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[Teachmywife (imported)]

Are there any women out there that would like to talk to my wife about getting me castrated? I can tell that she really wants it primarily to decrease my libido. She is tired of me being interested in other women and waking her up at 4 am for sex. But, I think she secretly is thrilled by it as well. She seemed excited when I first mentioned it when I was afraid she would kick me out as a freak. Also, she has always obviously enjoyed getting our pets castrated and giggles about it. We have never had an animal that has not lost its balls. So, what do you think? Do you understand my fetish and where I am coming from at age 53? Also, she is going through menopause. Anyone have an opinion?

[stephaniesteve1 (imported)]

Show here the reports of longer and healthy life for Eunuchs. Offer to let her manage your Testosterone therapy so she is in control. Dont be afraid to talk about your fantasy. By the way, life is great as a eunuch.

Stephaniesteve

[CastratedTomcat (imported)]

Nice idea if she is controling his Testo level!

[DeaconBlues (imported)]

Sorry if I sound discouraging, but I must tell you the truth about it as I see it. Firstly, there are very few women who are regular members or guests here that I see, it is not that way because of any lack of welcoming them, they just are not interested in this website and it's discussions, after all, women don't have testicles and never have to contemplate removing the testicles they don't have. Secondly, of the women I have actually discussed the topic with, most are terribly ignorant of the subject, again, they never had testicles, never have to cope with the problems of having excessive testosterone, so they don't even bother to learn about castration, many women and even some men don't know the difference between "castration" and "circumcision" and as bad as that sounds, I am not kidding. Finally, of the women who do understand what castration is and the effect it has on men, they seem almost universally very averse to it or totally uninterested in the whole thing.

[cutnbulls2ox (imported)]

Most women I ve heard talk about castration know almost nothing about how it affects men. They only know it in terms of animals only. Older women with husbands castrated for prostate cancer just don t talk about it at all, at least not with other men. Probably to spare their men any embarrassment over it.

So, women don t seem very interested, except as a punch line to a joke or giggling about cutting some man as pure fantasy.

Most men don t discuss women s hyserectomies or menopause much either. We don t have ovaries, so its not what men care about or talk about.

All women face menopause and don t think castration is much different for men to go thru in later life. Maybe it isn t ? Tough to compare the many differences between those. Menopause can t be avoided, castration can be for some men. Some men have no choice.

I guess the biggest question is are you seeking this for her alone, or primarily for you ? Who is this for ? You or her ?

[CastratedTomcat (imported)]

Also the most man don't know anything about castration and the effects. The only thing what all think to know is, a man cant have sex after it. *uaaaah*

Generally, I also have make the experience, it's no thing what is interesting for woman.

But, it it is your own wife and you can offer her to control your libido with it, could be interesting...

The most women don't talk or think about her hysterectomy and also medical castrated man doesn't.

I think the real known and a constructive open thinking and handle it as normal you can only find in communities like them here.

For us it isn't a great misfortune, it's the opposite... for us it is a deliverance and we from our future with it so positive as we need.

This is the very very very big difference between this groups.

If you are knowing much enough of the consequences and the TRT so give your wife this knowledge and I think, she will understand.

[Philthelast (imported)]

I never discussed it with my wife. I only told her when it was almost complete . She seems happy as it is and never comments on my lack of balls and lack of sex drive.

[Jorge2008 (imported)]

I once talked about my chemical castration with a female classmate I had. She was very supportive of my decision. It's completely different with husband/wife perspective, of course, but some women can be supportive.

[unencumbered (imported)]

My deceased wife told me before she passed that as long as I have a penis, women don't give a damn that I am castrated. She was right. I take testosterone and am as sexually active as any 18-year-old. My girlfriend, who is my age and has gone through menopause, says that she is spoiled. It takes her much longer to orgasm now, but she does. She says she had figured that her sex life was over, until she met me.

[Teachmywife (imported)]

Thank you and everyone else for your comments and advice. As far as why or for whom I am doing it, functionally it is for her, I love sex myself. But I am driving her crazy, and she don’t trust me around other women or traveling by myself anymore, and actually for good reason. It’s also for me in that if she helps me to get it done the way a want, I get to live out my greatest lifelong fantasy. At this point in my life, especially with the availability of Depo Testosterone I think I can do without my balls. Even if I am as horny as ever with the injections, she will stop worrying about me having girlfriends because she is a farm girl and she understands that castrated animals lose their need for sex. In a way, I will be free because she will stop being paranoid and watching me like a hawk. Anyway, some of my motivations are altruistic but some are selfish. So I am human. Again thank you for the info.