Shame and regret...but I’d do it again!

[cutnbulls2ox (imported)]

You could always have your sperm stored cryogenically before undergoing the knife. I've never had this done and don't know the ins and outs of actually getting a hospital or sperm bank to take and store it for you (there'll probably be a yearly fee involved for the freezer space), but I know for a fact it's technologically possible. Something to look into if that's the only thing holding you back.

My balls got damaged and my dr told me to be ready to lose my balls or their sperm and testosterone making abilities at any time in the fuuture. So, I checked into sperm banking and what it would cost.

There are online companies that will do it by long distance for the lowest costs. Going to a clinic seems to cost more. You pay and the internet sperm bankers will send you the storage vials, instructions on do it yourself sperm collection and how to send your sperm back, and dry ice to collect your own sperm by masturbation into small containers at home that you keep frozen and mail in to the sperm bank long distance. Those usually cost the least at around $400 to $1000 to set up to store and around $400 to $1000 a year to pay to keep your sperm in deep freeze and waiting to be thawed out for use.

The bigger question is how well each man s sperm freezes and thaws out. Some men can thaw out their frozen sperm and his sperm are healthy and fast swimmers that can impregnate a woman easily. Some men s sperm all die from freezing. And any degree in between can happen. One fertility ddr I talked to said it can cost $10,000 to help some men s weak frozen sperm impregnate a woman !

Amazing the work our penis and testicles do for free for us lol !

Local clinics and hospitals usually won t bank sperm unless you are in a large city or you can find a private sperm bank. To jack off in person at a clinic or sperm bank to hand over your fresh sperm means traveling to a place that offers sperm banking.

You don t need any tests or a physical, you just pay your money and masturbate out as many ejaculations as you want to pay for storing. Most sperm banks have a basic minimum cost that includes processing and storing a few ejaculations and add fees to store more ejaculations than that. My sperm count is really high, so my dr said three ejaculations would be plenty of sperm to make all the kids I could ever want to have.

Its common for men and teens with medical problems and men getting vasectomies to choose to store their sperm now. I read about one man who frose his sperm in case his sons ever get sterile and want to use his sperm to have kids.

Take a look online at sperm banks to see lots of details.

[paring (imported)]

Cutnbulls2ox That's very interesting. Have you fathered a child since ?

[cutnbulls2ox (imported)]

Glad its useful information.

No, after looking into it in detail and getting cost estimates from different sperm banks in different places, I sat down and thought long and hard about it.

All my life I knew I was a non breeder by my own choice. Suddenly my balls were at risk and making that choice permanent. I took a while to think over if I d ever use my frozen sperm to have kids. The answer was no. Too much hassle in being with a woman to raise any kids right. Too much drama queen and female moods and irrationality for me to stand 9 months of pregnancy, much less 18 years of raising a kid together. Men are way more harmonious and stay on course in life.

I decided wasting thousands of dollars for how many years of sperm banking and not likely ever using it, to skip the sperm banking for me. Just not a realistic chance I d ever use it. So, I stuck with being childless by choice permanently. I m happy with my decision. Sure every man would like a son to carry on his name and family tree after he is gone. But that s not for me. And it was time to decide for sure before wasting a lot of money for many years.

But I thought I d pass on what I learned about it.

Jacking off for a semen analysis to check on how my testicles were functioning was exactly like jacking off to bank sperm. You show up at the clinic. Wait your turn in a waiting room full of men. You turn comes. You are shown to an exam room with one recliner chair, a sink, a video player and TV to watch videos to help you masturbate. You re told not to ejaculate at all for 3 to 7 days before to save up a good load of sperm for your sample load. They tell you no lube that might kill sperm and to ask for safe lube from the lab that won t screw up your semen analysis or kill your sperm. The lube they give you is cold and watery slime stuff, clear and it dries fast in friction. The videos are so tame they are useless. But you can bring your own videos or printed porn to help you shoot.

You get as much time as you need. There s an intercom if you need lube or have any questions. You are instructed to catch your entire ejaculate in the sample cup or jar to not miss any sperm or parts of your load for testing. After you shoot, you call on the intercom and a lab tech comes to the door to pick up your jar after you are dressed. Everyone is very professional, quiet, and not joking or asking any questions, just all science, no giggles or smirks or anything personal.

[russianboy (imported)]

It is very difficult to find girlfriend to castrated guy in Russia. It is more difficult make her pregnant from frosen sperm. But I want castration as soon as possible!

[Begoneboy (imported)]

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Men are way more harmonious and stay on course in life.

