Rage and sexual frustration...does chemical castration make the rage stop?

[VicistiGalilaee (imported)]

I typically go for years and years without sexual contact and I have this really intense, largely involuntary sense of rage that torments me constantly. I'm currently pursuing the relevant hormonal therapy but I just want to know, has anyone else experienced this and does chemical castration make it go away?

[DeaconBlues (imported)]

Chemical castration did work for me, I was on it for four months and loved it. I am not sure, but I have read that the drug I was using (depo provera) has a permanent effect, the longer you use it the more complete and permanent the castration even after you stop using it - what I read was that some men are permanently castrated if they go for a minimum of 12 months on it, most take a bit longer.

While I was on depo provera I noticed a dramatic change, I felt a lot calmer, and never horny. There are side effects and risks, as with all drugs, the side effects I worry about is osteo perosis, and blood thickening (increased risk of stroke). Still, the risks are acceptable for me when I consider the benefits.

[tugon (imported)]

Even after castration I was still raging. Of course in my situation I suffered from frustration and for years a lack of control over my life. I also had a lot of negative input from family. Now that I approach my 20th years as a eunuch that sense of frustration can still rear it's ugly head. Castration or chemical castration can minimize some issues but it does not fix the brain. I would still love to find a good therapist. Of course your mileage may vary.

[Woggler58 (imported)]

As does Tugon in #3, I find rage is associated with frustration. Loud swearing and throwing things is my rage, and frustration with inability to find where I left things, or from being insuperably thwarted by circumstances, is the "triggering micro-aggression."

Fifteen months after accepting therapeutic castration because of otherwise untreatable prostate cancer recurrence -- and opting for doing it by surgery mostly because of being intrigued (with EA's assistance) by the body mod it entails -- I'm on no T or E replacement but I'm no less susceptible to frustration-caused rage than before. Your mileage may vary -- and so may mine in the future.

[cutnbulls2ox (imported)]

My amateur guess is that rape impulses to simply seek to get an orgasm are very different from rape urges to act out hatred and attacking a person.

Wanting sexual pleasure and release from the endless male desire for sex and orgasm and to empty your semen build up is very normal in lots of men. Castration likely can end those wants and needs effectively.

Wanting to rape to hurt and dominate another person comes from emotions, not from having testicles and male hormones. Castration is not going to deal with emotional roots of anger or hatred. You d still have those balls or no balls.

[chilliwilli (imported)]

My amateur guess is that rape impulses to simply seek to get an orgasm are very different from rape urges to act out hatred and attacking a person.

Wanting sexual pleasure and release from the endless male desire for sex and orgasm and to empty your semen build up is very normal in lots of men. Castration likely can end those wants and needs effectively.

Wanting to rape to hurt and dominate another person comes from emotions, not from having testicles and male hormones. Castration is not going to deal with emotional roots of anger or hatred. You d still have those balls or no balls.

Most folks have all kinds of fantasy, and we all have anger and hatred...a world without frustration and sometimes anger is....well a Rastafarian paradise. But we can choose to manage it, our anger and frustration, or not. Whether a person recognizes and chooses to accept responsibility for their anger, before it is harmful, is largely due to self awareness. Some people give themselves heart attacks because all their internalized anger. As well as self understanding, choosing to act on anger, especially when directed at an individual rather than say property, may be a function of a lack of empathy. Poor self awareness, a lack of empathy, and predisposition to physical violence contribute to rage and violence more the hormones. So yeah balls or not...life ain't easy.

And then there are women who lack empathy...

chilli

[Jorge2008 (imported)]

Chemical castration very much helped me with my rage for not having the chance to have sex. Might work with you as well.

I typically go for years and years without sexual contact and I have this really intense, largely involuntary sense of rage that torments me constantly. I'm currently pursuing the relevant hormonal therapy but I just want to know, has anyone else experienced this and does chemical castration make it go away?

[tugon (imported)]

My amateur guess is that rape impulses to simply seek to get an orgasm are very different from rape urges to act out hatred and attacking a person.

Rape is non consensual sex and in order to do that you do have to attack or intimidate or threaten with a weapon. There is not rape light where it is just for an orgasm. It is about dominance, control and other negative emotions.

[cutnbulls2ox (imported)]

Sure I agree rape is violence and wrong.

But I admit to being a caveman and thinking I m so horny I could fuck a fence post sometimes. Then its not dreaming of violence or cruelty or what most people think of as rape. Its more wanting to just lift up your lover, no matter what they re doing, and carry them off to bed, no matter what they say about it, and gently strip them naked and make love right then and there.

They might think its inconvenient or I ve kept them in bed for too long or shot off too many times that day already. But I still want more sex. Some people call imposing my high sex drive on any other people like that as being a brute and an asshole. It is kind of true. But if my lover doesn t mind too much, its more like putting up with a high sex drive that they love me having on some days and just think its a pain and they are sore from too much sex on other days. Some days its tough to make enough time for satisfying a high sex drive for the higher appetite partner. And the higher sex drive partner gets tired of jacking off every time to get their fill. Its balancing uneven sex drives with a touch of one being too horny of a dick verses one who won t put out and doesn t want sex as much as their freely chosen sex partner.

Most men will admit when you have lots of sex you are more gentle and less animal. If you go a long time lacking sex, you just want to fuck and empty your blue balls as your first goals more than normal. Its less romance and more I need relief and I need it fast. Its not violence. Its more inconvenience or too much sex in a row at once for most people s taste.

This post is talking about ideas and urges, not actually men commiting criminal rape.

I m talking about ideas and attitude, not harming anyone for kicks.