Dave (imported) wrote: Sat Nov 02, 2013 9:05 pm
I keep staring at the topic and thinking about the minimum age. It's all so circumstantial and conditional that I'm really not of one fixed mind.
I do know what I might say:
If you aren't the child's parents then the when the law considers the person an adult is the earliest you can agree.
If you are the child's parents then when the child can express himself or herself in clear and convincing terms would be appropriate.
In the case of ambiguous genitalia then I don't have a good answer.
But I'm interested in reading all opinions.
In case of ambiguous genitals, IMHO, the only workable solutions is: leave it as is, unless absolutely medically necessary. If it is a medical necessity - do a minimum repair, do not reassign.
The thing is, that you can not predict gender identity.
Re the "law considers somebody an adult" - I have problems with the definition of "adult" by age, but unfortunately can not suggest anything better.
(By what criteria one is considered an adult?).