Dreams (or nightmares) about castration

[XXX (imported)]

Seeing that that everyone's underwear is in a bind over MY humble views...

Everyone wants to paint me in a corner.

Sheesh.

[Mac (imported)]

I'm talking about the many other people here that want their balls chopped off b

ecause it's "erotic", etc.

Capice?

... Seeing that that everyone's underwear is in a bind over MY humble views...

Everyone wants to paint me in a corner.

Sheesh.I don't want my cock and balls chopped off in any erotic manner. They never belonged on my body and I want them removed by a qualified surgeon. My underwear is in a bind over those unwanted parts and not over your humble views.

[Paolo]

The only thing that's about to get MY underwear in a bind, XXX, is your attitude in some of your replies. Settle down, play nice, or get the hell out.

Several members offer you advice, in a thread that YOU started about your nightmares, and you turn around and snap back at them.

Take it easy, or I'll have Andrew let Pearly loose on you.

[jab (imported)]

Just a clarification, herein.

My post wasn't taking anyone to task, just using a very black-and-white delivery to say that it's all modification, even the little stuff that people admit to on Jay Leno's show, and so we're not talking about whether modification is good/bad/scary/fun, but how MUCH modification is good/bad/scary/fun.

I personally think that the fill-my-tits-with-saline-until-they-pop look is really gross, and hardly nice to women, but Hollywood seems to like and reward it.

I also think that the "paint an actor with loads of fake tattoos for this role or that one, but try to give the actor the 'bad boy' persona in interviews to imply that they're real tattoos'' routine is a bit old.

And I definitely think that the asshole who trots around certain S/M events in full Nazi garb with jew-slave in tow (and I mean it, a slave dressed in Auschwitz garb), is simply going for the "push the buttons of the on-lookers" scenario, which is boorish.

So my thoughts are:

1. If your look/self-image revolves around the idea of "look how much I can make other people uncomfortable", keep away from me. (This goes for people who dye their hair strange colors just to have the experience of shouting at people, "what are you staring at?" -- especially in San Francisco, where I live. Sheesh.)

2. If your look/self-image revolves around "this is who I am, I won't be invisible, but won't be a threat/disruption to people who, otherwise, wouldn't care", have at it.

(The generic gay counterpart to these is that many gay people think that a comment about public sex is an anti-gay comment, when in fact it's often intended as an anti-public-sex comment. While reasonable people can disagree on whether public sex is a good/bad thing, it's important to agree on what you're disagreeing on.)

Here's the part that everyone who goes out into public might want to read, and not take as directed to any single individual:

Do I have the choice of how YOU present yourself? Of course not.

But I do have the choice of whether to answer your questions when you ask me the time of day, how to get to the Ferry Building, where a good place to eat is, whether I know of any good jobs you might want. I have the choice to withhold information and assistance at times that are very inconvenient to you.

So don't pretend you live on an island.

[Andrew (imported)]

The only thing that's about to get MY underwear in a bind, XXX, is your attitude in some of your replies. Settle down, play nice, or get the hell out.

Several members offer you advice, in a thread that YOU started about your nightmares, and you turn around and snap back at them.

Take it easy, or I'll have Andrew let Pearly loose on you.

^..^ But first, you have to feed me tuna.

[XXX (imported)]

What are you talking Paolo?!

My attitude?!

I thought I'd put some people on the defense, but, KNEE JERK reactions?! PUH-LEASE.

Have I called any one names? NO.

I've been extremely level-headed.

So I'm not the only one that needs to lighten up...

Capice?

[A-1 (imported)]

Oh ma.... gawd...

...the trolls are back...

Ya ain't one uv dem, is ya?

...sexy exie heh heh heh ....

A-1