Castration to improve your marriage?

[seanthomas (imported)]

So I get a question on another thread asking basically: "If you are married, why did you get castrated?"

Now this was sort of confusing, for I'm sure I am not the only married eunuch. As I responded it brought to mind an interesting topic of discussion. "Can castration actually improve your marriage?" Now the discussion need not be limited to men who identify as heterosexual. Gay men in a long term monogamous relationships would have the same considerations.

I can only relate my personal experiences but in my case, yes. Definitely, Getting castrated had a very positive impact on my marriage. My middle aged, post menopausal, and very beautiful wife supported my desire to become a eunuch. Perhaps she thought it might even out our libidos, or as I have come to suspect - middle aged women may secretly harbor a deep seated desire to neuter their husbands, if for no other reason than to keep them from seeking a younger, more vibrant lover.

Perhaps it's ironic that, as my libido decreased after castration, my wife's significant increased. Maybe it was that now she didn't feel oppressed and sex was less a marital duty than for her pleasure. She admits she feel more in control of our relationship now and that alone has made me more desirable.

Now as for my lovely wife's perception of having a castrated husband. She claims I have become a much better lover. I am more attentive to her desires. I'm no longer anxious to cum and therefore always make sure she is satisfied before I finish. I tend to like to cuddle more, caress more, passionately kiss more and take things much slower these days. I can't always get and stay hard, so she receives a lot more oral sex. When she just wants to use her vibrator without vaginal penetration I never object (and now truly love to see her fuck herself). I don't get in the least upset when I cannot maintain my erection and will happily don the strap-on if she wants dick and I can't keep it up.

Being castrated I feel no less a man and yet have shed much of my macho persona in bed. It took some experimenting, but now she likes to don the strap-on herself, assume a dominant position and fucking me in the ass until I scream in ecstasy (yes, anal orgasms are incredibly intense and no erection required!!).

Okay, so with all my blathering the question remains. Can castration make your lover happier and more satisfied?

Any women here? I'd love to hear their opinion, but eunuch husbands too.

[Freddyjack (imported)]

the quick answer for you could be "I'm too much man for any woman" that'll shut em up.

[Arab Nights (imported)]

I am not answering for myself, but trying to repeat a post perhaps a decade ago from a member who no longer posts here. I am intact. I know my relationship with my wife seems to cycle thru sex, happiness, building tension between us, fight, fuck, rinse and repeat. It is like the sex clears the air for the next round. I asked how relationships work if there is not the sex to clear the tension of marriage and raising kids, paying bills and so on. I believe it was Mr. T or something like that who said it was damn difficulat to maintain a relationship. Maybe there are people here who have no tensions in their relationships. Maybe there are other ways to clear the air. Be interesting to see comments.

[DonnyMac (imported)]

Lowering my libido, first through chemical then permanent, definitely saved our marriage. Mismatched libido would have lead to me leaving her. We had a heartfelt discussion about our libido and decided to start a chem trial. After a few months, my wife became a huge fan. She became more into cuddling and closeness.

Don

[sparkey49 (imported)]

My wife has said a few times it is like being newlyweds again I am able to focus on her so much more and we have been married almost 37 years.

[poorpupnoballs (imported)]

So I get a question on another thread asking basically: "If you are married, why did you get castrated?"

Now this was sort of confusing, for I'm sure I am not the only married eunuch. As I responded it brought to mind an interesting topic of discussion. "Can castration actually improve your marriage?" Now the discussion need not be limited to men who identify as heterosexual. Gay men in a long term monogamous relationships would have the same considerations.

I can only relate my personal experiences but in my case, yes. Definitely, Getting castrated had a very positive impact on my marriage. My middle aged, post menopausal, and very beautiful wife supported my desire to become a eunuch. Perhaps she thought it might even out our libidos, or as I have come to suspect - middle aged women may secretly harbor a deep seated desire to neuter their husbands, if for no other reason than to keep them from seeking a younger, more vibrant lover.

Perhaps it's ironic that, as my libido decreased after castration, my wife's significant increased. Maybe it was that now she didn't feel oppressed and sex was less a marital duty than for her pleasure. She admits she feel more in control of our relationship now and that alone has made me more desirable.

Now as for my lovely wife's perception of having a castrated husband. She claims I have become a much better lover. I am more attentive to her desires. I'm no longer anxious to cum and therefore always make sure she is satisfied before I finish. I tend to like to cuddle more, caress more, passionately kiss more and take things much slower these days. I can't always get and stay hard, so she receives a lot more oral sex. When she just wants to use her vibrator without vaginal penetration I never object (and now truly love to see her fuck herself). I don't get in the least upset when I cannot maintain my erection and will happily don the strap-on if she wants dick and I can't keep it up.

Being castrated I feel no less a man and yet have shed much of my macho persona in bed. It took some experimenting, but now she likes to don the strap-on herself, assume a dominant position and fucking me in the ass until I scream in ecstasy (yes, anal orgasms are incredibly intense and no erection required!!).

Okay, so with all my blathering the question remains. Can castration make your lover happier and more satisfied?

Any women here? I'd love to hear their opinion, but eunuch husbands too.

I wanted to tell you I love your blog!

[nutlessstud (imported)]

I wanted to tell you I love your blog!

Now you have us all curious, as to what blog you are making reference. LOL

[notsomanly (imported)]

Mismatched levels of libido can be a very serious problem. In my case, my wife and I have a female friend who spends days at a time with us. My wife's fear that we would become sexually involved was legitimate although nothing ever happened. I still had a reasonably high libido and my wife and our friend essentially none. The only solution I can see is for me to join them in having no sex drive. If I become impotent so much the better. I actually found that I'd developed an aversion to sex any way and my libido was annoying. Nearly three weeks on Androcur has let me see how wonderful that state is. My wife and I have always enjoyed cuddling and even cuddle as we sleep together. For both of us, that's way more fulfilling than sex ever was (except at the beginning).