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Danya (imported) wrote: Mon Sep 27, 2010 4:35 pm Furthermore, I have been informed, PhDs cannot relate to the 'common man.' They do no manual labor.

Does your informant have any idea how many "common men" actually perform manual labor? The common man probably couldn't tie a square knot, dig a fence post hole, or kill a chicken to save his life. I hope you don't count such a jaded, suspicious, prententious person among your friends. You deserve better.
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butterflyjack (imported) wrote: Mon Sep 27, 2010 6:31 pm Wow Danya...you said a mouthful..Hehe...And who the eff wants to be "the common man"? I'd much rather be the uncommon man..the man who searches for truths...the man who seeks to help his fellow "uncommon man"..or woman.

One is worthless unless one physically "works" for a living...? Geezuz...What Luddite thinking..I love your thinking....smooches dragonfly

Dragonfly,

There are
gareth19 (imported) wrote: Tue Sep 28, 2010 12:20 am reasons this person feels this way. I still do not like it.

Does your informant have any idea how many "common men" actually perform manual labor? The common man probably couldn't tie a square knot, dig a fence post hole, or kill a chicken to save his life. I hope you don't count such a jaded, suspicious,
prententious person among your friends. You deserve better.

Thank you, Gareth19, for your perceptive comments. You are right on.
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1. I a
Danya (imported) wrote: Fri Sep 24, 2010 5:49 pm m still waiting to hear if I will be offer
ed the "3-interview" job. A friend was just offered a job there, 2 1/2 months after they started the interview process. So it could be weeks more before I hear something.

2. Breasts very sore now that I am up to 10mg estradiol per day. I have had to abandon my preferred sleeping position. :)

3. Express mailed GRS deposit to Montreal this afternoon. I went to the post office in the first lower level of the Sears (Willis) Tower. A woman clerk there always recognizes me, even though I've only been there four or five times over the last few months.

4. Getting into a few 'deep' philosophical/spiritual text messaging at the office. This company is, by far, the most diverse in cultures, ethnic groups, religions and so on of any I have corporation I have worked at. The corporate diversity is also greater than that in the metro region.

One young man texts me and we soon go off on a tangent. After a few minutes, I ask what he needs. He typically responds that he 'almost forgot.' He is rather young and addresses me as "ma'am." I told him to feel free to call me by my first name if he were comfortable with this. He wrote that he is not, since I am 'wise and experienced -- and more than 15 years his senior'. 😄 I'm glad that, at least in conference calls, he does not announce to callers that "ma'am" has joined the meeting. He uses my name for these calls.

There are lots of things I want to write. I'm down with a bad cold, though. I don't have the energy. A woman friend at work said the cold gave me a 900-number type of sexy voice. :)
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I'm still not feeling well. This afternoon, I was caught up at work and feeling really lousy. I had two late afternoon meetings, so I checked to see if my rescheduling these would be a problem. It was not, so I left early to rest at home and drink plenty of fluids. :)

I have mentioned that my workplace is highly diverse. I revel in this diversity.

Age is, for the most part, not an issue. At least not as far as being an older employee goes. There are quite a few of us.

A young Hindu man (I looked up the origin of his name) at the office never fails to treat me with the utmost respect. I imagine he is very polite with everyone. He says he should pay respect to my esteemed position and age. :) I'm not at all sure what 'esteemed position' he is referring to; we both work at a similar level.

He does seek advice from me on certain work matters.

The young man who sits next to me, whom I consider to be my mentor, now shares many thoughts on work and life with me. We are, to the extent possible and appropriate at work, becoming friends. I am easily old enough to be his mother. He is generous with his time and very willingly shares his knowledge.

Both the young Hindu man and my "next door neighbor" share thoughts and information with me through text messaging. I am starting to see more value in this mode of communication. No one can overhear, for one thing, although it is likely at least some of these messages are monitored by corporate security.

This morning, I had the rare opportunity to speak with a coworker by phone. 😄 Her computer was down, so there was no other option.

Multi-tasking is highly valued at the office. The studies showing that multi-tasking may lead one to erroneously think more is being accomplished (while in fact efficiency and effectiveness drop) are apparently unknown at work. Multi-tasking is both expected and admired.

Early in the afternoon, I was on a conference call with people in states spread out across the continent. At the same time, I was in text message chats with two coworkers. In addition, I was responding to the global help desk through their instant message program while answering an email.
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I should have stuck with my earlier decision to stop regularly posting on EA, when
Danya (imported) wrote: Wed Sep 08, 2010 7:27 pm I ended my transition thread.
The thing is, I enjoy writing. As I have said, it also helps me sort through my emotions and thoughts. I will find another outlet for this.

This is a difficult time for me. I'm dealing with new emotional development, largely a result of my estrogen level being ramped up, at a time when I am under a lot of stress while I still seek a permanent job. I am concerned that what I write may not always be a true reflection of who I am. Instead, I'm revealing some of the processing of my thoughts and emotions. These are things that people interacting with me do not see and, especially at this point, that is probably a good thing.

The same thing applies here. I may be misunderstood and I do not want that.

I will post periodically on other parts of EA when I have something big to report. Like a new job :)

Many thanks to everyone on this site who has been so kind to me. This is a very personal decision and I ask that no one ask me to continue writing regularly.
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Dear Danya,

I look forward to reading your updates and find them to be very interesting and informative. DON'T STOP!!

Hi Mac,

I have been ill and not thinking entirely clearly. I was very concerned by a message from someone here I have always cared about and still do.

I will probably continue to post. I'm just confused right now.

Thanks for your kindness.

Danya
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I'll miss you Danya...I see everything you wish for coming true...as is deserved... If you wish to talk, I'll always be available...smooches dragonfly
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butterflyjack (imported) wrote: Sun Oct 03, 2010 9:54 am I'll miss you Danya...I see everything you wish for coming true...as is deserved... If you wish to talk, I'll always be available...smooches dragonfly

Hi dragonfly,

I will continue to post here fairly regularly, as I told Mac. I'm stressed out and not feeling well with this bad cold. Life is good, but the continuing uncertainty of not having a full-time, permanent job is wearing on me.

I realize I may have to move again to have a permanent job. I've already moved three times this year, once from out of state. The thought of perhaps needing to move to another state again is stressful.

I need to simplify some things in my life. 'X' knows I cannot continue to tutor him on a regular basis. I enjoy this, but with work and the long commute I do not have the time. That's another source of stress.

Generally, things are going well. I will be very glad, though, when my life settles down so I have some sense of place and belonging.

Thanks for writing.

Danya
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I'm so glad you're not leaving....and wish you well in all your pursuits... Get lots of rest....smooches dragonfly
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being stressed takes a toll on a persons life from many ways, (took a good toll on my health the past yr and half)

being a temp keeps the stress up,

then add transition to that stress, you are over the top in stress,

remember ,you have alot of people here who wish you the best,

thing is dont keep everything bottled up inside, you enjoy writing, if it reliefs the stress, keep doing it, we will be here to listen ;)
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