Just gotta ask...

[peter4u (imported)]

Dear A-1:

Did anyone ever tell you how cool you are?

And NeosCrow comes from the two films that influenced me on a personal level:

The Crow - Starring the late Brandon Lee. Boy do I have a GHOST story for you...well, on another board, in another forum and another life perhaps.

The Matrix - simply put, it made me change my religion.

later.

[LonePanther88 (imported)]

A willing eunuch, however - well now I see why women of ancient times sought them and desired to be in the company of them all the time. A eunuch is the embodiment of freedom from fleshly desire. Very spiritual, actually. As a woman, I think I've more control over my urges than a typical man, but yet I have them and eventually am forced to give in to them. It's called being in heat. And I'm not being vulgar or funny, but any woman will tell you that when she's ovulating, she needs something horrible. Hell that egg wants to be fertilized, dammit! (chuckle) And we as humans have to constantly fight what is so absolutely natural, or give in. Sad enough, neither option is all that great when you consider the emotional strains it my induce. Eunuchs are free of that, free to focus on more important things and not on the urges of their body. I think I'm beginning to understand.

Would I myself become a female nullo? Hm. More than likely not because I have this insane desire suddenly (as with most girls my age) to procreate. Dammit all. I just turned 29 yesterday and the urge to have children is taking over like a Nevada wild fire. It's on my mind constantly but it depresses me because I treasure stability

Happy Birthday Neoscrow

So is it safe to say then that You like many other Women out there detest physical intimacy and being touched? If so, why is that?:(

I see sex as something beautiful and not just a mere "urge". Sex to me is a way of conveying love and admiration to someone physically........as a way of healing that person's emotions after a long, harsh day.........and as a way of exploring someone else's spirit and bonding with that person. (not the ONLY way but one of the more enjoyable and addictive ways)

EVERYBODY needs physical contact.........especially the intimate kind:D

A hospital that I heard of conducted an experiment with abandoned infants a long time ago. The experiment was this: Half of the babies were given everything they needed to survive EXCEPT physical contact. They were sung to and talked to but no contact with anyone else. The other half of the babies were given the same thing but WITH touch and physical contact. Half of the babies died and half did not. Can You guess which half lived?:(

Sad story but true.

Every time I hear someone say that they dislike sex it reminds me of the "Borg" on StarTrek. "Such useless activities are irrelevant" - Said with a dead, emotionless face

I hope I am not offending You by saying these things but its just that I...........don't understand....................and I hope I never do.

I could never (even as a eunuch) just look at a beautiful Woman and not want to touch Her and tickle Her and hear Her laugh

[haltlos (imported)]

Head up, LonePanther88:

Neoscrow:

"After all, my own rabbit-like libido is so out of control [...]" (http://www.eunuch.org/vbulletin/showthr ... 7#post7211)

I don't have the impression we have to worry about THAT...

But you both :(And others; have I been talking about stereotypes lately...?:tongueout )

"with Women nowadays being [...]"

"men are just [...] these days"

Could you please STOP that?

Please! :redbounce

I mean, we can start a thread of course on how people ARE nowadays, but I may assure you: You would be surprised...

After all, and even if you might have reasons to think what you think of men and/or women, THIS is a place where you can expect to meet people who are a LITTLE bit OFF center if I might say so, and you could be entiteled to do so just as they could too.

And even if you are just telling what you do and why you are doing what you do somewhere else

it ist still kinda impolite to give THIS reason HERE: (see above and see below)

"with Women nowadays being [...]"

"men are just [...] these days"

I mean, where are we?

love you,...

gus

[peter4u (imported)]

So is it safe to say then that You like many other Women out there detest physical intimacy and being touched? If so, why is that?

No no no....and thanks Gus, but I did mention the libido factor.

My issue with sex is that I find it problematic, probably like most men here do. Urges come when they're not wanted. When they come, they seem so controlling sometimes. Perhaps this is a sign of weakness. I don't know. Sex to me (hug a tree here) is sacred, that's all and should be shared with the one (ONE) person you choose as a life mate, but when that lifemate isn't there, sex becomes an issue, it becomes a problem. I for one, just cannot have sex for sex sake. I've been on plenty dates where my gal friends have said, "girl, just get laid and cut him loose. at least you'll feel better."

How the HELL do they wake up with themselves in the morning? I've one girlfriend who just has a booty-call black book and can get it whenever she wants. I can't do that. To me it's a total degredation of the union (not always marital) that two bodies are meant to have. I mean, is it me? Maybe I shouldn't be so uptight about who I'm intimate with?

I see sex as something beautiful and not just a mere "urge". Sex to me is a way of conveying love and admiration to someone physically........as a way of healing that person's emotions after a long, harsh day.........and as a way of exploring someone else's spirit and bonding with that person. (not the ONLY way but one of the more enjoyable and addictive ways)

And I agree wholeheartedly!

EVERYBODY needs physical contact.........especially the intimate kind

Again, I agree. But the longer I'm on this board the more I realize my attraction to Eunuchs. If I'm not in the mood, for whatever reason (or no reason at all) I don't think I have to worry about pressure, or "c'mon baby, just....a quicky". I don't think I have to worry about his pouting like a baby 'cause mommy wouldn't give him any or worse case scenario, that he'll look for it somewhere else. Grant it, if I want and he's not willing, okie dokie. Me, the vcr, and a toy will get along just fine, no harm done. THOUGH, I would at least ask why first before treading off to my part of the cave.

