I want to know what´s wrong with my boyfriend...

[Paolo]

My 2¢ worth, sounds like meth to me, or a stimulant of some kind.

When one my dumbass nephews got into meth recently, the first thing that hit him was an increased sex drive.

[foxytaur (imported)]

My 2¢ worth, sounds like meth to me, or a stimulant of some kind.

When one my dumbass nephews got into meth recently, the first thing that hit him was an increased sex drive.

If a stimulant Could it perhaps be Poppers then Paolo?

[jemagirl (imported)]

If a stimulant Could it perhaps be Poppers then Paolo?

Poppers cause the blood vessels to dilate and muscle to relax temporarily. It's more the kind of thing the bottom use so the top can penetrate. Also the effect is short lived so even if his BF was using poppers to get horny he'd have asphyxiated long ago.

[foxytaur (imported)]

http://youtube.com/watch?v=eWEjvCRPrCo& ... WEjvCRPrCo

Well then I'm lost then. Either then hypersexual idividuals, if that's not the case then it certainly must be drug related. But geez guys get a grip with the sex dealz. I don't mind sex giggles, I loathe it, it's a good thing in my life in abundancy. I understand it's not for others though and that it can dominate their lives.

Got a theme song : (link above)

[impotentus (imported)]

This week, my boydriend got some vacation, so, worried about his health, we looked for some help with a psychologist, a sexologist and and a doctor.

I confronted him about street drugs and he told me he was clean. His older brother died of an overdose and he loathes these things. He went and took some tests about drugs, hormones, and several others. he also showed me some test that was done to him a few days ago, as part of his medical check up at his job.

The sexologist told us that his hormone levels are normal, however, mostly males at his age are this way. From this way, we got the next results:

a) most males at his age (30) are this way, and have this drive. B) he is using sex to relieve himself from excesive stress. C) All of this jerking off from his part actually makes him hornier (I still don´t get this).

LAter that day, we went to the psychologist to get some counceling about this situation. we got the next results:

a) he should be more passionate in the relationship. b) I should be more accepting of his sexual drive.

c) I should become more supportive (?) with him.

d) About my selfsteem, it´s seems that I am okay.

During the evening, we were talking about his situation. He then suddenly started crying. he, bitterly claimed: you got fed up with me, right? you want a reason to split up? I am not the man you wanted me to be? After I cleared some things for him, he continued crying bitterly. He admitted that the situation got him against the wall. I´ve always known that he loves porn, likes BDSM, some heavy play, it´s dominant, etc. However, can be downright breaking that such a man like him, crying, is weird. After a few hours, we were making up him the bed, just cuddling, he told me that he cannot imagine his life without me nor wants to, and he deeply lover me. with HIS EXACT WORDS: I just can´t imagine my life without you. You´re pretty special to me, it´s just I am not very good to express my love towards you. I just wanna lie at your side forever. I can´t live without hearing your voice, without seeeing you.

At the next day, we got closer. while I can easily tell that his drive his strong as ever, he triues to hide it. I´ve talked with him a lot about his sexuality, it´s my duty to accept it. we even are planning a "honeymoon trip" , since this weird situation has brought us togheter. Thank you all guys, I am a few days ago from another counceling session.

[impotentus (imported)]

My boyfriend got some call to testify against a doctor who overdosed a patient and he died. He told me that situation was causing some heavy stress on his side, as he was put on a heavy risk of losing his job. Since then, he looks more relaxed and calm. Still he has some vacation days, so we are making ourselver more romantic. LAst night, he came with a bouquet made from roses and other beautiful flowers. We have talked about our sexuality a lot, and he seems to love it. He is jerking off a lot less, usually because I accep his drive now a lot better. WE even had sex in the most weird places in our home, like kitchen, laundry room, gtarage, etc. He has started again to worship me, which feels weird.

[impotentus (imported)]

I forgot to mention one thing: how it´s supposed that jerking off many times a day makes you hornier? I´ve heard similar things but none of them makes sense. As soon as I have news I will post them. THANKS!!!

[Uncle Flo (imported)]

My understanding is that each following masturbation session, in a short length of time, becomes marginally less satisfying than the one before, therefore, triggering a desire to orgasm again in hope to regain the thrill of the previous time. It is a variety of an addiction response. --FLO--

[foxytaur (imported)]

My understanding is that each following masturbation session, in a short length of time, becomes marginally less satisfying than the one before, therefore, triggering a desire to orgasm again in hope to regain the thrill of the previous time. It is a variety of an addiction response. --FLO--

http://youtube.com/watch?v=6mo2vUEPuA4& ... mo2vUEPuA4

That's another thing. The addiction, In my case, doesn't stem from human porn but japanese manga, tentacles , furry or folk dressed up in animmal suits screwing each another. That's a alot of creativity I suppose

[butterflyjack (imported)]

Impotensus, your post about him professing his love and deep need for you was very touching...I'm growing to really like this guy..You two seem to have a lovely, tender, loving relationship...Keep working on it...I envy you guys....Have fun...Smooches Jackie