Stretch that thing

[SayWhat? (imported)]

Okay, so I was thinking about a urethral reroute, but after getting all the input from you all (thank you), I think I'm going to hold off on that for now (give me a 8 more years). However, I have been starting to stretch my urethra. I can now get a 35f easily in there and with work up to 39f. I want to stretch it out so that my wife can get her finger in there, but really don't want to tear through the meatus. I have seen some pictures of ones where people have torn down below the meatus, and I assume they went too quickly. However online I have seen a pic of a guy with what looks like a 500f (okay so its not that big, but holy crap it has to be 1.5-2CM) dilator in his urethra without tears. Have any of you been successful at stretching (to get a finger in there) without tearing? If so any pointers? I know go slow, stop if it feels to painful, etc, but how long did it take? How often did you go up in size? Did you use a dilator or something else? The big question is... after it is all said and done and things are permanently stretched, how does it look when it is flaccid? Does it look normal until you stuff it, or does the hole just stay open and look like a stretched out mess?

Thanks!

[CastratedTomcat (imported)]

You could numb your penis with banding for such procedure.

[Bitrans3 (imported)]

I am preparing for GRS. I want more mucus membrane in the vaginal cavity than can be harvested from the outer urethra. I am thinking of stretching the outer urethra to about 16mm using catheters and later vinyl tubing when the catheters become too small. Through constant tucking and herbal treatments to eliminate testosterone from my system, I have eliminated erections completely. I can get a soft one if I band, but I was more or less impotent when I started, and I haven't had an erection in three months. Another benefit to this is I will leave the catheter in 24/7 and stay tucked using tape instead of a gaff and then I can urinate without untucking/ untaping. Then when i have the surgery, I won't have to spend as much time dilating. and the vagina will work better because of a larger mucus membrane. There also won't be as much possibility of hair growing there. I'll keep you posted. My testicles have shrunk to about a fourth of their original size from the saw palmetto and the heat of being tucked inside for a year. I've compressed so well, that I can wear yoga pants in public. I have developed other erogenous zones with the other herbs I take for feminization. I get multiple orgasms now without touching my penis. I am starting real hormones soon and am halfway into the paperwork for GRS. Originally, I had planned on going null. Then I thought about social implications. I realized that I was actually transgender during counseling. There are programs and insurance to cover it to a certain degree if you follow the guidelines. The external genitalia will be gone, and it will be easier for those around me to handle. I'll still be a eunuch without a penis but also socially acceptable because I can be naked without silly questions from gawking geeks. I will look right. If things go right, I can even get Medicare to foot the bill.

[SayWhat? (imported)]

You could numb your penis with banding for such procedure.

Ummm... thanks for the response, however, I am just looking to stretch it right now. I have lidogel for numbing for stretching. I just dont want to tear anything by going to quickly. That is why I am asking how long other took to do it, if there is anyone here who has.

[SayWhat? (imported)]

I am preparing for GRS. I want more mucus membrane in the vaginal cavity than can be harvested from the outer urethra. I am thinking of stretching the outer urethra to about 16mm using catheters and later vinyl tubing when the catheters become too small.

Have you spoken to a surgeon about that? Usually they use a section of harvested bowel for the neovagina, not urethra. I believe that the urethral tissue will actually epithelialize as it is stretched and no longer be a true mucus membrane. I would do some research on that before going forward.

[SayWhat? (imported)]

Any stretchers with advice out there? I think I should have titled it better ��

[A-1 (imported)]

Have you spoken to a surgeon about that? Usually they use a section of harvested bowel for the neovagina, not urethra. I believe that the urethral tissue will actually epithelialize as it is stretched and no longer be a true mucus membrane. I would do some research on that before going forward.

From what I have seen in the surgery textbooks Bowel is NOT used. There would be problems with blood supply. The surgery is extensive and my advice is if you are curious go to a medical library and research it. The vagina is fashioned from penile skin, the penis head is used to form a cervical os, the nerves from the underside under the penile head is used to fashion a clitoris and the scrotum is used to fashion labia majora and minora. The surgery is followed by the use od stents the keep the vagina open and pliable and stretched so that it doesn't not contract and become too small.

It is a pretty gruesome surgical picture if you are not used to seeing surgeries so beware what you will be looking at before you open the textbooks. Be aware that if done properly even an experienced physician may have trouble recognizing the patient as something other than being a naturally born female. Unfortunately, female to male is not not the same.

You can find a medical library in a hospital or a medical school. Usually, the librarian will let you see the textbooks and may even help you find what you are looking for in the urology department. Hint: DO NOT go to a religious hospital organization, choose a university-based teaching hospital.

Bowel is used to create an esophagus in cases of cancer or in cases of ingestion of caustic materials. If this is done the omentum must be looped up into the chest with the bowel it supports to keep sufficient blood supply. It would not be practical to fashion a vagina from it as that would considerably complicate the surgery.

Hope this helps you to understand.

[Losethem (imported)]

From what I have seen in the surgery textbooks Bowel is NOT used. There would be problems with blood supply. The surgery is extensive and my advice is if you are curious go to a medical library and research it. The vagina is fashioned from penile skin, the penis head is used to form a cervical os, the nerves from the underside under the penile head is used to fashion a clitoris and the scrotum is used to fashion labia majora and minora. The surgery is followed by the use od stents the keep the vagina open and pliable and stretched so that it doesn't not contract and become too small.

Clearly you've never heard of a bowel resection vaginoplasty.

--LT

[sftineun (imported)]

Have any of you been successful at stretching (to get a finger in there) without tearing? If so any pointers? I know go slow, stop if it feels to painful, etc, but how long did it take? How often did you go up in size? Did you use a dilator or something else? The big question is... after it is all said and done and things are permanently stretched, how does it look when it is flaccid? Does it look normal until you stuff it, or does the hole just stay open and look like a stretched out mess?

I have been able to stuff my little finger into the urethra, all the way down to the last knuckle. I have a very mild hypospadia, i.e., a big opening. So, my training was to get the last knuckle in, especially despite the penis getting hard. I did not use any painkiller, because I felt that the level of pain should be signals to myself when to take a break. Instead, I made sure my nail was nicely cut and smoothed, and used Neosporin as lubricant so that if there is any scratches or tear, there would not be any infection.

The feeling is amazing, with the finger feeling the inside of the penis.

When I ease the finger back out, the urethra and penis returns to the original shape and size.

All that had been quite a long time ago. I have stopped doing this since I got myself chemically castrated.