How to Tell A Wife You Want Castrated

[Jjetson1 (imported)]

How does someone go about telling their wife they want to be castrated?

[C&TL2745 (imported)]

How does someone go about telling their wife they want to be castrated?

I don't think there's a universal answer to that question. Can you speak frankly with her about your sexual preferences in general, or is that topic taboo? Does she enjoy sex? Do you want her to do the castration? From your profile, it looks like you're somewhere around 54-55 years old. Is she of comparable age? Into menopause? How long have you been married? How often do you have sex now? Have you and your wife done anything sexually "kinky" in the past? Has she regularly refused sex due to painful intercourse or general lack of libido? All these questions will factor into how you tell her--or choose not to.

Sandi

[lister02 (imported)]

Often it is the wife telling her husband that she would prefer him castrated.

[Jjetson1 (imported)]

I don't think there's a universal answer to that question. Can you speak frankly with her about your sexual preferences in general, or is that topic taboo? Does she enjoy sex? Do you want her to do the castration? From your profile, it looks like you're somewhere around 54-55 years old. Is she of comparable age? Into menopause? How long have you been married? How often do you have sex now? Have you and your wife done anything sexually "kinky" in the past? Has she regularly refused sex due to painful intercourse or general lack of libido? All these questions will factor into how you tell her--or choose not to.

Sandi

we don't really talk about sex. She does seem to enjoy it and we have sex about once a week or every two weeks. she doesn't seem to bee into anything kinky as we only do it the same way each time. I would like a woman to castrate me but, I would like for another woman to do it. we have been married about five years now.

[butterflyjack (imported)]

I told my wife of my desire to be nutted about 1-2 years ago, initially..She really never enjoyed sex...I always initiated it, and tried my damndest to get her going..but all I ever got was a half hearted result (she's a good catholic girl)...Irish too..Ugh..So her reaction was revulsion and disgust..I told her we haven't had sex for7-8 years now...but...no matter...It'a against gawd's will(whatever the eff that is..since there is no gawd)..she just worries about what others will say..perhaps it's a reflection on her?

I've brought it up a few times..Her attitude towards me is not warm..I think she dislikes me down deep.. Too late now.married 45 years..Geezuz....Jackie

[Riverwind (imported)]

Read post #2 again, Sandi nailed it.

River

[micdavi24 (imported)]

My wife had no problem with me getting castrated as she had to have a radical hysterectomy some years back due to ovarian cysts and also endometriosis. She understood why I needed to have it done and actually encouraged me to push to have it done. I am on TRT and can still perform quite normally.

Now at age 55, she is going off the boil sexually, but still loves kissing and cuddling, but has not told me that she does not want to have sex at all yet, but I am expecting this in a year or two. Consequently I am considering shortening my penis to make it impossible to enter her, while still retaining a stump that will be long enough to be able to stand and urinate. I figure that having about a 20 mm stump when soft will serve the purpose quite adequately and now I am considering how to approach that subject with her as I will not do this unless she agrees.

[Eunuch2be (imported)]

I have a girlfriend I need to break the same news to soon. She's great, but I have to do what I need to for me. I'm tired of being miserable. I don't expect the news to go over well, and while this is nowhere near your situation since you are married and I'm not, I certainly wish you the best and hope she can accept you for who you are. It seems that you could go on TRT if you wish and still be able to please her somewhat.

[micdavi24 (imported)]

I have a girlfriend I need to break the same news to soon. She's great, but I have to do what I need to for me. I'm tired of being miserable. I don't expect the news to go over well, and while this is nowhere near your situation since you are married and I'm not, I certainly wish you the best and hope she can accept you for who you are. It seems that you could go on TRT if you wish and still be able to please her somewhat.

I have had all the kids I want and had a vasectomy back in '98 which started all the fun. I am also on TRT and so I can and do function very well. As for your GF, there is always sperm banking which will allow you to have kids if you so wish, so being castrated and and on TRT, you will still be able to function as well as before, maybe even better depending on the T levels that you maintain.

After castration, you can also opt for removal of your scrotum for a more comfortable and cleaner look down there. I can tell you that an empty scrotum is pretty uncomfortable to have hanging around and I am currently saving to have mine removed. I had originally wanted to have it removed at the same time as I was castrated, but my urologist advised against that and I am glad that I listened to him as I have since read on here of several of the guys who had it all done at once and most of them report problems with doing it all at once.

Good luck with whatever you decide.