Besides, I crave affection first, and too many men (sorry gus, doing it again) associate affection with sex. NO! When will they ever get it right!

[LonePanther88 (imported)]

Sorry for offending You Neoscrow:(

I'll not say anymore

[A-1 (imported)]

bear with me, kid. Here we go on another big tongue wagging session... :tongueout

you say that...

...

the longer I'm on this board the more I realize my attraction to Eunuchs. If I'm not in the mood, for whatever reason (or no reason at all) I don't think I have to worry about pressure, or "c'mon baby, just....a quicky". I don't think I have to worry about his pouting like a baby 'cause mommy wouldn't give him any or worse case scenario, that he'll look for it somewhere else. Grant it, if I want and he's not willing, okie dokie. Me, the vcr, and a toy will get along just fine, no harm done. THOUGH, I would at least ask why first before treading off to my part of the cave.

Besides, I crave affection first, and too many men (sorry gus, doing it again) associate affection with sex. NO! When will they ever get it right!

I do not want you to take this the wrong way.

From an old married man, I can tell you that the hardest thing in the world is for two people to get along, regardless. I would suppose that Gay realtionships have these problems also, but having never been in one I have no experience to offer anyone about that.

You cannot take a position like...

I don't think I have to worry about his pouting like a baby 'cause mommy wouldn't give him any...

and expect to get along with another (him, her) for very long.

I will admit that sexual drive incompatability is the most difficult thing to deal with in a relationship.

I recall a time when I was in college, working two jobs, and struggling with advanced calculus and differential equations. My sex drive dropped to ZIP! ZILCH! NADA! NOTHING! dor about a month or two.

I remember that TLC that VI showed me and how one night of sex made things much better. Yes, everyone, the old horn-puppy lived through that time. It is all in approach and technique. It behooves us to learn that in different individuals the "sexual drive" buttons are not in the same places, either physically or psychologically.

You see, sex can be a healing experience. Especially if you are not at first in the mood. I understand that the demand for constant sex can get oppressive. But as you say, Eunuchs never have the urge. Theirs is a giving experience.

On the other hand, people who are not eunuchs have urges and drives. (This means you, me and everyone else who has the hormonal thing.) You must realize that is a human condition. I somebody "hits" on you for sex it is not always becasue the want to "use" you. It may be because they "like" you. Listen, ther is such a thing as love at forst sight. A small part of that love contains "LUST". Otherwise, the attraction is not as strong.

You say that...

Sex to me (hug a tree here) is sacred, that's all and should be shared with the one (ONE) person you choose as a life mate, but when that lifemate isn't there, sex becomes an issue, it becomes a problem. I for one, just cannot have sex for sex sake. I've been on plenty dates where my gal friends have said, "girl, just get laid and cut him loose. at least you'll feel better."

If you do not know if you are sexually compatable it can make BIG problems later on. For example, (this is going to be ludicrous) suppose that the dream man of your life likes to strip naked, put a latex glove on his head like a hat and then crow like a chicken during sexual intercourse. Further, suppose that this is the only way that he can climax.

The little sexual percadillos can mean curtains to a relationship.

To many people confuse promiscuity with sex before committment. Sexual monogamy is what you should consider. Would you buy a house to live in without first looking around inside? Of course not! This doesn't mean that yo need to go on the Saturday night board of realtors tour, either.

Neither should you jump into a comitted long-term relationship without the slightest inkling about how sexually compatable you may be with your betrothed.

Nobody in their right mind would even suggest sex for the sake of sex. It can mean HIV and a drastically altered lifestyle. Sometimes it is still fatal. Getting to know your partner first is the BEST thing that you are doing...so do not change that.

You have to be careful not to be too clingly, smothering or possessive, also, when the right one does finally come along.

Damn, girl, relationships are SOOO difficult and people are SOOO different that it is a wonder that ANY of us got born. I guess that is what hormones are all about. I mean, there just has to be some incentive to put up with other people, doesn't there?

I guess that the amount of sex that you are willing to consent to above and beyond your needs depends on your affection for your partner.

Well, tell me what you think about what I have said so far, and if you wish we can continue this line of discussion.

I think that I want to go out and get something to eat. (FOOD< HUNGER)<<

A-1

[peter4u (imported)]

LonePanther:

DUDE, I'm like NOT offended?

Did I sound offended? I'm sorry if I did.

Okay, I'm officially banning myself from posting in this forum during my week of you know what.

Damn, I'm grouchy.

Love you all.

Later.

(P.S. I think ANY male seeking to be a TG should have ovaries implanted. Maybe he'll think twice when the first montly wave hits him. )

[LonePanther88 (imported)]

Gee I wish I was a smart as A-1...........maybe someday huh?:D

Neoscrow........ Please don't bann Yerself.........this thread might get boring if ya do :redbounce

Besides everybody here likes You

I think this site needs more Women

[A-1 (imported)]

LonePanther88 is right...

Stay around.

We want you here.

PMS< whatever!< Men are just as hard to be around at times...

hard men are even more difficult...

A-1

[Linda (imported)]

I was a married straight male. We split up because of my desire to be castrated. I would just love to be at the hands of a woman who is going to castrate me.

Regards

Linda