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Wow! I believe you hit the nail on the head with that one. And it certainly explains why it is that I have far more guy friends in life than gal. Women are way too fickle and moody as you very well pointed out. Perhaps that is just the tip of the iceberg and is definitely why I NEVER wanted to be a female in life. They can be fun as can men but I would go out to a ball game or on a 1000 mile ride on my bike with a guy verses a gal any day of the week. A guy would pull my ass out of a fire while a gal would simply stand there and watch me burn. Go figure how you so aptly drove that nail home. Thanks for that one.

oh there are probably a few women someplace that are harmonious and easy to live with, I just haven't met any of them. A bit of sex is for a few hours, but the rest just keeps going on and on and on and on forever. if there is a God, and the god created heaven and earth, no wonder he made man first. It then became the undoing with the creation of a woman.

[cutnbulls2ox (imported)]

Hey Begoneboy,

I thought I might end up with a ton of angry posts on that idea, glad I didn t. Yes, men and women are different. Try getting a big group of women to live harmoniously in a barracks or similar conditions and the cat fights would be endless as would the emotions and drama. Glad to hear you agree. Like you said, just travel with a person and you ll see real quick if they are harmonious or full of vinegar all the time. Travel really stresses lots of people and its tough to fake what you are 24 hours a day. The real person shows through much faster being together 24 hours a day when traveling.

I love kids and coaching kids, other people s kids lol that go home to their own parents ! To raise a kid right, ideally they need both a dad and mom, especially at young ages when a loving mom is so crucial. Later on in grade school just a dad alone is more do able. But kids deserve a loving set of parents if possible. I know I couldn t make it work, unless as you said, I could find a woman who is more like a man emotionally. Honestly, I d have a tough time living with a man who is as emotional and drama queen as most women are.

I ll leave the challenges of living with women and being married to them to the men who want and enjoy that. They can be the breeders until cloning gets common and produces healthy humans from our own DNA.

Thanks for your post. That s much better than the rants I d get on any mostly female website for saying the truth lol !

[cutnbulls2ox (imported)]

Younger this has never crossed my mind, but since the last 4-5 years, I thought about it. After I ended my chem castration, myT level was so low that I had to be on TRT. That didn't help with my sperm count. I quitted TRT almost 5 years ago and started to work on elevating my T level as well as my sperm count. It's going up slowly, at my last blood test my T level was quite normal but my sperm count was still a bit low. I intend to make a sperm deposit as soon as my sperm count will high enough. One of my dreams is to father a child. I can garantie that it will happen but I"ll try. At this point my castration desire is at its peak and this is bugging me a lot., I don't want to get it done too soon and ruin my chance to father a child. Just like Qunuch81, I might have regrets to have lost my testes and I might regret it even morte if lost the chance to father a child. Just like Qunuch81, I have this irresistible desire to be castrated but I'm also conscious that I might sometime regret it.

You can bank and freeze your sperm to join many ejaculations worth of your sperm together to make higher numbers of sperm to use in each insemination attempt to become a father. Infertile or less fertile men can save up their sperm from many ejaculations by freezing and then release a huge number of them all at once by artificial insemination when the woman is most able to be impregnated.

[paring (imported)]

cutnbulls2ox

I know I'm getting old to father and rise a child, this will have to happen soon. So freezing sperm might not be necessary. I'm planning to use a surrogate mother, fresh sperm might be used for IVF. I' more gay than hetero, so I have no intention to live and rise a child with woman but that doesn't mean there won't be any women around.

[cutnbulls2ox (imported)]

Hey paring,

You are braver than me lol ! But I admire your drive to be a father and the huge expense and effort that you d be taking on to do it in that way. You must have a strong breeder instinct in you to take on all of that ! Kind of makes you wish you had just been carelessly making love and fathered a kid as a young man and attained fatherhood in the easiest and most pleasurable way there is, a hot one night stand and hitting that bulls eye effortlessly !

Good for you paring, too few gay and bi men reproduce and pass on their excellent genetics. Its a big loss to humanity that reproduction has become so entangled with monogamy and marriage to ruin it for so many people, especially for men. Monogamy and marriage sure discourage the men, along with the highly unequal enforcement of child support by men.

I honestly admire any men willing to take on fatherhood. Its a crucial job that responsible men need to man up to !

[paring (imported)]

Thanks cutnbulls2ox

I wish I could have fathered a child, when I was younger, in the most normal way with a woman. All my relations with women have been failures. I felt rejected only because of my stupid looking circumcised dick. I quitted dating women to avoid suicide. I did 2 self castration attempts,. at 26-27 y.o., to put an end to my sex life. Since my chem castration (42 till 50 y.o.), I rarely have sex with anyone, perhaps once a year or less. I say that I'm gay because I've had sex more often with men than with women but I don't know what I truly am perhaps asexual would be most appropriate term, anyway that doesn't matter. So I've lived a lonely life as a workaholic but now that I'm retired I need to fill that gap to give sense to my life. If I'm not already castrated it's because of my desire to father a child. Lately this fantasy became a real obsession. I have consulted a transgender psy and at the end she just approved my choices.