Question for men without penises

[happousai (imported)]

A question for men who have no penises:

How do women (especially women who you are interested in having a relationship with) act when they find out that you have no penis?

[Tomas (imported)]

A question for men who have no penises:

How do women (especially women who you are interested in having a relationship with) act when they find out that you have no penis?

In my experience only (and this is a rough approximation over several years):

25% - Fascinated and find it an erotic plus

25% - Aghast and find th whole idea abhorrent

50% - Confused and flip-flopping

Bottom line, I guess, is only 25% find it acceptable or a plus, but then again, that's still more than I can handle at one time . . .

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[happousai (imported)]

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Bottom line, I guess, is only 25% find it acceptable or a

> plus, but then again, that's still more than I can handle

> at one time . . .

I wonder if that actually might give penisless men an edge over intact males overall. While 75% of women wouldn't react positively to his condition, for the 25% that do, he is special and unique - there are probably no other guys like him around (that the women know of, anyway). And in the end, it's not about the quantity of relationships he can get; it's the quality.

(How many guys around here have no penises, anyway? Such guys seem to be scarce.)

[Mac (imported)]

In my experience only ...

I guess, is only 25% find it acceptable or a plus, but then again, that's still more than I can handle at one time

What is it like to be nullo? What are the advantages and disadvantages?

[DavidS (imported)]

I can give you my answer but have to say that I don't appear like Tom, or others who ahve had full penectomies. Mine was not planned, and all internal tissues are gone but about one inch of shaft remained to which the glans was reattached. It is very narrow, has no sensation, and cannot ejaculate.

Taht said, most women don't want any part of me once I share this with them prior to actually being at the point of intimacy. Of those that get by this some get frustrated in a shor time as they don't have any validation that they "arouse or please" me.

The few taht get past this point come to prefer me, as they know that I will not impose on them, but gladly respond when they desire oral and manual stimulation. And they needn't give anything back. So the pleasure is all theirs.

[happousai (imported)]

I wonder how feasible it is for a penectomized man to have sex with a woman, without her finding out about his lack of penis.

If he can pull that off the first few times, it might allow him to get his "foot in the door", so to speak.

[Mac (imported)]

David S.: I think you're right. Playboy magazine ran an article two or three years ago about what women REALLY want. ...

2. They want physical comfort. Amazingly, most women really have no use for a penis. They really would rather (according to Playboy) simply cuddle up with the guy. Really. The typical woman would rather lie naked with a guy and just cuddle. The thing with the penis is simply for making the guy happy ...

You didn't REALLY think she was in love with your cock, did you???

Very True - sounds like my wife.

[A-1 (imported)]

...there are more things between Heaven and Earth, dear Horatio, than are drempt of in you philosphies...

Just right click your mouse on these images and the click on "...save as..." or you can just click "open link"

I'd say that most of these young ladies are throughly enjoying themselves...

http://www.weirdinsertion.com/movie/sam ... /toy2.html

http://www.weirdinsertion.com/movie/pho ... /toy2.html

http://www.weirdinsertion.com/movie/sha ... /toy2.html

http://128.241.244.138/freetour/lina1.mpg

And of course, this last one. You may be half right. There some who have lots of uses for a penis, they just don't have much use for what is attached to it...

http://128.241.244.138/freetour/6sample3.mpg

A-1

[Tomas (imported)]

What is it like to be nullo? What are the advantages and disadvantages?

For some reason I find questions like this difficult to answer. Not because thay cause any distress or are intrusive (if I wasn't willing to share info I wouldn't have had info on line since 1994 . . .), but because there are so many facets and some may be of more importance than others to the reader.

I'll give it a shot by just listing some of the points that pop into mind while looking at these questions.

What is it like to be a nullo? Probably not as 'exciting' as others would hope for. I'd say that 99% of the people around me have no idea I'm modded in that way. Those who know are aware because I told them or made it somehow obvious. Very few have found out on their own.

So, that means that over 99% of the folks around me behave just as they did while I was still owner/operator of a trouser snake. That means that in relation to others there is less than a one percent change/difference.

For me personally the biggest differences are moving differently because of not having to make allowance for genitals getting in the way (sitting, standing, walking, crossing legs, whatever).

( the next few sort of get into 'disadvantages' . . . )

Another is having to squat to pee. This takes longer (can't just unzip, whip it out, pee, shake, stuff it back in, zip, but have to actually push clothing below the waist to a below the knee position then sit on the pot). This partial undressing, re-dressing takes extra time.

Add to that the necessity of finding sit-down accomodations rather than just standing in public restrooms adds a level of difficulty. Additionally, many public restrooms are filthy. In those instances one can feel OK standing a foot from a urinal and pissing into it, but may not want to sit on anything with one's naked butt . . .

While camping and such the level of difficulty and discomfort is even more increased by having to hang one's butt out in the open in some nasty weather . . .

There are devices, made for women in similar situations, that allow the stand, unzip, pee, zip performance, and I have used them camping and traveling.

An additional option in such situations is a Foley catheter with a clamp to start/stop the flow. Works nicely, but has the usual indwelling catheter potential problems.

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[Tomas (imported)]

What is it like to be nullo? What are the advantages and disadvantages?

Continued . . .

Continuing with disadvantages, there is the difficulty with personal interactions with those few who are made aware of the mods. With women (or should I say potential sexual partners - could be either sex but my thoughts go immediately to the women) there is the revulsion felt by some, the indifference felt by others, and the disbelief/shock of most. It does ad another level of difficulty in forming sexual attachments, and even adds difficulty to non-sexual interaction with some who are made aware of the situation.

With men (not being though of as sexual partners and excluding most members of forums like this) there is mostly shock and revulsion at the very thought of having one's penis hacked off. usually best if not brought up at all unless one is fairly sure of one's audience . . .

(I will have to admit that there are some in both of those camps who are intrigued or fascinated. They make life as a nullo enjoyable.)

The advantages are not having to pre-position and re-position one's genitals when doing such things as crossing one's legs, sitting, sliding out of bed, etc. If my genitals were to suddenly reappear I'd have a Hell of a time getting back into the unconcious habits that I've lost. I know I'd hurt myself before I re-learned them.

There is also an advantage in the way clothing fits. Let's face it, if one's genitals are at least more than a poor joke in size, they tend to be a bit bulky and have to be accounted for in the cut and fit of clothing. Without them in the way, it is much simpler, and the options are much wider. It's also much more comfortable.

(Yes, I tend to wear things that are fairly form-fitting in the crotch now that I can. It is very comfortable, and is psychologicly satisfying in an exhibitionistic way. What I wear usually leave little doubt that there is absolutely no room for anything even faintly resembling male human genitals in that vicinity.)

Heck, that's enough for now. It's been a long day.

Take care,

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