Male chastity cages

[Stefan (imported)]

Yes, for me it is a thrill to give the key for the chastity cage to a keyholder. I'm used to it. When I'm locked I want to be free after 2 weeks, but I've not that choise. When unlocked I want to be locked. I never had noticed any side effect. We played while I'm locked and I was stimulated, but didn't get any release. For me it's good to be controlled. But that's my personal view.

[TopManFL (imported)]

One issue regarding near permanent chastity wear is what to do in the event of a true emergency. A sudden need to travel by air or to enter a building with security that includes a metal detector.

If the key holder is not available, where to put the spare key? I've heard of many options over the years from in a sealed envelope (which if opened would let the key holder know it was used) to freezing the spare key in a block of ice and keeping it in the freezer (not practical for an emergency that requires immediate release).

Recently, I saw the best idea of an emergency spare key. It's a great idea because it allows access to the key no matter where the sub in chastity is (in other words, they wouldn't have to go home first), it would be 100% obvious that the key had been accessed and most importantly , it would frustrate the living shit out of the sub in chastity.

The solution? Loop the spare key through the lock that is holding the chastity on before it's locked. So, the key is right there on the device, yet to get the key off and use it, the sub would have to take a small metal file and open the hole on the key (the hole that normally would be used to put the key on a key chain).

Another brilliant idea I've seen is the "proof of life" concept. Years back it used to be that for kidnappers to provide "proof of life" they would send a picture of that kidnapped person holding that day's newspaper. Today, the police will give a code to the kidnappers. They just make it up - similar to 9r76U-8F - then they ask for a picture of the person holding a paper with that code on it.

So, for long distance Doms / Key Holders or for key holders needing to take a business trip, they can make up a code a few times a day at random times. Then, send a text message with that code and give the sub 3 minutes to post a picture in chastity and that code written on a piece of paper. Any time of day or night, the code might be sent.

One last thought. The fantasy of 24/7 chastity is interesting. The fact is that reality bites. Meaning trying to maintain a sub in a cage literally all the time is most likely setting up a failure.

That's not to say that with ever increasing amounts of time a sub can't achieve nearly permanent chastity, but that starting slow and working up to more and more denial is a much better strategy. Further, just because a sub is out of chastity doesn't mean they have to be allowed to orgasm. I mean I did say reality bites, right?

Or, there's always the weather. <wink>

[notsomanly (imported)]

Has anyone else used a male chastity cage ? I find it erotic giving my partner the only key and it is truly hers. It only gets unlocked IF she wants to play with it. I wear an ultra short cage most of the time which doesn’t even allow for any bit of erection.

You can find many styles on Amazon ( search for chastity tube) and a vibrant community at ChastityMansion.com and other places.

I have a couple and enjoy how they keep it small. It's small to begin with so I had to look a while to find one small enough.

[Freddyjack (imported)]

I'm not into chastity cages so I went to CastityMansion.com, JessicaH, you ought to be ashamed of yourself referring poor old men to such a site. Thank You!

[JessicaH (imported)]

They aren’t as common but not that hard to find.

[JessicaH (imported)]

There are many custom makers. Ridged Chastity, Lori , and many others. Custom units start at around $250 for high quality stainless steel.

[notsomanly (imported)]

The only problem for me is that my tiny penis can escape from even a very small cage. Balls make it impossible to remove the cage but it sort of defeats the purpose if the penis slips out and can be stimulated. I'd need a built-in urethral sound to prevent escape.

[JessicaH (imported)]

The only problem for me is that my tiny penis can escape from even a very small cage. Balls make it impossible to remove the cage but it sort of defeats the purpose if the penis slips out and can be stimulated. I'd need a built-in urethral sound to prevent escape.

Just get a PA piercing and forget the ball ring. Way more comfortable and SUPER secure.

[seanthomas (imported)]

A few years back my wife and I did the chastity thing and it was very satisfying. I bought the CB3000 from www.keptforher.com but had to add the optional insert as it was too easy to remove my flaccid penis without it. I would stay locked for up usually for two weeks, be allowed out for a day to masturbate but only if I'd done all the chores she demanded, then back in. I would have to satisfy her with her dildo while being denied my own pleasure, which drove me crazy in a very erotic way. This lasted for about a year but we moved on to other play. It could get uncomfortable with nocturnal erections and extra care was needed in the shower to keep everything clean (shampoo on a Qtip). As for causing the penis to shrink the opposite was true and mine would actually increase in girth after being released. If she is into a bit of domineering and you like being submissive it's great fun. I still have the device but it's of no use as having balls was what kept it secured.

[JessicaH (imported)]

The stainless steel cages that are kinda open are best. Easy to keep things clean and don’t start smelling like stale pee like the plastic ones. You can find a decent one on amazon or eBay for under $40. I highly recommend getting the smallest one you can possibly wear as it helps stop night time erections which will quickly make you get up and pee.

It’s hard to explain but the best orgasms of my life have been after being locked up and not cumming for a while. It definately makes it worth not coming for for a week or four. I’m overseas right now and have kept my cage on for the last two weeks and have 2 more weeks before getting home so it will be 4 weeks without an orgasm. I just hope my wife doesn’t make me wait too much longer but that is her choice. If I don’t make my weight loss goals , she will keep me locked up so I am very motivated right now to eat right and exercise!