is at around 1-5% of what it used to be, we are both happier.

Exactly the same here. After we stopped having kids my wife libido bottomed out. Much less frustration for both of us. Don

[hans-europe (imported)]

...indeed such a partner is very welcome. But it's not easy to find. Maybe anyone is older! and interested....

[Begoneboy (imported)]

Hey Begoneboy, I m just pointing out the attractions that some people, including what the men both intact and gelded, get off on. Its not a judgement. Its just a statement that this is an attraction for some people. They enjoy their ideas of geldings being unmanned and less than a man. Not as an insult to all eunuchs. Its a humiliation turn on sexually for them. Like masters and subs choose to enjoy.

Oh I get it there cutnbulls2ox. It's safe to say that nobody who meets or knows me consider me "manly". But in my mind I always refer back to "what is manly?". It's true that the many virtues that make a real man have nothing to do with sex but are rather the attributes that go to make a man as a whole. I also understand that the vast majority of discussions on these threads have to do mainly with sex itself. I just like to think that there is way more to life than simple raw acts of sex.

I wasn't in any way putting those down nor the things that become a sexual turn on to folks including myself. Make no mistake, I fall for real men and in particular men who are MEN that can indeed be the strength and control of the relationship whether it is with sex or just life situations. A real man does not get pushed around and takes care of what is important to him. I am drawn to those types and as you can only imagine, I am one that is a bit on the wild side so takes a lot of inner strength to tackle one such as myself. Those who seem attracted to me somehow have exactly those qualities and yet are still gentle in exercising them. To my way of thinking, to humiliate another human is not manly but rather a cowardly act of a control disorder. It's just another opinion on the topic of course and not meant to put down other thoughts or opinions on the topic nor belittle how others may feel, think or get turned on.

[Chesleyt (imported)]

I agree 100 percent well said

[microeunuch (imported)]

Great topic. I wish I had one. Sadly, I am still (and probably forever will be) a virgin. Orchiectomy with scrotal removal by Dr. Kimmel in Dec. 2005. Best decision I ever made. I've always wanted to be with someone but nobody has ever wanted to be with me. Still searching for someone to provide my penectomy.

[Chesleyt (imported)]

Mexico transgender clinic does. Penectomies I'm checking into them right now my self. Does the relationship have to be sexual or can it be more affection

[consideredit (imported)]

I'm in my 60s and talk with a childhood friend often. In discussions about sex we both feel our sex drives are high compared to others our age and how often we've heard women and men complain of their partner's sex drive - being higher or lower. She said that recently she dated two men and after a few dates each of them thought it appropriate to mention that because of prostate cancer treatments that sex isn't possible nor do they really have an interest. She admitted that it was actually a relief to know that their interest was simply someone to have fun with. She said it was easier to relax around them - admitting that the absence of sexual tension could be the explanation. If the relationship was to continue she'd either look for a friend just for sex or just take care of it herself. I had mentioned that quite a few of my friends are eunuchs for the same reason. No complaints from them about sex and their wives seem quite happy. I had mentioned to her that I talked to my doctor about a medication to ease my sex drive (wife's interest has declined). Next time I see her I'll have to ask about her thoughts on voluntary castration and if she would be more willing to date a guy who was chemically or surgically castrated.

[hans-europe (imported)]

...great, lets discuss about. If you want. Think al lot of males, females seeeking a partner is chemically or surgically castrated. Let's hope, more understand the positive. effects....