Wankers: Why it's a problem for you to pass off your fantasy as reality in the forums

[Losethem (imported)]

Yes, I went off on another fantasy seeker recently. His name is Javids420 and I want to let all of you who have active fantasy lives know that on principle I have no problem with your having fantasies about castration, penectomy, and nullification. It's great you have your fantasies and they please you. Great! Enjoy yourselves, however...

Recently we had two members of the EA perform band and slice operations on themselves. I am not going to make a judgement for or against what they did, but I am going to note what they did is life threatening and incredibly dangerous. One even said he nearly bled to death on the way to the emergency room.

Into this difficult time for both of these men walked Javids420. He made posts both on the EA and forums elsewhere. He started his EA post off with, "I'm SERIOUSLY going to do this today..." So, those of us that have actually had our penises removed read the article with interest wanting to offer heartfelt advice and support, much of it stating that he should not do so, and referencing the man above who recently severed his penis using this method and nearly bled to death. This then turned into, "I'm SERIOUSLY going to do this tomorrow..." as almost exactly 24-hours later the original poster was still talking about seeking advice on how to do the band and slice safely. 2 days later, he was still at it. There is only one piece of sound advice for doing band and slice safely, YOU CAN'T.

Sandi caught on to his classical wanking game when she posted it's, "...the game of "Why Don't You--Yes But." A person playing this game asks for advice and then scores psychological points by rebutting each piece of advice given..." This is exactly what Javids420 was doing. He then admits that he was, "only debating the idea..." to then turn around in his next posting and tell us about his ex-wife and her "offer" of help stating, "This is no fantasy. She said she will be pissed if she comes all this way for nothing... I will be doing it you guys. Soon too..."

I immediately followed this with my second posting telling him he's an idiot. OK, I could have used more tact, and Sandi did an incredible job of doing so (You go girl!), but as anyone who has been here long can tell you, I have a low tolerance for bullshit, in this case wrapping up your fantasy as reality, then presenting it in a forum where people who are honestly seeking these mods visit. These are my brothers, and are people who may get harmed by misinterpreting your fantasy as something that can be done safely, who then potentially follow your "advice" and bleed to death.

And that, wankers, is why it's a problem for you to pass off your fantasy as reality in these forums.

[Paolo]

Thank you, LT.

[kristoff]

We periodically have to deal with this sort of thing. We cant just immediately dismiss them on the off chance they may be for real. But after a bit, things become obvious. Keep calling them as you see them. You are usually spot on.

K

[sparkey49 (imported)]

Glad he is gone here he was obnoxious here and elsewhere!

[jcat (imported)]

LT your intolerance for bullshit is a great asset......I read such posts and ignore them. Having you on borad to tell it how it is is great. You should get a gold star!

[Markymarky (imported)]

I will just add that cutters and diy surgery are very dangerous, and even though my penectomy was done by a knowledgeable man, if anything had gone wrong, its a long way to hospital, if the cutter hangs around to help you get there.

[Wellesley (imported)]

Considering the risks of professional surgery the DIY or other route is totally dangerous and irresponsible.

I have been in enough pain to consider it though, so I can see how one could get to such a point.

There really should be more done to support people. The medical community hates outliers.

[Losethem (imported)]

While I agree with the previous two statements, that isn't what the thread is about. It's about people who pass themselves off as the real thing, offering advice in their masturbation fueled frenzy as things that people should do, then having people who really want to be eunuchs or nullos taking that 'advice' and doing themselves harm potentially to the point of death... and why eunuchs and nullos such as myself have a problem with those folks.

--LT

[jcat (imported)]

LT you are absolutely right. The advice of liars and fantasists could be extremely dangerous. The best advice for anyone is to check and check and check again. Ask questions in the forum so that the wise can advise on the wankers.

For this very reason there are many things that I have done or experimented with that I would not share openly for fear that someone might do themselves serious harm.

[alexsmith (imported)]

Javids420 really did have his penis cut off! The photos were authentic, especially the close-up of the open stump. I don't understand why his thread was closed and why the moderator called his story bullshit and his pictures fake. He was not on here wanking, and was unfairly kicked off the forum. His one mistake was that he approached the subject in such a way that he at first made his story lack credibility.