HELP ME I want no erection at all: is it possible?

[nailbd73 (imported)]

Hello

First excuse me for my english.

I'm here to find some information about how to make any erection impossible at all.

In fact i have always been clearly obsessed by sex and i can't stand it anymore. I'm fighting against my erections day after day and i'm really near of suicide because of that. Now i'm decided to know more about how to get castrated and find some people to help me to achieve that.

So i found this forum. Maybe there is some existing threads that talk about the same thing, if yes please send me the links.

Many many thanks you for your help.

[Paolo]

Welcome to the zoo.

Your English seems fine. Also feel free to post in your native language, as others may pick it up and comment.

You'll find plenty of posts here about chemical castration. Unlike many other forums out there, you are not restricted from posting or using the SEARCH function here.

If you are comfortable with doing it, please tell us a bit more about why your issue with erections is making you suicidal.

[nailbd73 (imported)]

thanks for having answer

i want no erection because of course it's a mess when you're having it. You loose your mind and there is no escape but going to ejaculation, buteverything can restart two minutes later! it occurs many serious physical problems when done so often. the eyes are touched, your loose energy,you go mad. yes it's true. since i knew the mental and physical problems could came from that, i tried and i achieved to control my erections. No erections during two years.i dit it! I managed to do it for the first times because it saw the big benefits on my health and was very very happy to retrieve life gust. It was 4 years ago but now i can't control myself so strongly and i can't live any hour without controlling my penis. My life is a mess and could be very happy without that,i live 30% of what i could, i can't stand it anymore, i want to get rid of that shit,i'm living that hell for more than ten years, i want no wife, no children, i just want to live with the eunuch calm, but chemical castration is not a solution because you can still have erection, i know because i tried androcur during three months. it's harder to ejaculate but not to be exited. and you have less energy so less consciouness to control yourself. No, what i want is to find the solution to delete any possibilities of erections, at 100%!!! i guess there is a mechanism of erection, so i can't think that there is no possibilities to mechanically destroy it. and even if it means no penis at all, i'm ready for that.

So thank you to tell me if it's possible

[nailbd73 (imported)]

I mean, it appears that there's a lot of people here who wants castration because they want to control their sex drive, although castration can't delete erections at 100%. Is there everyone here interested in a more efficient solution? am i the only one who thinks to it?

[Royal Creative (imported)]

Try reading this thread :

http://www.eunuch.org/forums/showthread ... Safer-quot

My penis can´t get fully erect, because of the banding.The erctions that i´ve are also very weak.On a daily basis I don´t get the spontaneous ones.

What I think thaat have happen is that I´ve "untrained" my mechanics.

[SplitDik (imported)]

nailbd73,

I think you're confusing erections and libido. There are lots of guys with erection difficulties that are still horny as hell -- stopping the erection directly doesn't help. What you need to do is to lower the libido. There are two ways that I know that can lower libido -- first is increasing seratonin in the brain by using certain SSRI style anti-depressants (Celexa worked well for me for this, and a friend of mine recently confided the same thing -- Celexa made orgasm impossible and uninteresting), second is castration (basically either eliminating testosterone or blocking its action in the body) through either surgical or chemical means.

I would start with the anti-depressants because if it works it still allows you to otherwise "be a man" in terms of physical strength, shape and energy levels. Loss of libido is considered a bad side effect for most people, and doesn't occur to everyone, but it is reasonably common. The only thing I didn't like about Celexa is that I felt too detached (I'm usually a high-energy kind of guy and it felt like I was "losing my edge" in terms of mental sharpness). You can actually get it prescribed for sex addiction -- just see a psychiatrist and explain that sex addiction is adversely affecting your life.

Otherwise, you have to progress to castration, in which case you should start with chemical castration (since it is a good way to trial the experience and see if you like it, as it is mostly reversible). There is a lot of information on this on this forum. The main thing though is that castration has side effects -- humans are basically meant to have some hormones working in their body -- it affects muscle, fat, brain function, etc. -- and castration is equivalent to being a post-menopause woman physically and emotionally. Osteoperosis is a real problem when you don't have sex hormones.

Anyway, my first point is don't try to stop the erections themselves, but rather work on reducing the libido that causes the erections.

[nullorchis (imported)]

When it comes to the reproduction process nature really gave humans a double dose of bad.

Maybe it was not so bad thousands of years ago when humans did not live very long, like maybe 25 years or so.

We needed to have sex as soon as puberty started so that a baby could be born and raised.

Death of parents occurred roughly about the time the child entered puberty.

And so a fairly stable population was maintained.

Once the baby making years are over, nature does not know to shut down the baby making drivers.

Nature made sex pleasurable to overcome how disgusting it really is.

Other life forms do it really without knowing what they are doing or why.

Although male lions do seem to really enjoy doing it over and over with females in their harem.

But again, that is nature's way of spreading the sperm around to create multiple mixtures of DNA in offspring.

Survival of the healthy and most fit is natures way of improving the gene pool.

But humans have even messed that up.

Many imperfections we have are medically fixed or mitigated.

Such as bad teeth, poor eye sight, and any number of things that would have led us to an early grave back in the dark ages.

And those imperfections are passed on, even amplified, into future generations.

The really good looking people seem to be either gay or don't have many babies.

The not so good looking, or those with medical problems, seem to reproduce profusely, and continue the down ward spiral of the DNA pool.

And so now, we live longer, we are overpopulating the planet.

Our sex drive may reduce in older age which is a small saving grace, but in middle age, it is burning us up.

