Question for men without penises

[cutmydick (imported)]

how do men react when they find out you dont have it?

i think the sit to pee thing would be cool, a sort of

"mark of settting apart" from the regular crowd

[happousai (imported)]

(Yes, I tend to wear things that are fairly form-fitting in the crotch now that I can. It is very comfortable, and is psychologicly satisfying in an exhibitionistic way. What I wear usually leave little doubt that there is absolutely no room for anything even faintly resembling male human genitals in that vicinity.)

Do people who see you like that come up to you and ask about your genitals?

[happousai (imported)]

>

Add to that the necessity of finding sit-down

> accomodations rather than just standing in public

> restrooms adds a level of difficulty. Additionally, many

> public restrooms are filthy. In those instances one can

> feel OK standing a foot from a urinal and pissing into it,

> but may not want to sit on anything with one's naked

> butt . . .

I almost always sit down to pee, because I never felt quite comfortable with handling my penis to stand up to pee for some reason.

I don't find public restrooms that bad (then again, judging from what I've heard, I haven't been to the really bad ones). If there's urine on the toilet seat (which I see occasionally), I can wipe it off with toilet paper first. Then, I cover both halves of the seat with 4 squares of toilet paper each and sit on it and go about my business.

>

Another is having to squat to pee. This takes longer

> (can't just unzip, whip it out, pee, shake, stuff it back

> in, zip, but have to actually push clothing below the

> waist to a below the knee position then sit on the

> pot).

For me, here's what I do to pee, when I'm at home (thus I know the toilet is clean):

1. Pull my pants down and sit on the pot.

2. Retract my foreskin. Make sure my penis is aimed into the bowl and not outside it.

3. Pee.

4. Wipe the drops of urine off my penis with toilet paper.

5. Pull my pants back up.

6. Wash my hands, since I touched my penis.

A guy without a penis could definitely skip step 2. What about skipping step 4 - are there stray drops of urine remaining after he's done peeing? And what about step 6?

>

There are devices, made for women in similar

> situations, that allow the stand, unzip, pee, zip

> performance, and I have used them camping and

> traveling.

For anyone who's wondering, here's what they look like:

http://www.travelmateinfo.com/

Oh yeah, that reminds me. Tomas, have you ever tried to do something like what's explained on this webpage (A Women's Guide on How to Pee Standing Up, Without Devices):

http://www.restrooms.org/standing.html

Then again, it makes reference to pulling on your labia in order to aim the stream, which you can't do.

[Tomas (imported)]

how do men react when they find out you dont have it?

The reactions vary, but are mostly on the negative side - perhaps from their own subconcious fears, I don't know.

For the most part they become self-concious, uncomfortable, stand-offish. Some become, for some unknown reason, belligerent (their own castration fears?).

One can end up being treated like a black at a KKK rally . . .

The other extreme are those who very strongly want to see or touch, and almost won't take "NO!" for an answer.

In the middle are those who are reasonably mature and intelligent who just view it as another datum, like my height or weight. This is as it should be. Unless a male is sizing me up as a sexual partner or sexual competitor, how I'm equipped should have NO bearing on how we interact. Sadly that's not the case.

In general only those men who already know me very well learn of it from me. I don't try to hide it, but it's not "Hi, I'm Tom, and I'm a eunuch" as an introduction. Sometimes they actually notice my crotch appears smooth from what I'm wearing, but that is rare. Honestly, most men do NOT spend their time looking at other men's crotches in public . . . (Women, however . . . )

Side Note: I have several gay friends, and I've gone to gay bars and such with them (quite a kick, actually). Depending on the club and it's atmosphere I've actually been rather thoroughly felt up on a casual basis by people I've never seen before and with luck would never see again.

(The "Tacky Tavern" comes to mind as such a place. The expressions on faces are interesting. The first was puzzled then more or less shocked, then an assortment of reactions moved across the room at high speed as word-of-mouth went by. Several just HAD to check it out themselves. It was all friendly (uh, very) and over fairly quickly when they found that I wasn't interested in anything further.)

This is not just something for the gay bars, though. I've been felt up by women, and even had one go fishing in my pants right on the dance floor (Thanks, Mia! That was fun! :p ) Personally, I much prefer the women, but to each their own.

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[Tomas (imported)]

Do people who see you like that come up to you and ask about your genitals?

That is extremely rare. I o

nly recall maybe two or three times in the last ten years.

