hello and I love the stories!

[paraphemina (imported)]

I feel I've been rude sort of lurking about here without an introduction. A couple members friend requested me... that was very nice and welcoming.

I wrote my first Hello and it was way too long, so I scrapped it.

So I hope to give you the short version.

I am a woman. I am a submissive. I have a list of kinks that fascinate me. The list is quite long and burdensome.

I encourage and celebrate individuality, because I have been through my own struggles. Those struggles can be really hard.

I am a writer. I found the site through a set of odd circumstances concerning a likely upcoming temporary infibulation.

My mentor taught me "To thine own self be true."

It's the mantra that sorts my life. I am nonjudgmental, friendly, kind and supportive. I think everyone should search for their unique path in life.

I am hoping to find a place to hang out, where I can be myself and not have to try and fit into social norms that don't fit me!

I am finding the nullification stories fascinatingly erotic. Honestly being a woman, I'm a bit confused as to why I am finding them as fascinatingly erotic as I am, however I've never really found myself to have inhibitions, so I'm just running with it and enjoying it for what it has to offer!

I've been to several sites and the stories here are the best by far!

Especially Paolo and Atreyu69, the stories are really good solid writing that I am enjoying. The particular theme is inconsequential... it is simply solid writing! i imagine you both could write many genres well, but too no sense in depriving yourselves of your favorite subject matter (as it would deprive the rest of us and that would be terrible! lol)

Paolo you paint a scene perfectly and I can submerge myself in the story and feel like I'm standing there watching it unfold!

Atreyu, your subtlety is masterful and has inspired me to try my own story dealing with some of the same themes (though I don't know if you'll ever see this...lol hopefully someone will send it off to you) I am waiting for the next installment of "At The Cabin" like a rabid dog. I do hope you bring it to conclusion. I LOVE that story. At present my own subtlety is in need of improvement, though not entirely lacking.

My need... hopefully to find a place where I can exist or maybe that I can escape to when the world becomes a bit too overbearing. It is a hope, a wish. I'll see if I can contribute a story and some kindness while I'm here.

[fhunter]

Welcome to the Zoo

[paraphemina (imported)]

I love the zoo!

Thank you fhunter

[C&TL2745 (imported)]

It's nice to see that another woman has an interest in these things. Welcome. I look forward to seeing more from you.

Sandi

[Paolo]

Yes, welcome to the zoo, and thank you.



I'd like to see Atreyu's next one, too. I was hoping for it in this week's update.

I hope that my mention of Kellogg and the Better Baby contests of old, with citation by our own Jesus A. didn't violate his ©!

[paraphemina (imported)]

Thank you Sandi

Email me anytime!

I read a little of you in the blog area but then I was called away and I never got back to it.

I will try to get back to you in the next few days between writing.

I don't frequent forums so I'm learning how to do things for the first time here in many cases, BUT I have learned how to accept a friend request. If you send me one I will be eager to accept it.

[paraphemina (imported)]

My compliments were honest and genuine. That is some fine writing no matter subject or content!

I was hoping I'd end up hearing from you!

Loved the Blue Creek stories. Your characters were outstanding!

That's very nice and respectful for you to mention that about the copyright, a man after my own heart.

I am no expert on such matters... allow me to state that plainly.

My feeling on it however is that Kellogg eugenics ideals that were published and better baby contests are known materials (for those of us who have heard about such things and are aware of them) It is certainly fine and respectful to take such a route where another author is concerned.

If I run into this sort of thing, I usually take it a step further and look up the info myself.

Why? Because we write fiction not reality. Any thing that exists can be named or taken up by an author as a device for telling a tale. Anything that exists can also be twisted to get just the proper nuance that your story or mine or anyone's needs. Don't misread here that I would consider that a bad thing... on the contrary its exactly what we should be doing... take a seed of truth and plant it and build a story around it. Fiction is so much more poignant and believable when we use short mention of realities in our stories and allow that seedling to flourish from there!

I have a story that lists the legendary sword Excalibur as being property of the crown in the U.K. and the sword being stored in the armory in Balmorel in Scotland. Should anyone cite my fiction for it. For me personally I find it a laughable concept. It would be disastrous if someone somehow translated my fiction to any sort of reality and actually researched the location of Excalibur because of it, even though there actually may be some short and archaic references to that effect.

You truly get an A for kindness and respect, Sir. And there is nothing at all wrong with that.

People can be quite fussy about their stories and I understand that too. They are, in a way, our babies. We can fall in love with the characters we create. In many cases its a struggle to not think of them as real people ... if we've done it well. You did it well with the doctors of Blue Creek. He's very real to me.

I can definitely tell you this much though, IF EVER you find any element in a story of mine that you would care to have your own stab at, then feel free with it. No need to cite anything. Becoming a published author is like becoming a rock star. Sure I hope I'll get there someday, BUT in the meantime I prefer to spend my time encouraging others toward their own personal greatness and best. I have written stories with good friends where we trade off chapters. I have used others elements with their permission. I leave my own works open as a springboard for other's ideas. If I create some sort of fantasy world or time or a particular sort of nuanced feeling that excites you then by all means write your own chapter on it! All I ask is that you share with me in the end, mostly because I enjoy reading you very much indeed!

Now does my reply get sent to you or does it sit here... hmmm.... not sure yet how this works. Shoot a clue at me!

[Pete Supremo (imported)]

Hello Paraphemia,

also welcome from side. I'm also new meber in this community. It's very interesting to see that this is an international community and so to have the possibility to share a common fetish without any national borders .

Best regards to the US and all other countries.

Pete Supremo from Germany

[paraphemina (imported)]

Danke Pete

Willkommen zu Ihnen

Es gibt viele gute Geschichten auf der Seite, die auf Deutsch auch!