It causes otherwise intelligent men to do an incredible array of bad things and make poor decisions.

The roll call is full of politicians and sports stars who let their balls get the best of them.

Bottom line, if you don't want babies, if you want to eliminate your libido, just do it. Anyway possible, without causing negative side effects.

There is no logical reason why men should suffer through a lifetime of libido when it is not needed or wanted.

Nature has not had time to adapt humans to a long life cycle, and it may never do so.

So we must take matters into our own hands, literally, and do what nature was never programmed to do.

Eliminate the libido.

Since nature is in control, it naturally prevents most men from thinking thoughts of libido destruction.

It is natural and normal to think that anyone who wants to eliminate their libido has really gone off the deep end.

Nature made having sex feel good, for a few moments, and that has tremendous power over wanting to lose those feelings.

But personally, I think anyone who manages to overcome the overpowering effects of nature's reproduction process has progressed to a higher level.

It is natural and normal to fear the loss of libido, and erections; that's the way nature "wants it to be".

However, from personal experience, the loss of libido, when it is something you wanted to happen, is truly a beautiful thing.

For a man who did not want to lose their libido, it is a thing of eternal frustration for they do not know how to reprogram themselves to enjoy the benefits.

The problem of course is in eliminating the libido.

Tens of thousands of years of evolution, and complex biological processes make it very difficult to safely and easily shut down this process.

But thankfully there are ways.

One must be dedicated, driven, persistent, and proceed with caution, to overcome how nature and society and the government want us to live.

I chose what I thought to be a method with some, but lower risk; alcohol injections.

It took a lot to overcome my apprehension, fear, and acquire the necessary materials, and endure some pain and discomfort.

But I was driven, compelled, with no doubt that I had to get rid of a sex drive that was ruining my life.

Unfortunately I did not discover how to do this earlier in my life; there was no internet or way to learn and share such information.

Today there are fewer reasons why someone should live a life that is polluted by a sex drive that they do not need or want.

So, good luck to you, whoever you may be.

It's hell going through the process.

Nature is fighting your thoughts every step of the way.

Conflicts and confusion are normal.

But if one is truly convinced, committed, they will do their research, and press on, in a safe way, to do what nature just does not know what to do or how to do it.

It's your life. Live it as YOU choose, not as nature wants you to live it.

[SplitDik (imported)]

Nature made sex pleasurable to overcome how disgusting it really is.

I think this is the most important idea that helps explains fetishes.

Objectively, sex is gross, dangerous and expensive. It is gross because pretty much every sex act involves bodily fluids which under normal circumstances we go out of our way to avoid. It is dangerous in many ways, including STDs, predators, ostracisation due to societal morals, etc. It is expensive in terms of courting, pregnancy, etc.

With so many major negatives, our sex drive fundamentally overrides multiple levels of logic and basic aversions. A woman or gay guy that would never let someone sneeze in their mouth may happily gobble down cum. A person who lives an extremely healthy life (my case) will still risk deadly or crippling diseases for a quickie.

I believe this override of aversion explains most fetishes and perversions because to override an aversion your brain must sort of cross wire the pleasure and displeasure values in the brain, and can actually invert the proper value system.

To me this explains why apparently there are enough guys that will actually pay for "brown showers" that most escorts actively advertise the service. I mean seriously, pretty much the grossest thing that can be done is somehow being made pleasurable.

In particular, I've noticed that when I'm horny I'm willing to do things that afterwards I go "why did I do that". The sex drive really makes a person temporarily insane.

I think this explains why people sadly get caught up in other taboos -- anything dangerous or gross becomes exciting. Pedophilia, rape, zoophilia, etc.

I wish there was more serious study on this particular aspect of the brain's working. I'm pretty certain that sex drive purposefully cross-wires our pleasures and aversions and is the root of most bad sexual behavior.

[nailbd73 (imported)]

No. i can't solve my problems by a mind therapy.It's about 8 years that i try to do it and no results,now my life has become a mess.I need a surgical to make this penis impossible to erect.

So i'm here to find people who want the same thing or can give me information on how to get it.

I'm a mess because of sex,so i want to be delivered from myself. We accept that the transsexual do it and i think my reasons are as good as theirs.

I’m 29 and since i’ve been able to erect,my life gone worst every year.

I was a brilliant kid and now i’m totally under my life possibilities, because i can’t control myself and can’t keep my mind from thinking about controlling myself. I masturbated more than a lot all my teenager life, with all the health and social consequencies. Now i try to maintain sexual abstinencia.It’s very hard but I can’t do without.I can’t say:ok sometimes you can’t do it. No.I can’t.

I want to live with no possibilities at all to get erections.

I’m under Cyprotrone acetate for 6 months,it’s help me but it’s not enough.I think about it everytime:controlling those erections.I live as slow as possible to control it.I walk slow,i move slow,i try to reduce my stress to minimum.I’m not able to do sports like before,i stay on my appartment ,in the streets i can’t stand all those girls and all the ads who refer to sexuality, working is harder every day because there’s some stress and move activity in my job.

I try to maintain abstinencia for 8 years but i can’t do that longer,it’s not a life,i’m near suicide, i wan’t to get rid of that.

I want a surgical. But i know that even castrated, erections still be possible.And i don’t want to suffer the hormonal consequences. So what i want to know is:what can be done instead of castration?

Penectomy? Or is there an operation which can delete the possibility of blood influx to the penis? Can we only cut this vein?

I hope you know more.

Many thanks to help me.