Can a Woman love a Penectomized Man?

[seanthomas (imported)]

I'm dismayed at the notions that all women want is power over their husbands and believe sex is a way to achieve it. I have no balls or scrotum, no erections and my penis has shrunk to the point it's little more than a one inch shriveled nub. Yet my wife and I have a great sex life, albeit less frequent than in the past. The nub is sensitive as ever to oral and vibrators or strap-ons do the rest. My wife is every bit as happy in bed as she has ever been and we plan to keep it that way.

[Losethem (imported)]

In my opinion, it has absolutely nothing to do with a penis or pussy. It has everything to do with testosterone. The world as we all know it for better and worse was created because of it. Expand our species. World's to explore. Lands to create. Countries to conquer are all because of testosterone. Without it, there would be no New York City. I've said many times to women who try to marginalize men and masculinity. "Fly over Manhattan and see what MEN are capable of." Who explored and migrated the continental connections and sailed across it? Who conquered and settled it? Who created the roads, the infrastructure and built huge steel and glass palaces into the heavens out of it. Estrogen did not do that, testosterone did. Who created religion to control the masses and who created laws and government to move beyond religious control?

Catherine the Great might disagree with you.

I'm dismayed at the notions that all women want is power over their husbands and believe sex is a way to achieve it. I have no balls or scrotum, no erections and my penis has shrunk to the point it's little more than a one inch shriveled nub. Yet my wife and I have a great sex life, albeit less frequent than in the past. The nub is sensitive as ever to oral and vibrators or strap-ons do the rest. My wife is every bit as happy in

bed as she has ever been and we plan to keep it that way.

I'm firmly convinced those men who scream most loudly against male homosexuality are those who are dismayed at the so-called Power of Pussy or POP for short. I think they're ticked off at the perception sex and physical intimacy is easier for us, more than they are about any idea all gay men are undressing them with their eyes. Frankly, those who scream loudest about the latter are folks I probably have no desire to look at naked anyhow.

[drazkillez (imported)]

I guess you just have to be patient until she revealed.

[Fireangel017 (imported)]

Yes, I really have to admit, that since being divorced already more than 30 years ago I just had some few other, not very satisfying sexual encounters and for around 30 years now I'm mentally and emotionally castrated and prnectomized.

Had no more use of my genitals, no more intercourse, no morning wood left ... just nothing ...!

8 years ago I went into a chastity cage, then one smaller after another and my former respectable dick has shrunken into an almost not noticeable "Clitty" now.

I guess I must have had also some hormonal changes, my nipples grew, got 'em pierced and I seem not to produce semen anymore ..!

So yes, being mentally and emotionally castrated and penectomized is an experience for a fact.

Do I need to go through with it finally and do the "surgical thing" in the end ...?!?

[WheelyCurious]

Do I need to go through with it finally and do the "surgical thing" in the end ...?!?

Welcome to the forums...

In answer to your question - there is no "right answer" - it is totally a decision that YOU have to make, based on your feelings.... There is nothing I can think of that would make it medically necessary, the question is how you feel about the current state of your bits... If you like them the way they are, why change anything? If not, then it becomes a question of deciding what you want and then figuring out how to get there...

Arguably you couldn't self identify as a "nullo" w/o the surgery by the strict technical definition, but does that really matter?

WheelyCurious

[JessicaH (imported)]

How’s that going these days?

[moi621 (imported)]

Lately I imagine a short hard stump

when aroused, incapable of penetration.

But she enjoys being on top and using

it to rub herself to satisfaction

Moi

[krebstar (imported)]

I imagine a long, romanticised scene:

Me: naked and locked into a penis guillotine - a compact device around my midsection, though capable of instantly un-manning me.

My wife, by my side, as we discussed the pros and cons of our mutual decision - what would be best for the both of us?

Her hand on the blade release...

We kiss...

[XBrad93X (imported)]

To answer the question, I remember a couple who were into trampling. They made several clips to sell on c4s.

I remember the guy got cut at some time. He got like half the dick cut off.

They then left, some time after and he found a new girlfriend quite soon. So, yes ... I think there are not too many problems for a woman to love a penectomized man.

[Nitewatch (imported)]

As long as the women enjoys oral I don't see why a women would not find herself attracted to a Penectomized man as long as they click in all other aspects of life as well.