Things that might come with being castrated, and maybe to be enjoyed?

[daifu-orchid (imported)]

Some things come with being nutted. And some folks like to mitigate the zero T with TRT. Good folks, doubtless, but lets leave them there, and look at the folks who get nutted and have no T.

I'm interested that while the initial lassitude may on occasion progress to frank depression -get immediate professional help, please - it would appear that most of the time it doesn't. The Qing empire was not famous for full psych wards of depressives, in fact may eunuchs proved to be high achievers with clearly not lack of personal drive and get-up-and-go.

I've been interested that folks have been upset with a little breast growth -common it seems, but not inevitable. Assuming that sufficient forethought went into the decision to get nutted in the first place, it shouldn't be a surprise. While the two pair in this household rate a B and a eunuch-style gnat-bite (I believe the correct unit of measurement), both are enjoyed. While the libido is modest, there is always a little extra possibility for fun. Are the gnat-bites noticeable? Probably not, unless in intimate company, and then they seem to be enjoyed by all involved. Discomfort? Initially some, but it soon went away, and all that was left was a very small breast bud and only little enlarged nipple.

Anything else? Well the trim figure below tends nowadays towards the perfect pear-shape, if the weight is not watched. Again, we are not aspiring to competitive body-building, so it really doesn't matter.

We'll let go of a secret here: (shhh!!!) happiness is making the best of what you have, as the stepping stone for making the self even better. The two of us enjoy the eunuch status of hubby, even if he isn't quite the same as before castration. We are not surprised; it is to be expected..

For all the complainers of what comes with being nutted, I almost feel tempted to add in a good dollop of E to show just how big could be achieved! Sensibly, though, eunuch means certain things come with the deal. Just a little on the chest, and a little on the hips, who cares? Eunuch life has been the happiest period of my life. Be realistic about expectations, and make the best of what life throws at you. I'd not be first to say that being a eunuch opens so many possibilities!

[cutnbulls2ox (imported)]

As merely an observer reading posts on here, it seems like the number one goal of a very large percentage of men interested in, or actively seeking, castration is the relief from high male sex drives that go unsatisfied for long periods of time. If more of these men had sex partners with equal or higher sex drives and ample sex, many wouldn t want to be castrated.

These men don t seek changed bodies as much as simply release from desiring endless sex and the common male desire for ever new and fresh sex partners to satisfy their never ending sexual desires. So the body changes they get from castration aren t welcomed by them if they d prefer to stay masculine and unchanged physically after losing only their unwanted intense sex drives and the very natural male urges to mate with ever changing sex partners.

[justine77 (imported)]

Hi daifu-orchid, as previously described in the forum I was 'nutted' at 23. It was not by choice nevertheless there wasn't a lot in the way of down side. I went 18 months without any hormone replacement and had very few side effects. It took me a year to adjust to my new state as a eunuch but I've come to like it. I lost my body hair and erections but didn't get loss of drive, weakness etc. I kept my slim figure and became slightly more feminine. I tried TRT for a year which was fine but decided recently that with my balls gone I was ready to try transitioning a bit more to female. I've been on estrogen 3 weeks now. I may have done this anyway but having my testicles removed speeded things up. Though not planned being nutted has on balance been fine for me, Justine x

[daifu-orchid (imported)]

CB, I think you have something here: some want a relief from the sex drive without be eunuchs. You may be right that this is best cured by the biggest bacchanalian orgy of a party for all concerned to get it out of the system. Pruning nuts isn't the answer, because it comes with much of the rest of the deal.

J77, much good sense as always. While I'm amazed at how well you manage losing the nuts at 23; the example is to make the best of the day. If I were androgyne, I'd find it hard not to explore how E might be a good fit, and then make the best of what I found out. I very much agree that after a period of adjustment the new eunuch state now feels very good, and offers so many options. I'm older, so perhaps have a little less breadth to explore.

Seize the day, as long as you're careful what you wish for. YOLO, and make sure you enjoy all the stages and opportunities.

