Can a Nullo be a "Male" Role Model to a Boy?

[Zebedeee (imported)]

Whilst that might stop most boys from misbehaving - I think I would have become very naughty indeed...

[wishtobe (imported)]

I used etanol injections to be rid of my balls and then 2 years later I went about injecting my penis also with ethanol.

It got very bad and in due time due to numerous problems I requested my doctor to do a radical penectomy which he did agree to do. I spoke to my kds and explained that it was better for me to be without a penis and while they realized it was strange, they did accept it, as it was the best solution for me with the problems that it was giving.

I might add that alot of children where the family are Naturists have already seen every different type of missing equipment that women or men might be missing, and for them it is no big thing.

Take care

Happy 2018.

[MikeGrant (imported)]

I have raised 3 boys, they look and take notice and ask questions. All my boys bathed together at home and when young it was hard to keep them out of the bath tub with my wife and I. Being a nullo would just take some frank answering to his boys. He could of course make sure his children never see him naked, people do, but that will have an impact on their social and probably sexual outlook. I also volunteered with my boys youth organisation. Despite there strict rules and regulations to protect youth, inevitably boys and other dads will get a glimpse of you naked. Despite boys being wonderful creatures, they can be very cruel, and I think they might be on the wrong end of that if it became common knowledge that their dad didnt have a dick! My advice would be to get castrated, chemically or surgically, if you need or want to, but leave the nullification till your youngest boy is well into his teens.

[PetJohan (imported)]

Your point about timing seems well taken. Not only will it be easier on all concerned but they will have reached an age where some level of understanding is possible. Children can and are very cruel and about far more than a father missing his genitals. Sure, as you say, if word gets around there will be taunting but, candidly, I'd worry more about the parents of other children and their reaction and, I believe, we could all agree they would have one.

[Atreyu69 (imported)]

As a boy (9 to 13) I enjoyed nudist recreation although it wasn't something I did on a regular bases. On occasion my dad would take my brother and me to a nudist beach where we'd see lots of other families and lots of other kids naked. But for me it wasn't like the literature you read in clothing optional magazines. I didn't see it as a normal activity but that was all part of the fun.

I loved seeing other boys and girls my age naked and being able to play with them like that was really cool. It had an illicit feel to it like I was doing something most people would find socially unacceptable or even shocking but I was getting away with it and I loved seeing what other boys looked like. Almost all us boys were cir'ed in those days and I was beginning to understand it was a body mod as opposed to the natural state of things. But that just turned me on even more. We were all members of the same club so to speak. We'd all had genital mods and everyone was cool with it. This was California where intact boys were few and far between. I saw them as freaks.

If my dad had been a eunuch however I'd have been mortified. If I'd seen a eunuch my age I'd have been both intrigued and horrified. I'd have wanted to talk with him for sure but at the same time it would have been a bit much for me to get my head around. I wouldn't have wanted a eunuch boy as my best friend lest my dad got any weird ideas about me.

[CircItaly (imported)]

Almost all us boys were cir'ed in those days and I was beginning to understand it was a body mod as opposed to the natural state of things. But that just turned me on even more. We were all members of the same club so to speak. We'd all had genital mods and everyone was cool with it. This was California where intact boys were few and far between. I saw them as freaks.

wow! I had somehow similar experiences. Instead, I was the only one around with a bad phimosis first then circumcised later. And I had the feeling that other people saw me as a freak, using your own words. Maybe is for this that I love stories with only one eunuch!

[Atreyu69 (imported)]

wow! I had somehow similar experiences. Instead, I was the only one around with a bad phimosis first then circumcised later. And I had the feeling that other people saw me as a freak, using your own words. Maybe is for this that I love stories with only one eunuch!

Perhaps "freak" is too strong a word. But those of us who were cut (and that was just about everyone) considered our dicks superior to the uncut ones. So, by extension, we thought genital modifications were a good thing. I don't know if this feed my interest in castration or not. It certainly played some factor.

[madnomadtoo (imported)]

Atreyu69

That's a good point. Genital mods, exemplified by circumcision, are obviously sanctioned by parents and state. Easy to see it would make some more accepting of the concept.

[cutnbulls2ox (imported)]

I was thinking how among males old enough to hear about it and understand it, castration for prostate cancer is pretty common in older men. Most older men don t talk about it or show other guys their empty sacks or shrunken balls. But teens and men do know what happened and what it means to have uncles, grandfathers, and other males in their town who got castrated for medical reasons. Those eunuchs do serve as role models for all the local males old enough to know what having balls and not having balls means to men.

It makes it less traumatic when males face losing their own balls to grow up with men older than them who are clearly all handling castration as no big deal and not that rare among older men.

Suprizingly, of the many older men I ve known that are castrated, most have not complained or regretted being gelded. The fewer men who do miss their balls are discrete about their complaining and only talk to grown men about regretting their geldings.

You hear both sides from eunuchs and get used to the idea of aging and castration and think about how you d handle it when you turn comes.

Really young boys just see penises as tools to piss and balls as useless. They don t know about sex and its intense pleasures yet. It would be the negative reactions of others and teasing that would be hard on any sons of any age to endure and feel for their father even more than for themselves.

[SplitDik (imported)]

I think members of this forum aren't a very good sample of what is normal honestly since our "relationship" with our genitals is usually out of proportion and pretty much obsessive.

Secondly, I guess it really depends on where you were brought up, but growing up in western US and Canada I can say that I've never really *seen* (I mean taking a sustained observational look at) a naked man ever in my life, especially as a kid. You pretty much have to go out of your way to see someone naked here. I mean I know a bunch of people here have experience naturist and nudist environments but that is really not a common thing. Locker rooms for most people are not for staring. So sure I've been around naked men in locker rooms but never really "looked". I mean I couldn't tell you if anyone in my gym was circumcised or not, cause I'm certainly not going to look closely enough.

I think the only reason most of you guys have looked closely is because you're obsessed with the topic (that's why we're here) plus many members here are all over the gender spectrum.

I guarantee that most American men do not let their kids see them naked, don't use their own penises for demonstrations on how to pee or wash, and that most boys are not in fact that interested in whether the old man who lingers too long in the YMCA shower is circumcised or castrated or anything. I'm pretty sure it is considered pretty darn creepy to be discussing any such topics with kids (even your own) beyond an occasional "birds and bees" conversation. I've never seen my sons penises after they stopped wearing diapers, and my wife wouldn't have seen them after about age 5 or whenever they started bathing on their own.

This discussion reminds of that Friends episode where Joey is talking about how his tailor from childhood would move his penis to the side when measuring his inseam and Chandler and Ross have to explain that that is not in fact normal.

Now I don't mean to criticize or judge. I'm just saying that we're not a typical sample and so wouldn't extrapolate our experiences, interests, and fascination with genitals to the majority of boys/men. I do think that it is much more common in US the way I just described -- nudity, even within the family, is for the most part only something that only occurs in infancy. I know in Europe you can see toddlers or even older running around naked in parks, but in US you won't see that -- by the time you're walking you're not seen naked.

I do think that this sort of "hang up" isn't particularly healthy, so I'm not defending it. However, I also feel that the amount of thought about other people's genitalia that you guys are expressing above isn't really that healthy either. The best would be that being nude is something that is free to happen but isn't at all interesting to anyone either.