Castrated because you want to be but blaming it on prostate cancer?

[Teachmywife (imported)]

A thought crossed my mind and I wonder if anyone else has thought of this. Once while discussing castration with my wife, she stated that if it made our lives better it is ok with her, and rationalized that statement by saying “if you had prostate cancer there would be no question, you would be castrated and I would be fine with that.” Has anyone ever gotten castrated and told their wife they had prostate cancer. Because of HIPPA it could work because the MD would be legally liable if the told the wife anything different especially if the patent told him or her not to. Hmm, what do you think?

[sparkey49 (imported)]

Having been married almost 38 years I don’t see it working.

[DonnyMac (imported)]

A slippery slope. My wife and I mutually agreed due to mismatched libido. Marriage is based on trust.

Don

[shydudexx (imported)]

I second DonnyMac - always be honest to your spouse. I am divorced - stuff happens, but I was always faithful to her. She is your ****PARTNER****

[CastratedTomcat (imported)]

Only you know your partner and I'm also don't could say her the real reason for my step into castration.

I was inject the balls and that is the medical reason as alibi for it.

Mot all people, especcialy female, can understand how powerful and destructive the mans libido can be.

To prevent her a guilty conscience I do it so and all is ok for both.

This thing with the trust isn't possible often so unconditionally.

We often do it not as bad thing, the main reason especcialy here is to protect the partner from senseless bad sleeping.

For me, the well-being of my partner is as much important as mine and little lies are helpful for both.

Don't think your or mine wife will running away, if she knows the truth, but could be she will suffer with this knowledge.

Absolute devotedness and never little lies are only a thing for romantic films.

We are humans and so we are social, intelligent and compassionate and we should use that gifts.

[Prismatic (imported)]

Having been married almost 38 years I don’t see it working.

I've never even been married and I can see why that might be a little tricky to pull off.

If you could even hide that from your wife in the first place, how could the guilt of not telling her the truth not make you feel bad?