[Begoneboy (imported)]

CB and J77 are both so very much on the mark here as is daifu. Yes, let us seize the day and the very moment to enjoy our lives at their fullest.

While I'm no longer young in the number of years existing on this planet I AM but a child in mind and heart. As such I find intricate pleasures in

all those things we so blissfully played with in our youth. Things such as those first kisses just keep happening again and again in life as I continue

traveling down the many paths before me. Those sly remarks behind the back as we pass appreciative fellow humans renew the little spark of

life at every turn. As to the little changes in our bodies as a result of either lacking one hormone or adding another, they are all part of the adventure.

Seize the moment and live to it's fullest.

[kastranja (imported)]

Begoneboy,

just read your text and it directly made me weep. Thynk you for those incredible words!

And that is my contribution to this thread:

I enjoy every time something makes me weep, because it makes me feel alive more than anything else. And I do it a lot more since then.

[markiemaxwell (imported)]

I've spent most of my life trying to rid myself of my testicles and have only recently succeeded in self castration, having totally non functioning testicles as necked up by 2 successive blood tests. In currently awaiting a psych review with the aim of surgical removal, hopefully asap. So I've been without much T point since early April.

I also don't want my high sex drive but I also identify as male to eunuch.

I don't want TRT, except for my concerns about health. It's all OK to say weight gain and possibly breast growth etc, but for those that don't want trt and don't get it, how do they mitigate the actual real health issues of cardiovascular problems, muscle wastage, and bone density loss (my two biggest concerns)? If it weren't for that I wouldn't want trt. Although current insomnia isn't fun either.

How do people feel about long term issues for health of no T?

Also.. sorry if my comments don't belong here. This is my first ever post

[Begoneboy (imported)]

I've spent most of my life trying to rid myself of my testicles and have only recently succeeded in self castration, having totally non functioning testicles as necked up by 2 successive blood tests. In currently awaiting a psych review with the aim of surgical removal, hopefully asap. So I've been without much T point since early April.

I also don't want my high sex drive but I also identify as male to eunuch.

I don't want TRT, except for my concerns about health. It's all OK to say weight gain and possibly breast growth etc, but for those that don't want trt and don't get it, how do they mitigate the actual real health issues of cardiovascular problems, muscle wastage, and bone density loss (my two biggest concerns)? If it weren't for that I wouldn't want trt. Although current insomnia isn't fun either.

How do people feel about long term issues for health of no T?

Also.. sorry if my comments don't belong here. This is my first ever post

You just keep right on posting and voicing your concerns. If I've learned one lesson in life it is that the dumbest question is the one not asked.

[Chesleyt (imported)]

I feel like you and am not taking testosterone but I'm using a estrogen cream on Amazon it's a very low dose and has made the difference in my case. I didn't want to continue taking my testosterone replacement therapy because it was causing me sever depression and anxiety. I stopped it in January and it was ruff in the beginning getting off the high dose that I was on. I found out that I have osteopenia in March and had to low dose estrogen therapy for my bones, the bonus was that my hot flashes and night sweats stopped and my energy levels have improved. This has worked for me but I have been doing alot of research and taking with others who are doing it under a physicians care. Where I live my endocrinologist won't treat me with estrogen because it isn't FDA approved treatment for men. Hope you find your path good luck

[newnuch2020 (imported)]

hi, i was thinking about making a new thread about this, but i see that one already exists

i have always been interested in the concept of a third gender, especially one that serves a particular scholarly or artistic function - think the castrati, or eunuch clerics, historians, courtiers, etc.

also, in terms of sex, i enjoy being the feminine energy - the yin to my partner's yang, if you will. and i want that physically - soft skin, youth, big hips, little breasts, the pear-shaped lower body, soft thighs, and a pretty acorn there in my special place, just to highlight the difference between my male partner and myself.

thanks to my ongoing chem castration i already have some of these things, but i want more, and i want a special person to share those with. and i think those are the aspects of castration i enjoy the most.