JesusA (imported) wrote: Wed Mar 07, 2018 3:13 pm Kevin Hsu is potentially a valuable academic research person who needs to be cultivated by providing him with good and valid information so that he's willing to return with his next project. Hopefully, a project well-informed by the data he collects on his first attempt. Provide good data. Provide helpful feedback to move Kevin in a useful direction.
That's why after my initial vitriolic reaction, I came back to the middle, then the 3rd time wrote a more reasoned response. It was a poorly crafted survey. I know nobody likes their work crapped on, but that is what the survey was.
While I understand there will certainly be questions about sexual activity in surveys that legitimately seek answers to who castrated/penectomized/nullified men are, what makes them tick, and how best to help them, I would believe the best way to go about it is from the mechanical side of things and life experience generally, FIRST and not the sexual aspects out of the gate. This survey came across, at least to me, as being nothing more than a sexual pursuit by the author. I felt it didn't do much of anything to get at who eunuchs are or their marginalization in society. I would speculate the vast majority are gay (or maybe that's wishful thinking on my part, being gay myself...). I would speculate the vast majority (at least the truly MtE folks) had an early age onset of the desire.
He needs to come at this from that direction. Questions like, "At what age did the desire to become a eunuch manifest itself?" instead of, "Do you fantasize about being a eunuch?" I think would be better to start off with. If online, use the radio button selectors and offer age bands, I think maybe in typical marketing age demographics, and subsets. Overall, the survey offered focused too much on sexual activity. I like fucking and all that as much as the next person, but my drive to be nullified didn't come from sex. It came from a dysphoric view of my own body, especially those bits of flesh which used to be on my body between my legs.
I encourage this young man to rescind this particular version of his survey, go back and rework it from a more mechanical/conversational point of view, then run it by his mentors (IE Jesus) before posting again. I'll give him that chance (and a pass for having put out this poor survey) if he goes back and does that.
--LT