Sexual Harassment!

[OneBallBoi (imported)]

I am wondering if other couples have to endure Sexual Harassment. 5 years ago, when I first moved in with Bobbie; we went to Mirror Lake State Park for our first camping trip together. On registering the lady asked Bobbie what his wife's name was and then looked at me. I said, "Excuse me." She then apologized up hill and down for her words..

This last week we went fishing at Bong Recreational Area. The Ranger came to the fishing pier and asked for our fishing licenses.. Bobbie got them out of the tackle box. The Ranger looked closely at them, noting the address was the same on both licenses and then said, "But both of these licenses are for "Males". I was sitting facing away from him, I then turned around and stated.. Yes sir, My name is Ralph and his name is Bob. The Ranger then apologized up hill and down and stated, "That should have not come out, I am so sorry." I know I have Man Boobs.. But yea who know me, "Do I look that much like a woman?" I don't think so...I call it discrimination, Sexual harassment.

[Ernie of Maine (imported)]

Boi No it,s not sexual harassment. You just surprise them it is something new and very different for them that,s all. Ernie.

[transward (imported)]

Given that the most beautiful people of both sexes are often very androgynous (i.e. Marlene Dietrich, or Tony Curtis in "Some Like it Hot," or any one of a series of teeny bopper idols) I'm not sure whether you should be complaining or bragging.

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[sensenbender (imported)]

Given that the most beautiful people of both sexes are often very androgynous (i.e. Marlene Dietrich, or Tony Curtis in "Some Like it Hot," or any one of a series of teeny bopper idols) I'm not sure whether you should be complaining or bragging.

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That's my thought too! I have a good friend (male) who would be thrilled to mistaken for a woman. It would definitely have made his day.

[A-1 (imported)]

I am wondering if other couples have to endure Sexual Harassment. 5 years ago, when I first moved in with Bobbie; we went to Mirror Lake State Park for our first camping trip together. On registering the lady asked Bobbie what his wife's name was and then looked at me. I said, "Excuse me." She then apologized up hill and down for her words..

This last week we went fishing at Bong Recreational Area. The Ranger came to the fishing pier and asked for our fishing licenses.. Bobbie got them out of the tackle box. The Ranger looked closely at them, noting the address was the same on both licenses and then said, "But both of these licenses are for "Males". I was sitting facing away from him, I then turned around and stated.. Yes sir, My name is Ralph and his name is Bob. The Ranger then apologized up hill and down and stated, "That should have not come out, I am so sorry." I know I have Man Boobs.. But yea who know me, "Do I look that much like a woman?" I don't think so...I call it discrimination, Sexual harassment.

You should have told her that you did not have wives but instead you had consensual two female slaves who chose to ride in the trunk as an act of devotion and that the rest stayed home to take care of the commune.

Then, you could have offered to let her join the commune and become one of your concubine/slaves in the commune harem.

[OneBallBoi (imported)]

I went to the DNA web page and under the contact customer service area, I left a message about my plight.. I got a call back from the superior of the Park Ranger that made the mistake. Her excuse was that I really really did look like a girl. But that they would soon be having a State Wide Park Ranger meeting and the entire subject would addressed at that. She admitted that it is a subject that needed training in their group..

I am very very much astonished that the Rangers feel that I look like a female..Because I do not think I do at all. I admit that I have "Man Boobs" ever since my castration where before I was completely flat chested. My castration had pure Religious meaning to me and was in no attempt to become female. I became castrated purely from the internal struggle between being Gay and being a Christian.. Because I was Gay, I did not want any sexual feeling toward another. Now how did I make myself look more masculine~

[gandalf (imported)]

well, I am gay and a Christian. Of course, my cstration was more for medical reasons (NOT cancer) than religious. And, being castrated did not take away my sexual desires of Bent (gayness). I guess, mostly, the desire to PERFORM either with my widfe or a male. Asi Es La Vida

[DeaconBlues (imported)]

Sorry but I must disagree with the way you seem to be taking this OneBallBoi.

I do not think the park rangers were being deliberately mean or insensitive towards you in any way. If they mistake you for a woman that is NOT an insult to you, sincerely I see it as a compliment and I feel that you should be flattered, not angry.

The ranger who accidentally let out his observation that "both licences are for males" was probably NOT trying to humiliate anyone. He just observed that something unusual to his experiences was happening, he was looking at the fishing licences of two adult males and those two males appeared to be at the same address. There is nothing wrong with two adult males being at the same address, actually there is everything right about it for you and your partner, but the ranger had probably checked thousands of fishing licences and had not regularly encountered that particular situation. He made a very small and insignificant mistake to offer an observation of it in that way (

"But both of these licenses are for

'Males'"), but that event as you describe it, does not seem to me to show any deliberate insensitivity on the part of the ranger. He made a mistake, I often make mistakes, I bet we all do, and we all need to get over the trivial mistakes. Same can be said for the incident with the other ranger (who asked for "your wife's name?"

), and really, that was five years ago.

You say you are "very very much as

tonished that the Rangers feel that I look like a female.." but are you humiliated by that? Are you angry about it? If it bothers you, maybe you should dress in a way that better conceals your "man boobs" and get a short haircut. Personally, I do not think you should ever conceal your "man boobs" or cut your hair just so that other people can more easily see that you are not female. I do not believe that an androgynous or feminine appearance is anything to be ashamed of, but honestly it seems that you do, I think that is wrong.

[Mac (imported)]

OneBallBoi sounds to me like both could have been honest mistakes. With so many women dressing more like men today it could be easy to make that mistake. I personally would accept it as a compliment and not be offended if honestly mistaken for a woman. However, everybody is entitled to his/her preference.

[kristoff]

Sorry but I must disagree with the way you seem to be taking this OneBallBoi.

I do not think the park rangers were being deliberately mean or insensitive towards you in any way. If they mistake you for a woman that is NOT an insult to you, sincerely I see it as a compliment and I feel that you should be flattered, not angry.

The ranger who accidentally let out his observation that "both licences are for males" was probably NOT trying to humiliate anyone. He just observed that something unusual to his experiences was happening, he was looking at the fishing licences of two adult males and those two males appeared to be at the same address. There is nothing wrong with two adult males being at the same address, actually there is everything right about it for you and your partner, but the ranger had probably checked thousands of fishing licences and had not regularly encountered that particular situation. He made a very small and insignificant mistake to offer an observation of it in that way (

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"But both of these licenses are for

'Males'"), but that event as you describe it, does not seem to me to show any deliberate insensitivity on the part of the ranger. He made a mistake, I often make mistakes, I bet we all do, and we all need to get over the trivial mistakes. Same can be said for the inciden
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You say you are "very very much as

tonished that the Rangers feel that I look like a female.." but are you humiliated by that? Are you angry about it? If it bothers you, maybe you should dress in a way that better conceals your "man boobs" and get a short haircut. Personally, I do not think you should ever conceal your "man boobs" or cut your hair just so that other people can more easily see that you are not female. I do not believe that an androg
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ynous or feminine appearance is anything to be ashamed of, but honestly it seems that you do, I think that is wrong.

I know OBB. Therre is NO mistaking him for a woman. Man boobs or not. NONE.