After your surgery: Did you tell your friends about your surgery? Reactions?

[daifu-orchid (imported)]

If I could get a complete nullo I would not broadcast it but I would also not make any effort to hide it. I would not be afraid to be seen nude when the situation would be appropriate. I would not be shy about having a smooth appearance in my crotch. I would even enjoy wearing form fitting clothing when possible.

Just so. Getting to nullo might be attractive to many here, but I wish that those who have made the journey could tell us about this enjoyment of clothing, a publicly smooth appearance, and other joys and disappointments of being a nullo. Congratulations to YodaNell for sharing!

I have not shared my eunuch state with anyone who did not otherwise know (wife) or notice. There have been very few problems. While I (and wife) might enjoy my progressing to rerouted penectomy, I think most others would not notice. Would they make trouble 'behind my back'? Maybe. Hard to know.

[dancinggizmos (imported)]

I have not shared with any of my friends etc..

[daifu-orchid (imported)]

In our western society, this is best, until there is more acceptance. The posting elsewhere here about the waria https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SJTzMHDaOlg is enlightening. We have much learn in tolerance. We see one come to prayer, slip over the head the one-piece isdal (I think), and pray as an instantly transformed woman, and later is seen dressed as male and female, apparently without contradiction. The reporting is insightful and respectful. Well worth a watch, if only to consider our level of acceptance in our own society.

[TgEunuch (imported)]

Whether or not a eunuch should tell their friends about their missing male genitals is up to their comfort levels.

Do I plan to tell my friends when I am no long a man, probably not, and I am still debating whether to even tell my sisters, which I should really do because they are my Health Proxies. I had a hard time trying to tell non-eunuchs and eunuchs wanna-be's, about the desire, the need and the want to become eunuchs, because I doubt that they would understand at best and God knows what level of rejection at worst.

[Wellesley (imported)]

Hmm.

Men on TRT?

Most of the staff at my wife's clinic knows. They are all female and the nurses do my injection of T so that makes sense.

My assistant in my office knows as well as I was very upfront about it when I hired her. Because of the TRT I use, I can get really tried/ lack of stamina towards the end or if I miss an injection etc.

Occasionally I will tell others I work with for the stamina issue reason.

I have very carefully worked out the absolute minimum I need to keep up with my life here. Extra stress or stamina requirements tax me greatly. Thus without being able to modify my injection ahead of time it can be tough if there is a crisis or something.

[nvrgag44 (imported)]

I think it would be hard to tell by looking in a locker room or other similar setting where guys walk around naked unless one tried to make it obvious so I wouldn't concern myself with that. But I've become more of a private person as I get older and tend to be less open about a lot of things so I doubt I'd make it public knowledge. It's just nobody else's business. I've even stepped up my privacy a notch or two recently because a family member is experiencing some significant health issues. I told a "trusted" few and implicitly requested that it remain confidential. It wasn't long before I was shocked to get questioned by people I never would have told. I'm still angry about it and will never tell anyone anything again. Those "trusted" few have asked questions and now get a standard response, "nothing new going on". When pressed I simply say, "I don't feel like talking about it right now".

[Losethem (imported)]

It would be a little difficult to hide in a locker room for a nullo. Of course at my gym, I just go do my workout then come home and shower after that. I'm not really worried about others seeing my empty sac.

[nvrgag44 (imported)]

A nullo would obviously be noticed. I still think it wouldn't be that easy to determine if a scrotum, especially a high and tight one,obscured by a penis and pubic hair had testicles inside it. A close observation, maybe, but not in a locker room setting where more than a casual glance might be offensive.

[daifu-orchid (imported)]

No scrotum, no nuts and for years nobody has noticed. Or if they have, it hasn't troubled them.

Maybe a nullo would be noticed, maybe it would take a while. Mostly, folks don't look.

[eunuchjeff (imported)]

Just a quick note about last week. I attend a weekly naked yoga session - for men. Following last week's session, a guy asked about the rings in my empty sac. He hadn't noticed that it was indeed empty. I still find that's usually the case. Hardly anyone has ever said anything.

I don't usually tell. The only people who have noticed have been those with whom I've had sex.