For me, here's what I do to pee, when I'm at home (thus I know the toilet is clean):

1. Pull my pants down and sit on the pot.

2. Retract my foreskin. Make sure my penis is aimed into the bowl and not outside it.

3. Pee.

4. Wipe the drops of urine off my penis with toilet paper.

5. Pull my pants back up.

6. Wash my hands, since I touched my penis.

A guy without a penis could definitely skip step 2. What about skipping step 4 - are there stray drops of urine

remaining after he's done peeing? And what about step 6?

For me, step 4 is not terribly necessary, but is something I do (*blot* *blot*) a

nd step 6, of course. "Always wash your hands . . ." etc.

Oh yeah, that reminds me. Tomas, have you ever tried to do something like what's explained on this webpage (A Women's Guide on How to Pee Standing Up, W

ithout Devices):

http://www.restrooms.org/standing.html

Yeah, I tried it, and so did my wife - worked for her but not at all for me. I think even more than not having anything to grab onto it was a problem of my opening being farther to the rear than hers was, and not nearly as flexible. Most I managed were some very messy sprays in various directions.

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[Mac (imported)]

What is it like to be a nullo?

( disadvantages )

having to squat to pee ...

the necessity of finding sit-down accomodations rather than just standing in public restrooms ... While camping and such the level of difficulty and discomfort is increased by having to hang one's butt out in the open in some nasty weather . . .

Squatting to pee becomes natural after doing it for awhile. However, many men's public restrooms have limited stall facilities. Women have always had to stick the

ir bare butt out when peeing outside.

( advantages )

not having to pre-position and re-position one's genitals when doing such things as crossing one's legs, sitting, sliding out of bed, etc. ... also an advantage in the way clothing fits. ... Without them in the way, it is much simpler, and the opt

ions are much wider. It's also much more comfortable.All of those advantages sound great.

[happousai (imported)]

This is not just something for the gay bars, though. I've been felt up by women, and even had one go fishing in my pants right on the dance floor (Thanks, Mia! That was fun! :p ) Personally, I much prefer the women, but to each their own.

LOL! I just noticed your Favorite Quote in your Yahoo! Profile:

""WHERE'S YOUR THINGY?!??" (From a charming young lady, Mia, with her hand in my pants at a club...)"

What's the story behind that anyway, if I may ask? She decided to grope you and was surprised when couldn't find your penis? What happened after she said that?

[Tomas (imported)]

LOL! I just noticed your Favorite Quote in your Yahoo! Profile:

""WHERE'S YOUR THINGY?!??" (From a charming young lady, Mia, with her hand in my pants at a club...)"

What's the story behind that anyway, if I may ask? She decided to grope you and was surprised when couldn't find your penis? What happened after she said that?

Well, we'd been doing some very close and suggestive dancing and she casually reached down to see if I was responding (yeah, I suppose that's a "grope"), and found nothing. She asked why and I told her I didn't have anything down there.

At that point she totally surprised me and reached inside my pants and fished about saying "Where's your thingy?!??" (Mia was nothing if not direct.)

Pretty simple story, really. As to what happened after that, I let her fish for almost another four years. She never did find what she was looking for, but we both enjoyed her efforts . . .

Below's a pic that was snapped of Mia and I "out on the town" one night nearly a year after our first encounter. Oh! That's right! That one you asked about? That was the night we first met . . .

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[FianceeUvBigGuy (imported)]

After viewing the links, I A:Found a suspicious dampness in my antie-pays. B: Marvelled at the engineering involved.

I have a Sybian,a gift from u-kno-hu, and enjoy it all too much. In fact, I've asked for second one so that a galpal can saddle up, facing me, so we can ride the range together.:p

The Sybian is no substitute for the real "Thingy" since it has no heart, but at least one does not need a crew to set it up and operate it safely.

The other machines shown in the links look like something out of a torture chamber. And you'd better make sure your minister or Mom-in-law doesn't have a key to your house, LOL. Can you imagine someone, other than a sexual associate, walking in while you being "done" with one of those things?

I guess I still prefer the real "Thingy"!

Love,

FUBG

Official Sex Machine Test Pilot

Innocent Girl

[callmarkus (imported)]

hi,

i still have my penis. As you can see i mostly like it to be there and iam proud of the jewels it can carry

but sometimes i really love the idea of having it removed.

so i sometimes went to a clothing store (preffering those where you can get cheap clothes in an anonymous atmosphere)

and buy tight clothes (prefferring those made for girls, like stretch jeans).

after i've bought it i take it on, trying to hide my genitals with some tape (as they are not so big, its easy to get a nice nullo look with some tape).

than iam going into city, loving the lokking of girls when they recognize that there is possibly something missing between my legs !